Family & Relationships - 5 October 2007

I'm sick and tired of the singles category always flooded with these sappy questions. Do the opposite! Let's talk trash about love! Who needs that when we can have plenty of friends! Trash Valentine Day! Go out and hassle and make fun of all the couples! Celebrate your independence, for you are free! Free to choose and free to explore this wonderful country of ours for weeks without end! I'm tired of all the married or other couples always ignoring me JUST BECAUSE I'M SINGLE!! Get together with your single friends, and Don't invite any couples. Let's see how they like it to be the ones ignored for a change. Together and alone we are Singles who are free with the full right of self-determination. Yes! Single and Free!

2007-10-05 13:58:08 · 2 answers · asked by The cool dude 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend are going to a party in a couple or days and everyone is going to bug us to kiss. We both want to but not in front or anyone. We're thinking about sneaking outside when everyones watching a movie. Should we kiss? If so how do I. And what should I not do? (first kiss, 12 years old) please no your too young commments. Thanks!

2007-10-05 13:53:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Since I'm dating the star football player, everyone is saying that I am having sex with him and that I'm pregant. And I having even slept with him. Seriously I am losing my mind, and I'm afraid that these rumors are going to ruin my relationship.

2007-10-05 13:50:57 · 33 answers · asked by shannon s 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-05 13:50:54 · 17 answers · asked by jo ann F 1 in Singles & Dating

this guy says he likes me but he cant have anything serious with me because he is older than me and because sex is important to him. (and i am virgin and dont want to have sex yet..marriage concept) anyway.. does he like me if he thinks that way.....what do u think

2007-10-05 13:49:51 · 13 answers · asked by gold luck! 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been pretty mad at my friend lately. She cusses a lot and doesn't talk very nice. Anyway, she got one of my other friends in a lot of trouble, and I'm really mad at her now. She then asked me etoday if I was mad at her. What should I do, since I don't want to say, "You're not a nice person to be cussing a lot and I don't like that way you talk?"?

2007-10-05 13:49:48 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i had absolutely NO sexuall interest in this guys i know...and i found out he liked me...then after a while he stopped payin so much attention to me...now hes all i think about and i find him so ****** hot....is this natural cuz i know its SO bit'tchy

2007-10-05 13:47:49 · 1 answers · asked by hot.butsweet 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok ive known this gut for a vry long time but imt even friends with him really. But dont think this is cause he dosn't like me, because he doesn't hang out with many girls & im really shy around him. Pleae give me some advice on how to get his attention. i like him as a friend and maybe more. Help.

2007-10-05 13:46:24 · 14 answers · asked by rose 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok theres this girl, me and my friends hang out where she is sometimes and she always looks at me and smiles. Every time I pass by her to go somewhere she looks at me and smiles and looks away likes shes embarrassed. I really dont know the girl I know who she is and she knows who I am but we really havnt talked. I need help what does this mean?

2007-10-05 13:45:26 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what happen to the person . did youguys still keep in touch over the pasted years or had lost in touch or wishes wanna to find her/ him over again.

2007-10-05 13:40:32 · 19 answers · asked by statecalifornia2009 7 in Singles & Dating

What can we do to make her look like a monkey in court? We always pay child support on time, we end up buying all their clothes, their school supplies, their games, toys etc. they are 11, 15, and 16. She gets $2,100 a month in child support....plus all of this other stuff we get for the children. She is taking us back to court after only a year of having it set. My husbands attorney says we are paying more than we have to already. She was supposed to have her car refinanced according to the divorce decree and didn't, she got $40,000 in the divorce settlement and could have easily paid it off..instead she got a tummy tuck any lypo. I am really angry and want revenge without moving the children out of her home because that would upset them....we could because she works nights and weekends and is never home when they are. Any suggestions?..I am sick of the control plays she puts on us. The reason they divorced was because she had a long term affair and became pregnant. Got dumped

2007-10-05 13:39:59 · 15 answers · asked by Rein 5 in Marriage & Divorce

what does it mean if my ex-boyfriend send me flowers on my birthday and signs the card with "love" and then his name? there is soooooooooooooooooo much more to the story than this. short version.....we just had a baby together, his mother (i think, but am pretty positive) wants him all to herself b/c he pays her bills, he has not seen the baby in over a month, he's admitted to being a momma's boy, ask me to marry him now has changed his mind and a lot of other things. anyways...why in the world would he send me flowers on my birthday? the arrangement even came with a teddy bear and hershey kisses!!! i'm so confused. i love him and care about him deeply, but have just gotten used to the idea of not being with him. i filed for child support too. i just know that if we were ever to get back together he would have to move out of his mother's house (it's actually his house). he has acted like he does not care, but sending me flowers? and remembering my birthday? i need some advice.

2007-10-05 13:39:15 · 1 answers · asked by nena 2 in Singles & Dating

How would you feel and react if your husband got an email from a girl he had sex with that she was pregnant and miscarried at the same time you got pregnant??

He told me he hadn't had sex with anyone for 6 months before he met me.....

We don't have a normal relationship...he is very jealous and insecure and has always brought up stuff in my past...but now he has 3 girls from his past repeatedly trying to contact him and now this email....

As far as I know he is faithful...I have no reason to believe he isn't....

He also said he never had sex without a condom but she swears he didn't wear one....

I've always been 100% honest with him....

She said it's been on her mind and she was scared to tell him because he was in college and had just found out I was pregnant...but she needed to get it off her chest...

2007-10-05 13:38:31 · 15 answers · asked by mommyx3 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My mom never wears jewelry even though she's got some really nice jewelry. So the typical is impossible. Any suggestions?

2007-10-05 13:37:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I HATE my last name and want to take my fiances name because it's nicer and even sounds better with my first name, but my family and friends think it's a dumb idea.

What is so wrong with a man taking his wife's name at marriage?

2007-10-05 13:36:09 · 10 answers · asked by Purple 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have something importanat to ask you?
ok so theres this guy. ok and i REALLY like him and i think he likes me. tell me what you think. today he was in one of my classes and he got to pick where he wanted to sit but he picked to sit beside me, then he would smile at me, and he asked me this in a nervous voice. he sadi, so who are you going out with. and i said noone and then he would touch me and make me smile and i would smile back and he would look into my eyes. do you think he likes me?

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oh and he also signed my folder. i was so happy! and i still am!

40 minutes ago
sorry i didnt spell everytthing right!

2007-10-05 13:35:37 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, maybe some people do...

hm where do i start....ok i want to ask my best friend to homecoming...heres the thing...i really like her, and i really do not think she likes me, because i heard her say so- not to me, but to her other friend- but, she has been closer to me than ever and it seems like she likes me by the way she acts-confusing i know-so im really mixed in my feelings....so, homecoming is coming up, and i want to ask her...but i can never find a time to be alone with her, becuase when we hang out its usually with our other friends, nor can i figure out a way to make it not seem awkward(we are best friends, and she knows me better than anyone) so im on the verge of just dumping the whole proposal and ask someone else... i mean, what if she says no, i couldnt bear our friendship to be all awkward ...idk, aww of course this has to happen to me...what should i do? should i ask her to homecoming our not?

2007-10-05 13:29:57 · 26 answers · asked by pilotman 2 in Singles & Dating

My bf n i been together for almost 6 yrs. I cheated 7months ago.im easily persuaded. My bf was very hurt, in a lot of pain, didnt want to eat etc..He fought me back. I didnt want to see him hurt. I do love him. We r 2gether now, but he doesn't comfort me,always pick argument especially accuse me of still wanting to be with the other guy when i dont. I am faithful to him and have no secret. I comfort him always. Sometimes he is happy again like normal, then all of a sudden he is easily angered and brings back the past over and over again. He tells me that the only reason he stayed with me was because he loved me too much to let go, but at the same time he wants to let go. I think he is trying to make me hurt the same way i did to him. He says things like he wants to be with another girl/hes getting tired and gets very impatient of me then, I caught him emailing a girl.hes very faithful guy. i suggest to break up, he doesnt want to. I want us to be happy again, but he's making it hard.

2007-10-05 13:29:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm sick and tired of the singles category always flooded with these sappy questions. Do the opposite! Let's talk trash about love! Who needs that when we can have plenty of friends! Trash Valentine Day! Go out and hassle and make fun of all the couples! Celebrate your independence, for you are free! Free to choose and free to explore this wonderful country of ours for weeks without end! I'm tired of all the married or other couples always ignoring me JUST BECAUSE I'M SINGLE!! Get together with your single friends, and Don't invite any couples. Let's see how they like it to be the ones ignored for a change. Together and alone we are Singles who are free with the full right of self-determination. Yes! Single and Free!

2007-10-05 13:26:53 · 2 answers · asked by The cool dude 1 in Singles & Dating

I had a good second date with a guy on Saturday who said he would catch up with me the next day (Sun.) I texted him Sunday morning but he didn't respond. He had said Sat. that he was going in to work but would be done early.
I did not hear a peep from him until Wed. when he sent me an email saying he wasn't ignoring me, he was just busy with grad school apps and he didn't want me to forget about him.

Truth is that by Wed afternoon I had made the decision that he wasnt going to call and that I should forget about him and move on. I like this guy but both times we went out on the weekend I didn't hear from him till Wednesday. and twice he has said he would call the next day to make plans but didn't.

Should I respond to the email. If so what should the tone of the email be and what should I say?

Should I just not respond and see if he calls eventually?

2007-10-05 13:26:35 · 14 answers · asked by Jenna 1 in Singles & Dating

...the idea of a women keeping or hyphantating her last name when she get married?

If her fiance/husband is cool with it, why is it so wrong?

2007-10-05 13:19:11 · 18 answers · asked by Megegie 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I knew someone would eventually have to go.

When I told my wife that I was going to get a GF she protested at first, but I did it anyway.

Now I regret it cuz they are always arguing and won't take messages for any other girls that might call me (from work or whatever).

Now I want my wife out but I don't want to have to pay alimony. Does anyone know where I can find a "non-alimony" agreement online that I can get her to sign before I file for divorce? (I don't want to have to pay a lawyer).

Thanks.

2007-10-05 13:18:43 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I felt cheated when i found he has another email add aside from the one he uses with.I felt so stupid and keep on asking why he still need to chat with some other girls when he has me?Is he not satisfied with me?I told him to keep our relationship alive we should be open with ourselves,no secrets un told and he said yes to it.Just recently i caught him using another e mail add. Why i felt sad about it? Please help/thanks

2007-10-05 13:16:07 · 12 answers · asked by Scorpions L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we are way good friends ive ask him alot of quiestions but i ran out o quiestions so i need, need Help, help ,help!!!!! please help me yahoo users. and peace.

2007-10-05 13:14:22 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

The children of seperations should not have to pay the ultimate emotional price for their parents selfishness. If you bring a child into the world, whether deliberate or not, that child is innocent and deserves the love of good loving and emotionally encouraging adults. There's a hard enough road for them to go in life without the added pain of nobody around hold their hand along the way!

Don't get me wrong, some people should not be together and this is better for the kids. I love my kids and sometimes wonder if those separated parents actually stood still for one minute and imagined what each hour was REALLY like for their children without them there to help.......would they consider SPENDING more valuable TIME with them instead of SPENDING MONEY on them!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-10-05 13:13:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She created a character that became really popular at a roleplaying forum and now she wants to leave the forum because the staff isn't that great. However the admin said they are going to turn her character (that was completely made up by her) over to another member. My friend doesn't find this fair and is wondering if she could do anything about it

2007-10-05 13:13:21 · 3 answers · asked by MaGeNtA MaRe 2 in Friends

Would you be angry or sad? Could you accept the fact they are that way and still love them? Are would you feel like you had lived a lie for all the years you were together?

2007-10-05 13:12:48 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What would make a guy leave their wife?
Even if they have kids with her?
Would you do it?
What could the wife possibly have done to him?

2007-10-05 13:11:36 · 7 answers · asked by ya girl 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-05 13:09:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We have been dating for 3 months only, and I moved in with my boyfriend in his appartment. Seems like it's kinda early, though our relationship is just perfect, we haven't had a single tiny fight yet...

2007-10-05 13:07:56 · 11 answers · asked by joullee 1 in Singles & Dating