Family & Relationships - 5 October 2007

Hi, I am a teen throwing a Halloween party on the 27th of october. It will be coed, and about 12 people will be there. I will have it in my backyard, and basement. I need ideas at what to do at this party, and also links, and basicly anything you can find. All answers greatly appreciated. Thank You!!!!

2007-10-05 13:07:56 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

last night i came home from a party to my boyfriend and he was very hard to get along with and very rude, he told me that i should just go to bed and leave him alone. i thought this was mean and uncalled for so i attempted to turn his chair around (he was on the computer) and he got really angry and grabbed my arms, so i told him not to grab me and pushed him away, this went on for a bit so i punched him in the ****. this didn't really help but it stopped him touching me. me and my boyfriend get along and have never been physically abusive towards eachother, this was really scary. he blames it on me drinking but i don't see that as the problem. i don't really know what to do, i've been with him for two years and this is the first time i've seen him like this. i'm so confused. i know i don't deserve to be treated like this but i don't know if i should forget and forgive or just leave. PS he was playing an online game on the computer, just in case you were wondering.. :S help

2007-10-05 13:06:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is a guy in my school that i think he's cute, and we look at eachother whenever we are in the same hall way, i dont know if he's interested or not but i wanna talk to him, how do i do that? im not shy or scared of doing it i just wanna know how to start talkin to him, thanks

2007-10-05 13:00:11 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Thanks for reading all.
Ok here it goes, I have been seeing someone for 3 months and them themselves have been seperated for just about that same amount of time.

I have been a doormat to be quite honest, extremely
predictable and certainly no longer a challenge to the woman I am with.
I am so concerned with disagreeing with her because I don't want to upset her. I know that makes me a candy a**.
She attempted to break up with me last Sunday however we discussed it and said that she needs her space and time to deal with her sepreation.

Now then....
You know i'm a bit of a candy a** and a bit of a doormat, however looking at me or hearing the tone of my voice you wouldn't think this.
The relationship is to the point where I have to ask when we can hang out. She calls back when she wants as opposed to being on point in the beginning.

How should I change my demeanor and what should I do to right the ship?

2007-10-05 12:58:34 · 6 answers · asked by Ontime 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband had a long history of dating before marrying me. He let me read his diary that related to his exs. It made me very sensitive to his past. He searched his exs once in a while through the internet and told me so. I am not happy with him even thought he told me he is very happy to be with me. And marrying me is the best thing ever happened to him. One of my girlfriends told me that men never forgot the women they slept with. Is this true?

2007-10-05 12:55:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

HI, yesterday, I had an argument with my gf over the phone. It was just a small argument. So she said "if you make me mad again, I will go out with this guy named Alex, he has been asking me out many times, I 'll say yes if you make me mad".

I was disappointed. I always thought love shows respect and not being spiteful. If you are mad, then we can work it out, no need to go out with another guy. How would you feel and what would you do?

2007-10-05 12:54:43 · 6 answers · asked by White Shooting Star of HK 7 in Singles & Dating

ok so theres this guy. ok and i REALLY like him and i think he likes me. tell me what you think. today he was in one of my classes and he got to pick where he wanted to sit but he picked to sit beside me, then he would smile at me, and he asked me this in a nervous voice. he sadi, so who are you going out with. and i said noone and then he would touch me and make me smile and i would smile back and he would look into my eyes. do you think he likes me?

2007-10-05 12:53:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

here's the deal. i didnt do a whole lot of stuff wrong in the marriage. i was married before and learned a lot. in my next marriage i was more giving, paid closer attention, gave my wife almost all my free time. thing is it wasn't good enough. she did all the crazy stuff. affair, abortion, grabbed me by the throat once when i refused to listen to her vulger abusive language and told her i won't talk to her until she calms down. now she's divorcing me and is madder than hell after she is the one who left! telling all kinds of lies, cutting my head off of family photos when i told her i won't put up with the lies and abuse and moved her things into the garage for her to pick up (i did this because she was coming in and taking things). now she hates my guts after all that she did! Can someone explain this to me?

2007-10-05 12:53:22 · 14 answers · asked by survivor 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How do you feel about it? Share me some story about yourself on it and how do you face after filing it?

You can help me in my research activity about divorce.
Thank You.

2007-10-05 12:53:13 · 11 answers · asked by Ronnie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have not been getting along lately and we have a lot of stressers. He is gone out of state for a week and I want to do something thoughtful and special for him when he gets back. Any ideas???Are flowers lame to give a guy?

2007-10-05 12:52:44 · 12 answers · asked by iluvmyhubby 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I broke up mutually last week. No arguments; we parted as friends. The next day he has a new girlfriend. I'm not jealous or anything, I just feel a little worthless/rejected because it 'was' the next day. Even though it was a mutual break-up, am I allowed to be slightly ticked off or is that too immature? I mean, I would've been fine with it if he started dating her like a week or two later, but we're talking about the next day here.

2007-10-05 12:49:54 · 8 answers · asked by cuilin 4 in Singles & Dating

is it hard to think about anything else, when your connected to them, emotional and feelings too, right?

2007-10-05 12:49:21 · 17 answers · asked by midnight_star_chaser 3 in Singles & Dating

should i worry

2007-10-05 12:45:59 · 3 answers · asked by boo 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-05 12:45:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Love no more
I knew I loved you and thought Of you but I still holding on to you. as if you were falling. I thought I got rid of you so the heart stabbing pain will go away. But I feel as if my heart beat Is chanting your name wanting you, and it follows. But my heart still feels heavy from the pain. But should I have thoughts for you. Will we ever be?

2007-10-05 12:45:10 · 5 answers · asked by Julia 2 in Singles & Dating

I have bi polar and i am not on medicine. I am waiting to get in with the doctor right now to get back on meds... which isnt a good enough excuse for how I act at times, at least not to me. My fiance's name is Jeremy. Anyway. We have been together for 3 years.Here is my situation. When I ask him to please not do something he DOESN'T listen and it drives me insane. For example today I didnt know he was going to lock the door to our new house when we were leaving and I left the key in the house. So he tried to break in with his ID and get in there and he was messing up the door because he was using that and a butter knife to try to get in. So he didn't listen. I tried yelling, which he gets mad at me for too but I just feel so frustrated that I feel I have to because he isn't listening! So then I told him he is acting stupid and he got REALLY mad at me, he hates when I say that but I cant help it, I have said it so much that now I say it out of habit. I don't mean to, he just makes me SO

2007-10-05 12:44:47 · 4 answers · asked by dontmesswithheather 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-05 12:42:26 · 6 answers · asked by 13nightmare13 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My 42 yr old boyfriend owns and runs a restaurant. Recently he flirted with one of his female employees in front of me. This flirting contained some sexual connotation. The 19 yr old employee returned his attention. He admitted to flirting with some of his other female employees as well. He says that's part of the restaurant culture. Normally I'm very cool about social situations, but this circumstance made me feel very uncomfortable. Perhaps because he's in a position of authority, maybe it's the age difference, it could also be that I came out of a relationship with infideltiy, so I could be feeling a wee sensitive. He's making me feel like I'm being unreasonable by saying I'm uncomfotable with it.

So what do you think? Is it ever okay to flirt with your employees? Am I overreacting? What about flirting with sexual connotations? Any ground rules?

2007-10-05 12:42:10 · 7 answers · asked by bohogrrl 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband has called the police on me 4 times in 10 months. Each time was for a ridiculous reason and the police were concerned for me. The last time he called, I told him to get out. He wants to get back at me for calling the police on him several years ago when he was violent and was sentenced to anger management because of the violence. Ever since then, he has been telling friends and family lies about me and that I am crazy. Everyone is wondering why he speaks so poorly of me. I am now just finding out about his active criticism behind my back. He has even told people he wants to have me committed or put in jail. I have done nothing wrong. My question is do you think I should leave or try and get him to a psychiatrist. He is also extremely argumentative and critical. We have been through group couples counseling. At the end of our time together all the couples and therapists were concerned for me because he always talked about himself and not our marriage. I am in therapy.

2007-10-05 12:42:05 · 11 answers · asked by belladonna 1 in Marriage & Divorce

there is this guy that i like a lot. He is so sweet. I dont know what to do. Should i call him, or should i IM him. i call him every other week, IM him about once a week, and talk to him almost every morning for about 10 min. Should i be talking to him more to show i like him or am i obbsessing to much and being annoying. I want him to want to talk to me more and feel like he wants me to do these things, or does he want me to do these things? when i see him in the hall in school he always reaches out for a hug before i do too. PLEASEE HELP MEE! THANK YOU SO MUCH! p.s.10 points for the best answer but please be truthfull and answer it all! <33

2007-10-05 12:41:02 · 5 answers · asked by Phylicia C 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a 14 year old male, I had liked this 1 girl since 7th grade & had known her since 6th.basically I finally asked her out & she said yes,so we went out for 6 days,then she randomly broke up with me.I asked her out about 1 month after her x had broken up with her.things seemed to be going fine,then all of a sudden she broke up with me,saying that she wasn't as over her x as she thought she was.then about 5 days later,some1 told me that she was saying that I wasn't affectionate enough with her & she had said something about it.and then, the next thing I know,she has a bf,but just days earlier,she said that it wasn't fair to any1 for her to go out with them since she still likes her ex, I tried talking to her about it, and she's pretty much just saying that she doesn't wanna talk about it.what is going through her mind?.I didn't kiss her, since we had only been on 1 date, and it didn't seem like she was ready..I'm just confused.please give me your advice, no matter what your gender is

2007-10-05 12:40:53 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Dear men,

If you met a lovely girl but she slept with a boyfriend that had genital warts...he got from ex love, and thought it was just irritation. He got treated, but they say stress can bring it out/

Now lovely girl slept with him but goes to OB/GYN every year and for several years shows no symptoms or HPV in her pap test. Supposedly 20% are immune to some HPV strains.

If lovely girl tells you all this and is straight up to you, could you still be with her or NO WAYS!
*Now look they say 1 in 3/4/5 have an STD!!!! Herpes is worse! I have female friends who have but never tell since no outbreak, except first one! In fact when I go to OB/GYN I see a lot of very pretty "worried looking" girls in office!!! Either they think they are pregnant or they got something! NOW!!! My ob/gyn told many girls are infected or were infected with something.

Tank you caring men for answering!

2007-10-05 12:40:33 · 6 answers · asked by Lil Blousou 3 in Singles & Dating

my friend is an indian. she was constantly told by several women and older men that she's very pretty, beautiful, and gorgeous. but she doesn't get attention from guys as much as white girls do. i remember when we were walking with a white girl who was okay looking and had a terrible acne, a lot of guys looked at this white girl instead of my friend who is much prettier. my friend's often ignored, while white girls get attention. because of this, she has a low self-esteem. i tried to convince her that she's gorgeous, but she doesn't believe me. she feels like she's different and therefore ugly.

2007-10-05 12:39:03 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and i dont really know him that well
but he keeps lookin at me and showing up random places
should i like talk to him over myspace?
ahhhhh help me

2007-10-05 12:35:58 · 14 answers · asked by hiiiiii 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-05 12:35:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If one of your friends made you and your boyfriend break up about 3 months ago and you still have feelings for him how can you win him back when he is still single?

2007-10-05 12:33:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She has been with him for 1yr and the only contact that she has with my children is when they are on visitation with him, which is not frequently.

2007-10-05 12:31:31 · 13 answers · asked by supermouse 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We have been married for four years and he as had 9 different jobs and has been fired from all of them ,yes all of them. It is never his fault , they dont like me, someone lied on him there is always a reason and he never takes the blame himself nor the responsibility that he is doing something wrong. He says we married for richer or poorer and wont leave and I cant affford to move . Is he right ? am I expected to stay with him and go on supporting him , in hopes that one day he will keep a job?

2007-10-05 12:29:59 · 15 answers · asked by VVVVVVVVVVV 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have a car, job, and my liscense. I'm 16, and yet my mom still makes me come home at like 9:30 or 10, i want more privlages, how do i make her understand that i am a kid and i want to have fun?

2007-10-05 12:29:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-10-05 12:29:29 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating