I am a 14 year old male, I had liked this 1 girl since 7th grade & had known her since 6th.basically I finally asked her out & she said yes,so we went out for 6 days,then she randomly broke up with me.I asked her out about 1 month after her x had broken up with her.things seemed to be going fine,then all of a sudden she broke up with me,saying that she wasn't as over her x as she thought she was.then about 5 days later,some1 told me that she was saying that I wasn't affectionate enough with her & she had said something about it.and then, the next thing I know,she has a bf,but just days earlier,she said that it wasn't fair to any1 for her to go out with them since she still likes her ex, I tried talking to her about it, and she's pretty much just saying that she doesn't wanna talk about it.what is going through her mind?.I didn't kiss her, since we had only been on 1 date, and it didn't seem like she was ready..I'm just confused.please give me your advice, no matter what your gender is
2007-10-05 12:40:53 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi, she sounds mixed up to me, don't take offense, she just needs to sort her head out. Maybe she wanted a kiss an a cuddle, and a shoulder to cry on?. Send her a nice open card and say, you still like her, explain you didn't try to kiss or cuddle because thought it may have been too soon for her, and say you would love to try another date to a movie. Then leave it up to her, if she wants to do, she will tell you. Hope that helps? love Jo xx
2007-10-05 12:51:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the whole thing about relationships is that it takes a long time to figure out what you want in a partner. She seems to be a bit confused on this and you're caught up in it.
I'd stay her friend since I bet she didn't mean anything bad against you by it and who knows, maybe in a few months or a year you'll be the ex she likes. Or you'll find someone else... or, who knows? It's pretty much out of your hands.
Some people change a lot through high school, anything could happen. Just be chill and go with it.
2007-10-05 12:49:41 · answer #2 · answered by harmless 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's just not into you. Try moving on. Maybe if you get involved with another girl, shell be more attracted to you. As of now, you are that guy that will always be around at for some reason, girls don't want that guy. They want the guy that is harder to get. Im a girl and all through high school I had this great guy friend. We were really close but he was obsessed with me, always telling me he wanted me and that he loved me. Anyway, after we graduated highschool he kinda gave up on me and found someone else. It wasnt until then that I realized how good of a guy he is and that I missed out.
2007-10-05 12:46:38 · answer #3 · answered by Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she just didn't feel as if you were the one for her, and didn't know how to break the news to you. Take it from a female...sometimes we break up with guys and can't find the words to let them know why, so what do we do, we just cop out, and ignore the situation.
Let her go, I'm sure there will be someone a little less confused for you to go out with pretty soon.
2007-10-05 12:47:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget the girl. I know it's easier said then done, but you can find a better girl. She seems to be playing with you and probably enjoys the fact that you're waiting around for her. Start talking to another girl or even more girls and she'll miss the attention. Trust me.
2007-10-05 12:44:37 · answer #5 · answered by Sicilianguy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your 14 and confused hey dude at that age you went six day together some time these relationship don't last a day don't take it so hard do not fixate yourself on one person first of all your growing up have fun and you have all the time in the world to chase those skirts!!!
2007-10-05 12:51:38 · answer #6 · answered by J. P. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At your ages, friends and peer pressure mean a lot. Perhaps one of her friends doesn't approve of the relationship for whatever reason. She could nag your girl about it, even if she likes you, your girl will side with the friend.
Then again, maybe she does still like her ex. I wouldn't stress out about it too much man. You will have plenty of other opportunities with girls.
2007-10-05 12:45:49 · answer #7 · answered by Jay B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are too young to waste your time on a girl who is just playing you. it seems obvious that she is not interested so please try to move on, when I was 14 I had a guy who kept asking me out, we had been best friends and it made the friendship really hard. Try to focus on something else because it is not worth tormenting yourself over. Just have fun for now and enjoy life.
2007-10-05 12:47:00 · answer #8 · answered by cheeky_lil_pixiegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is trying her wings, playing the Field, using anyone she wants. Forget about her and find a more settled down girl, mature and ready for a relationship with one guy.
2007-10-05 12:45:09 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG...thats a lot of drama...well first of all you seem like a cool person and for someone to be messing with your feelings like that is not cool. i can tell you just to move on but im 15 and me and my bfriend have gone through alot...but if you truly and honestly love her, then go for her, but if its just a thing...then get over her and go look for the RIGHT GIRL that wont do that to you...hope it helps
2007-10-05 12:48:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋