Gentlemen, do you remember every woman you sleep with?

Question

My husband had a long history of dating before marrying me. He let me read his diary that related to his exs. It made me very sensitive to his past. He searched his exs once in a while through the internet and told me so. I am not happy with him even thought he told me he is very happy to be with me. And marrying me is the best thing ever happened to him. One of my girlfriends told me that men never forgot the women they slept with. Is this true?

Answer 1

we don't dwell on who we slept with. i sometimes may think of someone if there is a reminder. but not every day of years for that matter. if you are not happy as you say, maybe you should tell him.

Answer 2

Your husband needs to look for a better hobby than being on the internet. Yes it's true, is part of his life and at some point those people were important, probably his relationships or adventure, but now, that's the past, and now has a wife which is a lot more important than his past, and his wife is his present. He better wake up of what he is doing or he will lose you, or he will keep looking on the internet for his ex and you will belong to that club. Make sure he knows the importance of this and that is affecting you, and put in clear what you allow and you doen't, today you guys are living the present. let the past being on the past. With respect - make sure he doesn't do it when you aren't at home. You should be telling this to your husband not us, the people from the internet.

Answer 3

Not for me. I can't remember most of their names and have been known to run into ex's every now and then and to have forgotten. I remember the ones who were special. Why do you care about his past? You must deal with the future because past is not a good place to dwell. He is with you and not them, that should tell you something.

Answer 4

I've never forgot who I have slept with but, If he is truly happy with you then he shouldn't be looking up on people he has had an intimate relations with. It sounds like to me he is trying to make you jealouse and wants more attention from you, or he is a complete udder idiot.

Answer 5

only the ones that rocked their boat, really really really good
other wise after a while it becomes a blur
no one girl begins to stand out
so like and druggie
you keep sleeping with more to get another high
but men do not attach sex with love or emotion
it is a physical need
women do that
men only remember women who got too close for comfort
those who were cool and saw past the sex
those are the one they remember
otherwise it was sex, and is easily forgotten

Answer 6

Well, do you remember the men you've slept with? I would try and put myself in his shoes. I get jealous, then I think about my past relationships and how I remember them, but they really don't mean anything to me anymore.

Answer 7

We never forget ex partners because we rate them. One night stands, on the other hand. There is no reason to rate because you'll never need to worry about seeing them again. I can't remember everyone and wouldn't want to.
I guess whether you are drunk or not would make a difference.

Answer 8

She's rite!! Icn remember their,names,faces type of sex we enjoyed, who did what the best, the time spent,(10 minutes-16hrs), and I still love them all!! We learned all of the little secrets together, and you can't buy information/thrills like that!! We (most of em) still acknowledge each other if we meet , and its so casual, that no one knows, but us!! LIFE"S BEEN GOOD

Answer 9

A true gentleman would never remember the answer to that question, nor divulge it.

Answer 10

Pretty much, as long as we caught they're name in the firsrt place yea