Family & Relationships - 5 October 2007

I've been married 3 years. When I married my husband failed to tell me he owed tens of thousands due to past debts, and convinced me to quit my job to become a stay home mom. I now have a one year old and we just received our 2nd notice of wage garnishment. I am so fed up I feel like leaving with my son and putting an end to this. Yes I love my husband but not enough to live poor, or work myself to death to work his debts off. I want to own a home and have nice things, and it seems impossible with this whole situation. I'm angry that he didn't tell me everything I was getting myself into. If I stay I will work for nothing, just to sustain us - if I leave I have a real chance to use those earnings to create a better life with more financial stability and a solid future for me and my son. He's a great Dad otherwise, and I wouldn't keep them apart - after all I do love him. What do you think, what would you do? Nice answers please :) I'm already stressed enough...

2007-10-05 15:14:20 · 17 answers · asked by Sweetness 6 in Marriage & Divorce

help! im scared!

2007-10-05 15:13:11 · 15 answers · asked by Giggle Bear 3 in Singles & Dating

What a working married woman suppose to do? Do you also have same accounts, password..is it ok to have our own accounts. Save our own money but when needed I can give. Just dont want to be put everything into one. What is that everyone do? Plz suggest...

2007-10-05 15:12:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i thought it would be fun to paint his nails, but just until he leaves. He seems to be okay with it but i want to know how to bring it up

2007-10-05 15:11:43 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he left when i went to college to get a better job, now i am doing good, it were ruff at first, but i am back on my feet, over the years, it showed me that i do not miss or want him back. ooo now he are willing to do what ever it takes to get back together. he is 365 days to late, please tell me if i am wrong.

2007-10-05 15:11:38 · 22 answers · asked by queenmidas1014 2 in Marriage & Divorce

we berate each other,we have differences,are harsh towards each other,she knows i am paranoid have addictions and things of that nature,and she still tries to be polite cordial and also want my attention.What's the deal?

2007-10-05 15:11:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so i graduated back in 2004 i just found him on myspace to day i want to tell him i liked him and might still like him but i dont know how please help

2007-10-05 15:11:07 · 15 answers · asked by Audrey 1 in Singles & Dating

okay, to start with I'm a Christian! you can criticize all you want but that's not why i'm here. i need help! okay, so i like this guy, let's call him V, and he likes me back, he's also a Christian! we have been friends, and agreed to stay friends even after we shared our feelings, for about a year now and we just goof around and have fun! i recently met another guy who, let's call him M, i also like and he likes me. they both are Christians and really love God and they both respect me and i really like em both. do i go with V, who i've told almost everything about me and got depressed b/c i didn't call or email him, or M, who seems to be one of the most awesome HILARIOUS Christians i've met,? PLEASE HELP ME!!!! If ya need more information please just ask. I've really prayed about it and I haven't seen an answer from God. He may not give me one but I know that He IS the answer and I pray that He will bless each one of you who look at this or answer! THANK YOU!!!!!

2007-10-05 15:10:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if you had feelings for someone, regardless of the situation(s), would u be honest and tell them? let them know how u feel and just be honest? pleasdeeeeeeeeeeeeee help?

2007-10-05 15:09:08 · 9 answers · asked by glitter&gladrags 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok so it seems once you have been in a relationship for awhile things tend to cool off at times in the bedroom area. What are some of your biggest turn ons or ideas to keep things alive and exciting?

2007-10-05 15:06:24 · 9 answers · asked by Jennifer M 2 in Marriage & Divorce

bored. and wanting to listen to some different music. and noone will answer in a different category, so for some extra points, just tell me some of your favorite songs. thanks

2007-10-05 15:05:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my ex broke up a couple weeks ago mostly due to not being able to see each other. We agreed to be friends for now with this possibly working later. He wants me to still hang out with him and his friends bc I did get close to some of them and he sayshe wants me in his life. However he texts me everyday. I just feel like for a couple weeks I need time to get over this a little bit. Is that asking too much? He says he really cares about me and thats nice but I need time to heal a little or im just gonna take my frustration out on him

2007-10-05 15:04:49 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-05 15:03:48 · 3 answers · asked by usinmynoodle 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is there anything I can try or just get some therapy? Serious answers only, please

2007-10-05 15:00:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I overheard my mother in law talking about my husband and I on the telephone. I told him about it and he confronted her. She apologized and now they are speaking. It's been 2 weeks already but she won't really talk to me unless I speak to her 1st and when she does it's with an attitude. I've had it, I'm ready to flip the script on her.

2007-10-05 14:57:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

what is the best way for a shy guy to meet new people or even to meet girls? maybe places you have in mind? i have tried everything to break my shy streak and nothing seems to work. got any ideas???

2007-10-05 14:56:49 · 5 answers · asked by Empty_Glass 3 in Friends

My mom is not the stereotypical mother. She has lied and cheated on my dad and told us all about her affairs in major detail. We grew up not telling my dad any of this. Well one night i got pretty sick of all the fighting and fussing and just told him. Not about all the men but some. They've been divorced since i was little but always lived together. I just get soo tired of lieing for her all the time that it finally caught up with me. My dad's really a great hard working guy it sucks to see him go through this. Anyways since then my mom has completely quit coming around except to come see my daughter or use my computer. She started hanging out with one of my freinds i used to go to school with. Now they are insepertable. I'm sorry but my mom's 40 years old and this girl is 22. It really hurts cause i feel like i've been replaced. I'll make time and ask her to come over and she says she will and never does. I cant help it but i'm jealous of her new freind. I know its pathetic but cant

2007-10-05 14:56:06 · 5 answers · asked by cutenwild1769 5 in Family

We have so many financial problems at the moment, our relationship is loving, but the arguments caused by stress and worry are tearing us apart, he is finding it hard to get work, he is a qualified tradesman, i own a small business, but its getting to the point where my resources to get money together are running very low, i feel ill most days, with that sick feeling in my stomach, i was an optimistic person, but for the past 6 months, nothing is going right financially.
I have been the strong one, for both of us, now i am at breaking point, in the situation where i am keeping it to myself, because, i could tell friends and family, but they are very judgemental, i know that for a fact, so i feel so alone, can i make it through?? can my relationship survive???

2007-10-05 14:54:17 · 11 answers · asked by natc 3 in Marriage & Divorce

how often do you married couples out there have sex? just wondering.

2007-10-05 14:53:09 · 24 answers · asked by jessica T 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I know that the same can be said for many women, but I'm going to assume that the reasons may be different.
Why do so men lazy, slobby, unintelligent, unattractive and crass men have such high standards for women? These beer-swilling, sweaty pigs with bulbous guts and bad breathe actually believe that women resembling Jessica Biel could be bothered with the likes of them, and have the nerve to judge these women. Come ON, man!! They're more worried about the bra size of the girl behind the counter than what their armpits smell like. And yes, it DOES seem to be much more prevailent among men.

2007-10-05 14:52:33 · 21 answers · asked by Ashley =) 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 19.. My boyfriend is about to be 18 in less than a month. I live on my own, he still lives with his mom... But our moms are best friends!! My bestfriend and I started talking and decided it would be SO much fun to take a trip to Gatlinburg this winter break with our boyfriends... I talked to my mom about it and she said it would be a great idea.. But the only thing would be convincving his mom bc It is just me (19) my best friend (19) and her boyfriend (20) so noone that she would probably reaaly consider an adult.. But my mom said she would go with me to talk to his mom about it.. She's kinda strict though and I know she won't love that there's not someone older going, but my bestfriends mom is coming up for a day... And it would only be 3 nights 4 days.. But anyway, any tips on how to persuade her to say yes?

2007-10-05 14:50:11 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She is driving me crazy, she's 71 and gets into my business. Everyday she asks me the wife if I'm going to work, tells me to comb my hair, comes into the bathroom and talks to me , looking at her watch and telling me what time it is. I tell her to get out of the bathroom and mind her own business. Im no spring chicken. I want her to move out and get her own place so we'll all be happy. She can live close by but not inside my house but my husband does'nt want to hurt her feelings. She's been here 5 weeks.

2007-10-05 14:49:59 · 22 answers · asked by Cheri moya 3 in Family

my ex husband just died today. He can no longer hurt me. I can go on now. I suffered PTSD and depression. He can't hurt me anymore. From years of emotional, physical, mental abuse. What a huge weight off my shoulders. SHOOOOOOOO!

2007-10-05 14:49:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I just went into CVS looking for a wedding card for my sister. None of them were anything special, and I'd LOVE something unique. .Are there any places online where I can order a wedding card or are there any GREAT stores for cards? (Aside from Hallmark, Walgreens, Etc.)

2007-10-05 14:49:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

my wife heard on the tv that a light over the bed is bad for the health?????so i had to take ours down and she does not wnat me to have one over the bed???? have any one ever heard of anything so rediculious

2007-10-05 14:48:50 · 6 answers · asked by terry p 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Why do guys like legs so much???? and do guys like pale legs just as much as tan?

2007-10-05 14:45:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

in a colummist in a newspaper ,Magazine what advice given to this person.I have been with my partner for three years now. We both agree that we have a great relationship, though our lives are so busy with work, night courses and volunteer work. We hardly have time fir dates, let alone eating and getting enough sleep! I feel that i look way too fat so i started to diet 6 months ago. I have lost 10 pounds on this new awesome fat free diet. I feel I can trust jeff and he feels he can trust me. We went for HIV testing a year ago at a clinic that offered anonymous testing. We both tested negativeand decided we would stop using condoms. Nine months ago we decided we would like to start a family and have been trying to get pregnant.We have intercourse about three times a week but think we should have intercourse every night as nothing has happened yet. We enjoy having netercourse but we are feeling that the fact that we not got conceived yet is putting a strain on the relationship. thanks

2007-10-05 14:43:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my dad hurts me but it is not that bad but sometimes i just want to die and cry and i am only 11 but i feel like i had seen more things then a 11 year old would see =-( i think you know what i mean and i am just stick of this life! but sometimes he hurts me REALLY bad and i thought that maybe god could help me so i tried to kill meself =-( i know i am stupid for that but when i tell people that they think i am lieing and i swear i am not lieing! and i dont have a grandma or grandpa and i dont go to school and i live in the country and my mom is never home and my dad hides the phone but now he is out for 5 mins so i have time to use the computer for a sec so please help me PLEASE i hate my life i am in pain 24/7 and i am being abused

2007-10-05 14:43:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Why do I feel like I need to have sex with every guy that I date? I feel like it's something that is expected of me no matter how serious the relationship is. Is there any way to chance my perception of myself and the relationship. Also, guys do you really expect sex out of EVERY relationship no matter how serious? or do you respect a girl less for this?

2007-10-05 14:43:07 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am in a catholic school, ok? And yesterday was free dress, meaning that we can wear regular clothes instead of uniforms. I was wearing tight pants and a tight shirt.(i am pretty by the way and a good figure)
Well i have this teacher, (my Algebra teacher) In the morning assembly When i walked by him I notices he looked at my @$$! for sure.And during recess he looked again, and a third time! What does this mean? I am so confused ! He doesnt do this to other girls. i like him by the way.

2007-10-05 14:42:41 · 13 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating