Family & Relationships - 5 October 2007

Is it a women's desire to "femitize" her "man" or is a "man" really that whimpy that if he doesn't go along he won't "get any" or face other humiliations. This is troubling in this Country. In other Countries you NEVER insult a "man" with such an FABRICATED insinuation

2007-10-05 15:51:12 · 20 answers · asked by nick 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife has told everyone that I am a cheater, I wanted a divorce and have my life back because Ifelt it was such a pain for me to be with her. I have tried all I can to improve our relationship, but it does not work. What should I do?

2007-10-05 15:50:39 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Last night I dreamed that I came home to find my husband in bed with another woman. I woke up crying. When I told my husband about that dream, he asked what the woman was doing, what she looked like. Was I wrong to think his response was strange? Should I be worried aboout this?

2007-10-05 15:50:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How do I get my husband to see that I want to be treated like the most important person in his life. Get him to treat me like a princess. Could I be wrong for asking this. Am I being high maintanence ?

2007-10-05 15:50:02 · 11 answers · asked by SHAY RN 2 in Marriage & Divorce

how do u make guys jealous without making them mad and not wanna talk to you again?

2007-10-05 15:49:34 · 7 answers · asked by carrr 2 in Singles & Dating

I believe a strong wife and husband relationship starts with a mutual understanding.This is coupled with love,security,trust and a good communication with its other.This is also true to live without pretentions.I tried to be a good wife,a friend whom he can confide in anytime he needs me.I told him things that annoys me nevertheless this was in vain.How can i show him that i want him to realized i existed and i was there for him.Why he tend to find somebody else when he can tell me what he wanted to do in his life?I will give him his freedom anytime he want to though it hurts coz i'm expecting now but he kept on telling me I was important in his life nothing else!How can i convince myself i was indeed the love of his life?

2007-10-05 15:46:11 · 9 answers · asked by Scorpions L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i broke up with my girlfriend after a year and 2 month relationship, i thought i would be single for awhile, but i met this girl. shes amazing shes everything i've ever wanted. im just wanting to know if i can fall in love after a week of being single from someone i thought i loved??

2007-10-05 15:45:16 · 9 answers · asked by gary c 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-05 15:42:59 · 7 answers · asked by Girl 2 in Friends

Yea,well lately I always have been down alot,like,I felt all nice and kind towards people back then,and now Im 13,and Im being mean towards others,feel all bad about myself and everything! What the h*ll is wrong with me!!Does anybody else get like that or is it just me?Now everybody practicly hates me and talk behind my back!

2007-10-05 15:40:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

remember when you started your relationship with your significant other, and felt the need to make out all the time,
and your heart would flutter, you had butterflies in your stomach, you'd write letters to each other....................

is it still there?>>??

if not, don't you wish it was still there>>??

what can you do to feel that way again???

2007-10-05 15:40:07 · 21 answers · asked by Bullmastiff_Boxer_lover 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-05 15:37:37 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok. I'm a 14 and I'm shy. I am also very sweet though, as people like to tell me. I think I am kind of pretty, at least an average pretty. I know I'm not ugly or anything. (People tell me i'm pretty)
So I'm thin, pretty, shy, and sweet.
So anyway, no boys ever like me!!!! Like all the other girls at school have boys with crushes on them and boyfriends and stuff, but no boys seem to like me! I'm just wondering why! Is it because I'm shy that boys don't like me???
The few boys that ever do have crushes on me are the huge, fat, annoying, disgusting ones! I want to get boys to like me without becomming a flirt 'cause I'm shy! Do boys not like shy girls?? Help!

2007-10-05 15:37:32 · 22 answers · asked by Annie 4 in Singles & Dating

She's around 76. She's always there for me and i can trust her with anything. Whenever i wanted to go to the movies she would offer to take us to another city to see the movie.
She always did whats best for us.
A couple of years ago my grandma had a heart attack. She survived.
Last year, around this time, she had another heart-attack and survived that. She became so worried she wrote her whole will in the middle of the night.
Last Thurs. She had a stroke. She was released that day.
Yesterday (Thurs, one week later) she had ANOTHER stroke.
She was supposed to leave the hospital today but had to stay longer...she also has diabetes (as discovered last year)
I know she has today sometime. I'm really close with her and so's my niece. By the way i'm only 13, and i'm afraid about my niece also and how she'll react.
I'm really not prepared for my grandmothers death. What should i do?

2007-10-05 15:37:16 · 4 answers · asked by T.M. 6 in Family

ok last year i liked this guy and he im sure found out because it was obvious i still like him ok so im going to be in a party with him and what if he asks if i have a boyfreind (i dont) what do i say i dont wanna look desperate or anything or i dont want him to think that i want him to ask me out or anything because maybe he doesnt like me i know i will blush if he asks and that will make things so weird yes yes i know you cant understand what im saying.

2007-10-05 15:35:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok well my ex-boyfriend asked me out today and i said yes because i never stopped loving him, but the problem is my parents DO NOT want us together. They are the one's who broke us up in the first place. I want to tell them, but they will NOT understand. so idk wat to do. help help help. please

2007-10-05 15:30:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ive been dating a marine for about 5 months now. And we love each other and talk about marriage.Well I talk about marriage, but he says he wants to also. Well lately it seems that Im always the one making the first contact everyday, like texting first.Maybe Im not giving him a chance to text me first.I dont know. But what if I didnt text him and just waited on him to text me. Pull back on me making all the contact, what do you think that would do to our relationship? And I should probally stop having to ask him to call me right?

2007-10-05 15:30:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I go through these cycles, over and over! I hate it! its been two years. is it because she had an affair, with a much older guy than me, who has no money? then married him with in 6 months. and got pregnant with him right away! #W$%$#%#

2007-10-05 15:28:36 · 21 answers · asked by fstmx 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i like this guy. but i have no idea if he likes me. we're friends but i barely get to talk to him. dunno what to do...

2007-10-05 15:28:17 · 5 answers · asked by Halley T 2 in Singles & Dating

Honestly, I don't get it. I'm an attractive female, young, in a successful grad program, sweet, adventurous and fun. To be blatantly honest, I feel like I can reel guys in without too much trouble...but keeping them there is another story. I'm pretty confident so I try to make sure I don't let guys walk all over me. I let them know that I am interested, but not too available either. I'm not clingy at all. I'm pretty easygoing and easy to get along with. But, I can't seem to stay with anyone for more than a couple of months if not weeks! I feel like I've had interests and flings here and there for the last 2 years but can't seem to get into an actual relationship. The last year, I feel as if it ends up being a whole lot of mutual interest b/w me and a guy friend and then I just end up getting hurt without any understanding. I don't get it & am starting to get kinda upset by it. What is going on?!

2007-10-05 15:27:03 · 1 answers · asked by laughterisnaturescure 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a mother of a 9 year old and a 6 week old. During my pregnancy, my husband cheated on me three times. He went to a motel room with each one. The first two he didn't do anything with but, the third one got undressed and gave him a bj. Apart of me says to walk away and never look back. At the same time, I love him and he has recognized he has a problem since his father did/does it and there is nothing wrong with that in his house.

Please give me your advice on if you think a strong christian woman can forgive and can he get past this. Is it possible to save this marriage?

2007-10-05 15:26:12 · 17 answers · asked by K_A_mom 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-05 15:24:35 · 5 answers · asked by RICK 1 in Singles & Dating

he has a girlfriend and they have kissed already but he keeps asking me if i love him and i do! but i didnt tell him that. i want to kiss him but i dont want to ask him....how do i get him to kiss me?!?

2007-10-05 15:24:35 · 24 answers · asked by aqua_luver101 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-05 15:21:31 · 13 answers · asked by Peter 4 in Singles & Dating

I AM TRYING TO GET TO HIS WEB PAGE TO SEE ALL OF HIS FRIENDS AND WHAT THEN HAVE SAID HE IS DIED..PLS HELP..HE WAS FROM OK..THS....

2007-10-05 15:19:12 · 4 answers · asked by kentuckyqueen07 1 in Family

My friend hardly talks to me anymore since she's gotten busy. I'm busy too but I would be happy to make time for her if she was up for it. She once said that friendship mostly takes motivation, which we can control. So, with that logic, it means she doesn't care about me anymore, right? She's not motivated to talk to me because she doesn't care, I guess.

Does that mean she was just using me when she used to talk to me everyday before? Because now that she's become busy and has made new friends at her workplace, she doesn't talk to me as much. That would seem like using, but maybe I'm missing something. But I guess I'm not as important to her anymore, either way.

I still love her...she's one of my best friends...but I think she's moved on :[

Tell me a story of your own if you can relate. I'm in a misery loves company kind of mood...

2007-10-05 15:17:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

here is this guy who at times, I think likes me, and then other times, I think the opposite. Around five times last year during the school year, he asked me to be his girlfriend. I told him I didn't want a boyfriend at the moment (this happened each time). He flirts with me A LOT when I see him and maybe I would take this as a sign, but he flirts with a couple of other girls too. I know that sometime between the times he asked me out, he asked out someone else. He even sent us the same text message at the same time saying, "I miss you". I don't know what to make of this behavior and I don't know what his real intentions are when he acts like this. Then this year, he asked me out again, asking me to give him a chance. This was a couple of weeks ago. My response was, "I'll think about it" because I had to decide whether I liked him or not. And then recently (week ago) he said to me: "All my boys know I like you a lot and I wish you were

2007-10-05 15:16:59 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-05 15:16:49 · 14 answers · asked by ? 5 in Singles & Dating

my friend wont let me do it. She told me she'll get really mad at me..and we even pinky swear! What shall I do if he wants it?

2007-10-05 15:15:29 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Personal info, on me: I Had an affair with an old High school boyfriend over 11 years ago!
I left my family divorced my husband and left my son with his father to pursue the relationship!

After the divorce I married the man, and for better or worst got the **** end of the stick, He cheated on me he beat me up so bad I had to have emergency surgery and then left me less then 2 years later for a woman who was barly 23!

the saddest part is that my son to this day wont even speak to me, and I've been told by family members he doesn't trust women at all. I guess you get what you give huh?
Karma in spades!

So let me ask do you think our need for sex dismiss everything else including common scenes to the point that you can't distinguished good from EVIL?

WHat do you think?

2007-10-05 15:15:11 · 19 answers · asked by The Lady 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I personally have never had the dream wedding in mind. I always knew I would have to pay for my own wedding, so I have always invisioned eloping in Vegas or having a court house wedding. My fiance just wants me to be happy, but I want both of our families to be happy. His mom has an issue with the fact that we want to go to the court house and later go somewhere by ourselves to share personal vowes. She wants us to at least have a small ceremony. I don't know what to do. My parents do not know we are getting married yet. They were married by a Justice of the Peace, so I'm not sure they will have a huge problem. I know my mom thinks expensive weddings are ridiculous. Another issue is that I have a 7 year old daughter who might get her feelings hurt if she isn't a flower girl... Please give me your thoughts and opinions. I know the ultimate conclusion is marriage, I just want everyone to be happy. I don't care how it happens as long as I'm married to my wonderful fiance!!!

2007-10-05 15:14:42 · 15 answers · asked by tarajg11 2 in Weddings