Last night I dreamed that I came home to find my husband in bed with another woman. I woke up crying. When I told my husband about that dream, he asked what the woman was doing, what she looked like. Was I wrong to think his response was strange? Should I be worried aboout this?
2007-10-05 15:50:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sweethart ALWAYS trust ur womens intuition... ur dreams r warning u somthings not right... ur husbend sounds guilty... he was asking wat the woman looked like cuz he was scared u were describing some 1 he knew... like maybe u were actuly seeing her psicikly an can sense wat hes been doing....
2007-10-05 16:37:10 · answer #1 · answered by Gold Digger 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You know your husband best. Is this within his normal response to something that is improbable? I find it to be a rather typical male 'tongue in cheek' response. If you think about it you were in a sense telling him he had been unfaithfull to you. So, his response was checking it out to see if this other woman was worth it. Simply using the cost and reward theory.
It was your dream not his, so why worry about it?
Dreams are our subconscious working on our day to day concerns, interactions etc. They are not necessarily predictive of your own personal self or life.
You may have heard a conversation of this happening and during the processing it manifested as being about you and your husband for identification purposes. Don't worry about what hasn't happened in your marriage or you will miss out on what is happening in it.
Your husband sounds like he may have a mischievious sense of humour to me.
2007-10-05 16:10:30 · answer #2 · answered by sag_kat2chat 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG...This was your dream and your fantasy, now you are trying to analyze your husband. Are you trying to push him away or plant the seed for him to look elsewhere? Please! This was a fantasy that you had. Maybe he found it exciting! Maybe he should analyze why you lack trust in him. If this was your true subconscious speaking, then you don't trust him. He didn't nail you on this topic because he loves you. This was your dream, not his. Don't start something that your mind created. Give the guy a break and be happy that you have a loving husband. If you truly don't trust your husband, seek therapy to save your marriage.
2007-10-05 16:28:25 · answer #3 · answered by Susan N 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would one with ED be in bed with another woman in your dream. Do you subconsciously feel that his problem is your fault and another woman might rekindle his libido ? Or do you fear that he might think another woman may be able spark his arousal. For him to have ED it is likely you and him are middle aged, ED does not mean you are boring, overbearing, or that he loves you less. It just happens and it is not your fault. Bad dreams are often signs of insecurity and lack of intimacy can make one feel less desirable. When he starts dreaming about other women, or you about other men is when the worry should begin. Have him try one of those ED remedies like Viagra or Enzyte etc and / or locate another couple to talk with together about how they got through their issue with ED.
2007-10-05 16:32:47 · answer #4 · answered by jkevinsimpson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah bit of a strange response...bad dreams of this nature are usually because of worry/stress about a relationship...has your husband given you cause to doubt his fidelity...if so you will need to deal with that...good luck
2007-10-05 15:57:04 · answer #5 · answered by hanz2602 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe knowing what was going on in your dream might help his ED....it might excite him to know you have dreams....even if it was a bad dream for you...it's the sexual part of it that interests him!!!
Dont read to deep into it....typical answer if you ask me....LOL
Good Luck!!
2007-10-05 16:01:32 · answer #6 · answered by justbcuzitzfun 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
for my area. undesirable dreamz are jst a guy or woman's misconceptions approximately sth . it could additionally be led to by skill of the strategies n emotions approximately sth or which these days got here in ur existence. it would desire to b a guy or woman's concern for sth. it would desire to b a foreshadow of upcuming jeopardy.
2016-10-21 04:43:48 · answer #7 · answered by genthner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax. Any man would have ED if his wife had the tendencies to manufacture problems like you.
Take a long look at your marriage. Find the problems... and I mean REAL problems, and work on them. Do not drive your poor hubby crazy by exposing him to your own insecurities.
Good luck.
2007-10-05 15:58:14 · answer #8 · answered by box of rain 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Weird response to your dream.
2007-10-05 15:55:39 · answer #9 · answered by maggiejay16 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. Obvious he has no clue about who he was/is supposed to cheat with. Isn't that nice to know he has no one in mind ? It seems you are a little insecure. Tell him how you feel and you should start to build your confident to yourself and making yourself more desirable for him.
2007-10-05 15:57:38 · answer #10 · answered by Ski Bum 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
strange yes but i wouldnt worry till you have or find some actual proof
2007-10-05 15:55:28 · answer #11 · answered by ladyhawk3k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋