Ok well my ex-boyfriend asked me out today and i said yes because i never stopped loving him, but the problem is my parents DO NOT want us together. They are the one's who broke us up in the first place. I want to tell them, but they will NOT understand. so idk wat to do. help help help. please
2007-10-05 15:30:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe have him call them and exlain how hes feels then you can ak them the reasons why they dont want u 2 to be 2gether and tell them how you feel*wouldnt suggest using love though* just tell them i really like him and if they say no dont date him because if they find out*they always do* then youll lose their trust just be friends witrh feelings with this guy.he should understand if you explain
2007-10-05 15:36:08 · answer #1 · answered by idahogirl91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is your parents the only reason you guys broke up.I suspect there are some very important facts that you have not mentioned as to why you parents did not want you guys together----could it be you're both too young, that you are engaging in inappropriate conduct(such as sexual intercourse), not going to school and doing your homework,have failed to follow the rules set for you, or he is much older than you. As a minor, you have to be respectful of your parents orders and feelings.However, you can both go to your parents and try to convince them to let you start dating.Prove to them that you will follow all curfews, obey all instructions and with time show them that you can be responsible individuals. Be honest and truthful in your talk with them, you can even promise to review the whole arrangement in about six months.to see how things are going.
2007-10-05 15:52:00 · answer #2 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You won't ever be able to get over him if your not allowed to let this play out the way it's meant to. Your parents don't understand that the more they pull you two apart, the more you will want to be together. I don't know how old you are but if you are too old for them to "forbid" you to go outside at all, then you are old enough to do what you want to do. Parents need to butt out! They don't have to understand. Their job is to be there to catch you when or if you fall. NOT to say i told you so. Don't be afraid or ashamed if it doesn't work. Just admit it and move on. You have to start thinking for yourself or they will control you forever if you let them.
2007-10-05 15:40:55 · answer #3 · answered by bigsexy3531 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's time for you to sit down and have a talk with your parents and ask the reason they disapprove of your relationship. Depending on your age, it's true that if you're too young, your parents may know what's best for you though you disagree with them sometimes. Try to see it from their perspective and see if it makes sense to you and tell them why you think he's the one for you. Have a discussion with them and come to conclusion together.
2007-10-05 15:37:38 · answer #4 · answered by JustANiceGuyHere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont your parents want you two together? if they have good reason, then listen to them, as there might be something you never thought of. if they just dont like him, then let them know that when they have good reason not to like him, you will comply with their wishes, but until then you are going to go out with him. unless you are under 18 your parents have little to say. do however understand that you parents are going to have a hard time letting you go as you get older, and there is likely not going to be any guy they truly like at first.
2007-10-05 15:40:53 · answer #5 · answered by richard b 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you think that this is your love life, talk to your parents, tell them that you want to find the truth on your own and and let you decide what's best for you.Promise them that if you see that this guy only want to play with you, you will take the desicion not to get back with him. Iam sure that they will see how mature you are and let you meet him. GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-10-05 15:42:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As I have gotten older I have learned sometimes you should listen to your family and friends. I would not have wanted to admit it at the time, but looking back on a couple of things....i would have to say SOMETIMES...they see more than what you do.Just be smart and keep an open mind...Sorry if thats not what you wanted to hear.
2007-10-05 15:38:25 · answer #7 · answered by MissV 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, how old are you? If you're at least 17, I say go on out with him. Who knows, this may very well be your soul mate. On the other hand, if you're no older than 16, just let it go. Sorry....
2007-10-05 15:39:03 · answer #8 · answered by watersign 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them your feelings and try and understand why they won't let you go out with him. If it seems logical then think of it on their perspective. If it seems retarted, then go out with him but keep in mind what your parents think, because whether you like it or not, they know best.
2007-10-05 15:33:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Classic problem that presents itself in a million different ways. Why don't they like him?
2007-10-05 15:34:03 · answer #10 · answered by joe c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋