Family & Relationships - 5 October 2007

even in public.........we used to make out in the car, we don't do that. He'll only peck me and hold my hand, because he doesn't want me to look like a whore in public. IS that boring or what? Why did it have to change just because we've been together forever??

2007-10-05 16:40:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok well there's this guy and he wasn't my bf but we were friends then became not friends then became friends again and he asked me if I wanted to be friends with benefits. I really liked him when I first met him and then I started liking him again and we both never done stuff with the opp sex other than kiss so I wanted to be each others firsts. Well he has a gf in a diff state but we agreed that we wouldn't go out we would just pretty much act like we were going out and if one of us wanted sex, we would give it willingly and that night we slept in each others arms (w/o doig stuff) and it was like the best night I ever had. Well today I seen him and he was at his friends house but he was with another girl and they had eachothers arms around eachother. My friend said that I should be really pissed and I was jealous but not like overly pissed cuz we weren't going out in the 1st place. But Idk he promised we would be friends no matter what and I feel like he used me cuz he doesnt

2007-10-05 16:39:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my husband are constantly separating and getting back together, its always because i keep giving him a chance and as soon as he is back in he does something devastating again. He treats me very poorly never hits me but poor in other areas i constantly run back because we have 4 kids together and i become so lonely without him,yet when im with him im miserable how do i finally let go and move on with my life ?

2007-10-05 16:39:22 · 10 answers · asked by cocoa 4 3 in Marriage & Divorce

one of my best friends is 31(im 14) and she has a 60yo hubby. they have been married 4 n3/4yrs now. she has one step-daughter who is older thasn her by 2 yrs(actaully her hubby's stepdaughter from 1st marriage who's mum is dead) and 2 stepsosn age 17 n 15. her stepsosn love her like their mom(there mom is currently in jail for lesbian child sex abuse and the kids have disowned her) the older stepdaughter alos gets on fine iwth her mom but lives in egypt wiv her 2 sons so she hardly eva meerts. about 2 years ago my friend was attacked cos of the age gap in her marriage.why? why dont ppl like age gaps in relationship?
btw my friend claims the love in her relationship has died out but her hubby stiil loves her(she dusnt love him) but she stays cos of the "gr8 sex she gets" and the love for her stepkids/pets/house/in-laws dat live with her

so what are your veiws? plz dont post mean things. WHY DO YOU NOT LIKE AGE GAPS IN MARRIAGE?

2007-10-05 16:34:36 · 13 answers · asked by possessed by insanity 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Plizz take a minute n read. * It's not normal for me..saying these words, but think how u would feel n help. :
I mean..honestly, i really dont care about them anymore. The only reason i live with them is beccause i have to. Well, its because im goin to college, and i work in a pharmacy for a couple of hours.from 12:00 to 4:00. I am 19 by the way.
-- As you can imagine..thats not gonna bring me that much money to move out or anything. I mean i have -No plans of moving yet..cuz i know that i wont survive a day bymyself..n again thats because of the money. I have a sister who is 24, n will be getting engaged very soon, so shes got her life all planned already. ,Oh god..i dont know what to do anymore..my education is really important to me. I wanna finish that first.
--There is of course a reason why i say all this. Its because they dont give me a chance for Anything.

2007-10-05 16:33:50 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ok my mom loves to watch murder shows and dateline or 20/20 if it has bad stuff on it about murder and rape. I asked her curiously why she likes to watch that. She got all defensive and said "Oh so you think I'm a bad and evil person for watching this?! Everyone else watches this!!!!!!!" I said no I don't! and I said that the question is the same as "what's your favorite color" it's a get to know you question. She disagreed.

What's wrong with what I said? I'm curious. That's why I asked.

2007-10-05 16:31:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

well i have a bf for a year and 2 months now. and he told me today that theres a girl in his class who annoys him because she be making him touch her breast and she be putting her head in his shoulders and just sitting next to him everyday. i mean im happy that he told me but still im his girlfriend not just his friend. does that mean that he trust me alot to tell me that or that he sees me as a friend??? and well he told me that he had to tell somebody about it cuz it was bothering him and that he dont want me to think anything if i do see her like that. he says that he dont wanna be rude and curse her out, but like i really dont know wat to think and he did say she's not ugly but she's just annoying. is that disrespectful or wat???? plzzzzzzz help i dont know wat to think, thank u

2007-10-05 16:31:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and a distant family member of mine both experienced a relationship with someone that was involved and even married with kids to someone else (we both didnt know about it, please read on), these men lived two lives, with me he was having two families, mine with my kids and parents and his, in two countries thats why i didnt know there was someone else. either way, both men had pretty much the same pattern, one claimed to have cancer, the other a heart attack, of course it was a lie. i dont consider myself naive, neither is my cousin, but somehow we got trapped in something crazy. i read this is a pattern and a disorder these people have, anyone else ever experienced something like it?

2007-10-05 16:30:51 · 7 answers · asked by not this way 5 in Marriage & Divorce

ive been hangin out w/ this girl 4 about a month...i havent tried 2 kiss her yet but she might want me 2...anyway thats not my problem. im almost sure she likes me but she flirts w/ other guys around me and i usually jst take it and then join in on the convo but 2day she invited her ex boyfriend over who cheated on her and treatd her like **** and hes flirting w/ him rite in front of me . i jst sat over in the corner n then left after like an hour or 2 ...wtf do i do about this ****????

2007-10-05 16:30:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well finally after 6 yrs it's over! I was so in love with him...but he was soooo stuck up more worried about his looks, clothing, hair, shoes, etc. it was sick! I'm so glad that he's gone.

2007-10-05 16:29:16 · 8 answers · asked by bossmac7 1 in Singles & Dating

What does it mean when my ex girlfriend asks my friend for my phone number?...We talked and everything was cool. We talked like nothing even happened, it felt natural. She says she wants to hang out..blah blah blah. hasnt seen me in a long time. its nice to here from me...yada yada. She tells me to call her before I come up. I get a phone call from her a week and half later. I tell her that im coming up next weekend. She tells me that she gave our cat to someone. She goes into details about a dude she has been seeing at work and says she wont be around this weekend becasuse she is going camping with her boyfriend.

Why do I need to know that??? lol. Why would u tell me that?? Is she nuts? i didnt contact her, i text her 2 weeks later and said "whats up?" she responded..."do you need something?"
i dont get it. We went out for 5 years and have been apart for 7 months now. Keep in mind too that SHE asked one of my friends "So I hear he's got a Girlfriend now?" that's how it began.I don't!

2007-10-05 16:28:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We were together for 3 years and I know she is the one for me and I do not want to let her out of my grasp. I just do not know what to do but i know she is the one i want. We both have cerbral palsy and that makes it extra because we understand each other

2007-10-05 16:27:50 · 5 answers · asked by jamey w 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-05 16:27:11 · 16 answers · asked by savagegrace 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-05 16:25:38 · 3 answers · asked by bonacker 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok this dude told me he liked me a few times i didnt say it back now hes saying he has a girlfriend (and iknow he doesnt i even have proof) and he said never go out with me out of the blue it was really weird it kinda hurts my feelings cause i like him just never told him what do you people think?

2007-10-05 16:25:38 · 2 answers · asked by Crazed J 1 in Singles & Dating

My friends and I went out to dinner one Saturday night about 3 weeks ago and the waiter and I flirted for the 4 hours we were there. So my friends and I have been going back there to eat every Saturday night since then. This guy and I flirt the whole time and every time he walks by our table, all he does is stare. Even when he's not waiting on us, he always takes a break to come over to our table and chat with me. My friends keep encouraging me to give him my # but I don't wanna push it and I'd like him to ask me. How should I show him I really like him and show that I want him to ask me out without being to obvious?

2007-10-05 16:24:36 · 5 answers · asked by Alesha P 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't know how to tell them that i want to start dating.

2007-10-05 16:23:59 · 9 answers · asked by courtneyb1234 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-05 16:22:24 · 10 answers · asked by Bellantonio 5 in Singles & Dating

I feel like my life doesn't matter...like if I moved nobody would even miss me.... when im with people and ask what people say about me behind my back they just say nobody talks about me... it's kind of depressing me. I try to be nice and become friends with almost every1 I meet but they don't seem to care. Yet the jerks get talked about and recognized all the time.. I feel like I don't even matter sometimes... what should I do to be more recognizable?

2007-10-05 16:22:10 · 5 answers · asked by superdupernick12 1 in Friends

2007-10-05 16:20:13 · 22 answers · asked by charmed 4 in Singles & Dating

What do you do when you can't leave your house without being called every name in the book, or your partner is thinking of leaving you depending on what the answer is to something an ex "friend" told him/her?? Even when nothing they could've told him could be true?
I know someone will say ignore them..but what if you can't? You can't not let them control your life, because it isn't a matter of you letting them? Its they have complete control over it and theres jack squat you can do..
I don't know what to do anymore...Please help me..

2007-10-05 16:19:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i mean am i suppossed to hold hands or something? i like him alot, but am i going to kiss him or what?! btww his names Bradford. how cute is that? but yha just FYI me.

love yha!
kristina marie

2007-10-05 16:18:57 · 16 answers · asked by Kristina Marie 1 in Singles & Dating

She says that we are over, and i keep persisting emailing her. I'm not meaning to. I love her, and i just don't know. Help me. Please.

2007-10-05 16:18:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

guy: (7:42:37 PM): yeah ur right i am
me (7:42:50 PM): psssh
guy (7:43:53 PM): pshhhhhhhhh thats the sound of my body from the steam

wut was tht supposed to mean?

2007-10-05 16:09:11 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-05 16:06:43 · 5 answers · asked by undefined 1 in Singles & Dating

price? style? work? personality? if i should look at all these things, then which are most important? Any help would be appreciated!!

2007-10-05 16:04:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I like this kid soooo much. My friend told me it was obvious to everyone except him that I liked him. A few times, I've caught him looking at me when we're testing and stuff. He's in my group in our History class, along with my friend Tyler. I used to not talk very much, but now I talk a lot more. I'm feeling very popular lately because people think I'm really funny... so I'll be like, talking a lot once we finish our work and stuff, and sometimes he talks to someone else, and sometimes he like, smiles nad laughs when I'm talking, and sometimes he just gives me this weird look. In french class, we do a lot of presentations, skits, and stuff, and whenever he goes up and presents, every time he looks my way, he does that weird thing where he like, flips his hair back or whatever. lol He's soooo cute. Does he like me?

2007-10-05 16:03:07 · 17 answers · asked by DunderMifflin 3 in Singles & Dating

ok so this guy asked me(a girl) to be his "fruitloop" wat does this mean!!!!

2007-10-05 15:58:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I love my wife of 7 years, and my 2 children, and the one coming soon. But over my last deployment, I met a girl. I feel the same way for her as I do for my wife. She and my wife get along really well, but I can tell that the whole situation is hurting my wife. She is trying to be accepting of the situation for my sake, but I don't know if she is going to be able to handle it. I can not stand to lose any of them, what do I do?

2007-10-05 15:54:54 · 23 answers · asked by pittiesrock 2 in Marriage & Divorce

'love is blind'

2007-10-05 15:51:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating