I feel like my life doesn't matter...like if I moved nobody would even miss me.... when im with people and ask what people say about me behind my back they just say nobody talks about me... it's kind of depressing me. I try to be nice and become friends with almost every1 I meet but they don't seem to care. Yet the jerks get talked about and recognized all the time.. I feel like I don't even matter sometimes... what should I do to be more recognizable?
2007-10-05 16:22:10 · 5 answers · asked by superdupernick12 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
get involved in sports or something.
2007-10-05 16:25:08 · answer #1 · answered by . 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let other people define how you feel about yourself. If you feel invisible you are going to give off that impression. Stop being afraid to talk to people. Stop worrying about what people are saying about you. Approach it like you are the life of the party. Just be super nice to everyone and have no regard for how they are going to react. Incorporate yourself into the conversation. Ask questions to get to know about people. Compliment someone's outfit. Listen and share your own stories. Offer advise. Joke around. Just be approachable. If you're walking around all insecure, people will not want to approach you and you will be pretty much invisible to them. Show them you have a personality.
2007-10-05 16:28:59 · answer #2 · answered by SeoulGirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with you!
If people don't talk about you, don't worry about it. It sounds like your pretty young. This stage of your life will end. Concentrate on yourself, if you keep your focus on everyone els, you will never be happy. Trust me, you don't want to be talked about behind your back...Hang in there!
2007-10-05 16:33:31 · answer #3 · answered by Grasshopper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand out. Be yourself. If you're unique, and you're NOTHING like anyone, then people will find you interesting and you'll get recognized.
2007-10-05 16:40:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you think your life would be better with "fame"?
2007-10-05 16:25:11 · answer #5 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋