Ok well there's this guy and he wasn't my bf but we were friends then became not friends then became friends again and he asked me if I wanted to be friends with benefits. I really liked him when I first met him and then I started liking him again and we both never done stuff with the opp sex other than kiss so I wanted to be each others firsts. Well he has a gf in a diff state but we agreed that we wouldn't go out we would just pretty much act like we were going out and if one of us wanted sex, we would give it willingly and that night we slept in each others arms (w/o doig stuff) and it was like the best night I ever had. Well today I seen him and he was at his friends house but he was with another girl and they had eachothers arms around eachother. My friend said that I should be really pissed and I was jealous but not like overly pissed cuz we weren't going out in the 1st place. But Idk he promised we would be friends no matter what and I feel like he used me cuz he doesnt
2007-10-05 16:39:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
really talk to me much anymore. And I tried giving him a bj because he kept asking me for one and I was bitching at his friend and he said that I wanted to give him one and that he never liked me so idk if I should ever be friends with him again. I'm seeing him this sunday cuz we works where I'm going and I don't know what I should say to him just some advice plz.
2007-10-05 16:41:10 · update #1
to be honest no u dont have the right to be mad... but!! he is real messed up for doing that so what i suggest to u is to be more like guys on this 1 and realize that there ARE more fish in the sea and just dont pay attention when guys act like that because guarenteed that hes either gonna apologize, continue being a ***** *** dude, or make it as if your the crazy one. So just do whatever u think is best... immagine your someone else and your best friend is going through what you are and write it down if you have to to make u stay strong... and giving him a bj doesnt work... believe me i used that on alot of girls... so most likely he just wants sex with u.
2007-10-05 16:48:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls are for some reason incapable of being friends with benefits.
when you realized that was "the best night you ever had", that was a biiiig billboard sitting over your head saying "you can't do this, stop if before you start caring".
now live with being in limbo-relationship.
and no, you have no right being pissed at him. he's not your boyfriend. he can put his arms around whomever he wants.
2007-10-05 23:44:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be mad at what
u knew what you signed up for
a friend with benefits
nothing else
jsut because you developed feelings overnight oh well
you are a friend with benefits not a gf or wife he can do what he wants
just like you can do whatever you want
2007-10-06 00:31:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you don't. You agreed to "friends with benefits" which means at his convenience. Obviously, you weren't convenient that day because he was with someone else. He is not your boyfriend, and he can and will date whomever he wants to date.
2007-10-05 23:42:04 · answer #4 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you want this guy to use you like this, or would you rather find a guy that will treat you right. he's not treating you right, and you know it.
2007-10-05 23:43:13 · answer #5 · answered by mimi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋