She says that we are over, and i keep persisting emailing her. I'm not meaning to. I love her, and i just don't know. Help me. Please.
2007-10-05 16:18:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Will she forgive me? Will she understand?
2007-10-05 16:19:18 · update #1
sometimes in order for someone to talk to you, you have to back off and give them space, time to think. what you are doing is a "in your face" which could be more aggravating. give her as much time as she needs also you would be doing yourself a favor by getting your thoughts clear about what you need not to do the next time - good luck
2007-10-05 16:28:16 · answer #1 · answered by lynnette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I hate to ask, but what did you do to make her so angry at you? Apparently it was something pretty bad, judging from her reactions to you. The best thing to do is to give her some time and space to deal with her feelings about the issue. Don't bug her with emails. It may be too early for you to even be sorry for what you did, depending on what that is. You may also need some time to think about what you did and analyze yourself and figure out why you did it and if it with ever happen again. After some time, you may be able to address her peacefully and plead your case with good reason. Time will allow you to determine how and why you made that mistake and what you need to do to completely correct it. By completely correct it, I mean show her that it will never happen again. These things take time, and believe it or not time can heal all.
2007-10-05 23:31:13 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs. T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what you did, & it doesn't matter, but just be honest w/her. Admit you made a terrible mistake that you honestly regret & it's upsetting you not being able to put in words how much she means to you & how much you want/need her in your life. Tell her you do realize how wrong you were, & want to show her how sorry you are & also that you w/not do it again. Let her know you're also hurting because of your sake. Just ask her if she'd forgive you this once & w/prove to her how much she means to you by not letting her down again. Also let her know just how much you "value" your relationship & can't resign yourslf you can't just have another chance to prove yourself to her. Tell her too, you're having a hard time putting a "closure" on all your memories. You just can't do it. I trust all goes well for You.
2007-10-05 23:40:44 · answer #3 · answered by Sue C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jack, there is a huge difference between and women....what they think, what they want.....Men are idiots. Tell her that. Tell her to forgive you for being a man. Tell her that you havent found the common ground that makes you apealing to her and that you seem to keep coming off like an idiot. Now your probably not an idiot, but she thinks you are....so roll with that. Women dont think like us and we will never fully understand them....but we can try to meet them at the border.
2007-10-05 23:26:38 · answer #4 · answered by BudLt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She said you were over...if she takes you back now, I wouldnt go...she would be to wishy washy for me...and if she can't reply to an email...sounds very childish and ill tempered, sounds like you're better off without her...it sucks now...but if you were still with her...imagine where you'd be in 5 years...with a drama queen who can't make up her mind and has no etiquette....
2007-10-05 23:47:26 · answer #5 · answered by Wade . 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off Steve that is a terrible thing to write. Jack I feel bad that your hurting even though I don't know you and I don't know what you did. I do however agree with Wade and I'm going to vote for him.God bless you
2007-10-06 07:39:21 · answer #6 · answered by born 2 d-mn romantic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what did you do? Is it something that you did over and over again until she got fed up? If not then just give her some space and let her get over the anger, by you bugging her, youre only pushing her away
2007-10-05 23:22:10 · answer #7 · answered by mythoughts 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is own up to what ever you did that offended her and say you are sorry, it's on her then if she wants to forgive you. You can't force anyone to forgive.
2007-10-05 23:31:41 · answer #8 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a wife or a girlfriend? If wife, then pursue and apologize. If it was really bad, fall on your knees and beg forgiveness. If girlfriend, she doesn't really love ya, man. Let her go.
2007-10-05 23:26:10 · answer #9 · answered by pittiesrock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont chase and persit and harras. Get the message and move on with your life. You cant force people to love you.The more you persist the more they will hate you.
2007-10-05 23:22:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋