well i have a bf for a year and 2 months now. and he told me today that theres a girl in his class who annoys him because she be making him touch her breast and she be putting her head in his shoulders and just sitting next to him everyday. i mean im happy that he told me but still im his girlfriend not just his friend. does that mean that he trust me alot to tell me that or that he sees me as a friend??? and well he told me that he had to tell somebody about it cuz it was bothering him and that he dont want me to think anything if i do see her like that. he says that he dont wanna be rude and curse her out, but like i really dont know wat to think and he did say she's not ugly but she's just annoying. is that disrespectful or wat???? plzzzzzzz help i dont know wat to think, thank u
2007-10-05 16:31:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hes telling u this because he feels guilty. henot welcoming her advances but he's not rejecting them either. he may even be doing a lot more than he is telling you. open your eyes and close your heart. let your brain do the thinking on this one peace.
2007-10-05 16:37:31 · answer #1 · answered by Silas C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he respects you, he wouldn't do those things or let the other girl get close to him. It seems as though he doesn't really care. I don't think he's a good bf at all. A good bf would know to only put HIS GF in his mind. He's a wuss if he can't tell the other girl to get lost. What if later on in the relationship, more girls come up to him and do the same thing? Most likely, he won't do anything about it unless he really cares for you because it's bothering you. Forget about him. What kind of a bf is he?
2007-10-05 16:35:15 · answer #2 · answered by craz34jason 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hes trying to tell you something, listen carefully. Since when can a girl make a guy touch her breast? Why would he allow her to put her head on his shoulder? They are acting like lovers. Maybe he told you that because others see whats going on and hes afraid you will find out.
2007-10-05 16:39:55 · answer #3 · answered by canam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy's girlfriend is also supposed to be his best friend. Be happy that he feels comfortable telling you what goes on with his life. He feels secure in his relationship with you. It's obvious the other girl is making a play for him, but he's not biting. Chill!!!
2007-10-05 16:39:35 · answer #4 · answered by soupkitty 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is probably feeling pretty proud that someone is showing him some affection but if he is really true to you he should tell her to stop. He should tell her that he is not interested and that he is taken. It is a matter of who is more important you or her. If it was the other way around would he be upset? Probably
Good Luck
Big "D"
2007-10-05 16:39:55 · answer #5 · answered by Big "D" 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ARE his girlfriend
You ARE his best friend
Its good he told you...its all part of your relationship - good communication , etc
So its NOT a bad thing that he told you.....just be honest with him like he is being with you!
( if the thought of this girl coming on to him is p*ssing you off - TELL him...he's probably looking for a reaction...it shows you care!!!! )
2007-10-05 16:37:33 · answer #6 · answered by chandra 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She annoys him because why?!?! She MAKES him - repeat, MAKES him touch her breast? What are you thinking? Don't walk away from him girl - RUN. And while your running, gather some self worth along the way.
2007-10-05 16:40:43 · answer #7 · answered by risa131313 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off he is letting you know because he cares enugh to let you know what is going on so he is showing you that he involves you in his life but for the girl tell him to let her know that he has you now it is only respectful to you but dont worry about him think about you as a friend because as a gf your here for your bf as a love and a true friend
2007-10-05 16:36:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
bf and gf can be best friends too. can talk about anything under the sun. the happy the sad. he trust you. he wants to tell you everything. he sees you as his gf, listener and best friend. the best relatinship ever.:)
2007-10-05 16:37:12 · answer #9 · answered by cheer 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no, trust me, im a guy, he just wants to have an honest relationship, or its something hes just trying to make a joke out of
2007-10-05 16:35:13 · answer #10 · answered by Danny J 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋