What do you do when you can't leave your house without being called every name in the book, or your partner is thinking of leaving you depending on what the answer is to something an ex "friend" told him/her?? Even when nothing they could've told him could be true?
I know someone will say ignore them..but what if you can't? You can't not let them control your life, because it isn't a matter of you letting them? Its they have complete control over it and theres jack squat you can do..
I don't know what to do anymore...Please help me..
2007-10-05 16:19:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I would not live with a person who verbally abused me. Period. I would wash that person out of my life like a bad stain.
2007-10-05 16:23:05 · answer #1 · answered by Yinzer from Sixburgh 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no excuse for your partner to call you every name in the book. Why take that abuse? You need to leave the relationship. Or, talk to them about what the "ex" friend told them. Explain that whatever it was happened in the past and if they don't like it, you will move on. You cannot let this person control you. You said they have complete control... That is not true. They have as much control as you allow them to have. Stand up for yourself. You deserve better.
2007-10-05 16:23:14 · answer #2 · answered by SeoulGirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Such childish behavior. Get a back bone and walk out. If you can't leave while he is home, then wait until he goes to work and leave.
This is not an adult relationship. No one has control over your life unless you give them that control. You can't take something that does not belong to you.
You should never ignore remarks like he makes. You deserve what you demand. You are allowing him to treat you like this and he knows it.
This is another, "tail wagging the dog" relationship. If you don't stand up to him and get a life of your own, you will be miserable the rest of your life. Or, maybe you enjoy living like this.
It is Friday night. He must be out with his friends while you sit home and wait for him to return. That is why you are on the computer and not doting on him?
2007-10-05 17:35:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey you need to get out before is gets more than verbally abusive. If he is the controlling type, it won't stop there. I would wait til he goes to work and find a place to go. maybe to a relative or friend that he doesn't know well. Pray to God for your safety, and get out quick. Hugs to you.and God be with you always.
2007-10-05 16:34:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would leave for good. if you don't go back then you can't leave again, and be called names. and if you continue to put up with it then you have no right to complain. why do you put up with it? and don't tell me you love this person, how can you love some one who treats you so bad. also there is no question that this person does not love you, no matter what they say
2007-10-05 16:29:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are over 18 years of age, no one has control over you unless you give it to them.
So if you don't like your situation, then realize that you created the situation, then change it.
2007-10-05 16:22:53 · answer #6 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what the hey,leave,come back in a couple of days,and see if any thing has changed,if not ,its time,and you no what i mean,,nobody should live under the microscope
2007-10-05 16:25:48 · answer #7 · answered by THE"IS" 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get out now. He is hiding something and he resents you. It won't get better and may even get violent. Be safe, get out.
2007-10-05 16:23:43 · answer #8 · answered by hawkinthehouse 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋