Family & Relationships - 5 October 2007

Hey ladies, a few days ago I asked a question about my fiance watching porn. Now what I want to know is what would you do if you found your man watching porn?? And has anybody ever found them watching it? What did you do if so?How did it make you feel when it happened?

2007-10-05 14:42:32 · 13 answers · asked by Aneres 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-05 14:41:35 · 9 answers · asked by hugskisses4707 3 in Singles & Dating

Hey, i need ur advice. c all the guys think im cute but none of the guys like me. i dont get that. theres only one guy at mi skool that likes me and he happens 2 b the wierdest guy on the planet. and he gets sent 2 the principals office every day. but i like them bad... lol jk! hes a jerk and UGLY!!! ewww!!! anyways... so any advice?? how do i win them over?

signed,

frustrated and confused

2007-10-05 14:38:18 · 5 answers · asked by Maddie 1 in Singles & Dating

I have just meet my mom almost one year ago and I have lived with my mom for almost 9 months and I have not been happy for almost 5 months because I just did not bother with it but then I just started missing my family more because they are moving on and I am not with them and it bothers me and now I want to move back with my dad so that I could be with my family, but I don't really know how to get the conversation going and I don't really know what to say to her with out hurting her feelings, can someone please help me?

2007-10-05 14:38:13 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-10-05 14:38:04 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Let's say you went out with a guy or girl. Feel as if he or she is the one. Then he comes clean. He or she sleeps with a parent of his or hers. And will always do it. NOW, you practically love this person, do you stay or run... what would you do. NO, not me, but you... if you were in this situation

2007-10-05 14:37:20 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am wondering how you would to respond to a person, who separated from an unhealthy relationship with an elderly parent (who is behaving in a way that is aggressive, egotistical and emotionally abusive) who struggles with the commandment of 'honour thy parents’.

In reality would Christians condmemn her as bad (or unChristian) if she maintains the position that seems psychologically healthy and necessary for her own well being ?

She feels excluded from the possible support of the Catholic community, which was the religion of her upbringing as a result of her perception (or misperception) of their perspective.

Changing the father’s behaviour does not appear to be a realistic option as he appears to be in an obsessive state of mind (with her as a target) ... since the daughter revealed a belief that he sexually abused her as a child. He seems to believe that his only way to peace is by changing her mind.

2007-10-05 14:36:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I don't think she does. I mean she reads my diary and also my e-mails and text messages and rummages through my drawers and school things. The other day she found a note from my boyfriend that had some pretty private things in it about when we were going to go all the way and she flipped out. Plus, she got mad because I wrote an entry in my diary saying I can't stand her and she took it personal! I mean I was just mad that day! She should give me a break and let me have my privacy I mean I don't go through her things! Anyone agree with me? Does she really have a right to do this?

2007-10-05 14:36:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

A slow song that my daughter can dedicate to her older brother for them to slow dance to at her wedding

2007-10-05 14:36:11 · 15 answers · asked by grumpydog61 1 in Weddings

does that effect your relationship with your parents?

I am the youngest and I think it does. Because they don't want me to be like my oldest brother.

2007-10-05 14:35:33 · 14 answers · asked by Koter Boters misses Rufus! 6 in Family

I have a hyphenated last name. If someone writes me a check do they have to put the hyphenated name or can they just put my married last name? Assuming they didn't know it was hyphenated. Would the bank still cash it?

2007-10-05 14:35:10 · 6 answers · asked by lon1082 2 in Marriage & Divorce

do aliens really exist have you ever experienced lost time?are dogs and cats able to see departed spirits?does your dog or cat strare at seemingly nothing,do you ever wonder what your dog or cat is staring at?who really wrote the bible how can we know for sure who really wrote the bible?have you ever seen a shadow person?are you a possible victim of alien abduction?

2007-10-05 14:34:47 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Do some guys just not like foreplay. His idea of foreplay is "come over here" for oral sex. Once he is excited Its wahm bam. No hugging, kissing, nothing. I don't mind a quickie once in awhile but this is getting old fast. When I try to talk to him the responce is its my fault. Is he just a selfish lover or is there hope for him with teaching. Guys whats up with him. I really do not think it is me.

2007-10-05 14:34:27 · 11 answers · asked by Patty 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Well, my and my cousin are both in the 8th grade at the same school. Most people would be like oh cool, but I'm not! She always tries to be miss popularity and I don't like that! When we were in elementary we didn't go to the same school, and we were alot closer than we are now! She blocks me online so she can swear with her friends because she doesnt know I do, she used to say "Hi" in the halls but now she walks right by and gives me a dirty look unless she is by herself(no friends). We barely ever hang out anymore and I miss the days when we did every weekend. How can I convince her that you don't have to be popular? What can I do to become closer again?

2007-10-05 14:32:40 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Seriously, have you done this or heard of this? Guys posing as their wife on the net on various websites, talking to men, sharing pictures, all sorts of stuff.

2007-10-05 14:27:44 · 8 answers · asked by DMV 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I just feel so depressed, I have been married for 2 yrs now, My husbands mom lives in our apartment because they have alaways been living together and because he is the only son so he takes care of her. But she pretends she is the boss! she has control of the TV in the living room, she has all her stuff in the kitchen etc.. I feel like im the guest! and today at 3 pm it was so hot and humid so I turned on the AC and she started saying oh im so cold and got in her bed & when my husband came in he asked her why she was in bed at that time and she said " Oh because its so cold out in the living room, and he yelled at me & told me to lower it down!!! So I just turned it off. I cant beleive he doesnt care if Im hot or how I feel His mother is always going to be before me and that makes me so sad!! And she wont leave! I just hate her so much! I honestly pray everyday and ask to remove that hate I have for her but I just cant pretend to love her when I wish she disappeared! and I feel bad!!!

2007-10-05 14:18:13 · 35 answers · asked by ♥*´`*•. mommy♥*´`*•. 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-05 14:17:58 · 18 answers · asked by jay Lo 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it a common practice to demand and get it back or is it more common for the Husband to give up that amount?? (by law the money is mine, just not sure what is common about it). THANKS

2007-10-05 14:16:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

sound asleep, dreaming?

2007-10-05 14:16:06 · 9 answers · asked by Jim C 5 in Singles & Dating

Would that be a reason to pursue her? What is it about the money that you find attractive? Do you think it's wrong?

2007-10-05 14:13:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If a man has been deeply hurt by his first love, how can I get him to open up and stop being so cold hearted ?? he acts like all women are out to break his heart, so he wont let his guard down. Is there any hope for a man like this, or am I fighting a losing battle ? should I just give up and move on ??

2007-10-05 14:10:00 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok so me and one of my close guy friends had a fight over something really stupid.we had known eachother 5 yrs at the time, he accused me of making fake myspaces of guys to make him jealous.We had a huge argument as went our seperate ways..9 months later i email him and apologize for something i didnt do becuz i really cared for our friendship..hes ignoring the emails..why isnt he accepting the apology?Is is that big of a deal?

2007-10-05 14:09:33 · 11 answers · asked by Answer Me Damnit 5 in Singles & Dating

The girl I was going to go to homecoming with just left me for someone else! This is unfair!
I already got tickets and everything! What should I do with them?

2007-10-05 14:08:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-10-05 14:08:20 · 6 answers · asked by Thunor232 3 in Singles & Dating

I am 19.. My boyfriend isGOING to be 18 in less than a month. I live on my own, he still lives with his mom... But our moms are best friends!! My bestfriend and I started talking and decided it would be SO much fun to take a trip to Gatlinburg this winter break with our boyfriends in January (so he WILL be 18)... I talked to my mom about it and she said it would be a great idea.. But the only thing would be convincving his mom bc It is just me (19) my best friend (19) and her boyfriend (20) so noone that she would probably reaaly consider an adult.. But my mom said she would go with me to talk to his mom about it.. She's kinda strict though and I know she won't love that there's not someone older going, but my bestfriends mom is coming up for a day... And it would only be 3 nights 4 days.. But anyway, any tips on how to persuade her to say yes?

2007-10-05 14:07:52 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi. I'm a member of the R+S forum, and this is my first foray into your territory.

The above question is one I've asked a few times in R+S, and the answers I receive are always beautifully written, heartfelt, and a joy to read.

If you will, please take a few moments to share some of the things your grandparents have taught you, and the impact these lessons have had on you today.

Thanks to all for answering.

2007-10-05 14:07:30 · 11 answers · asked by iamnoone 7 in Family

We are both Marines in California, and have been deeply in love for a year now. He is not the kind of man to show his emotions , but in the past few months he has opened up to me so much and tells me as to how he feels about "us". He told me that he never wants to be with any other woman and wants me to be the mother of his children. Everything he talks about is including "us" and the future he wants us to have. He told me that being with me is like "finally coming home!". He says he never wants to lose me and if I did it would crush him for the rest of his life. He said if he lost me his world would end. He asked me to move in with him so that we can finally get our life started and have a solid foundation for our lives. Doe it seem to you that he wanting to propose to me or am I just misreading the things he is talking about? He has talked about marriage as well and did say he wants me to be the woman he will marry in the future

2007-10-05 14:07:19 · 25 answers · asked by one Life to live 3 in Weddings

I am 19.. My boyfriend is about to be 18 in less than a month. I live on my own, he still lives with his mom... But our moms are best friends!! My bestfriend and I started talking and decided it would be SO much fun to take a trip to Gatlinburg this winter break with our boyfriends... I talked to my mom about it and she said it would be a great idea.. But the only thing would be convincving his mom bc It is just me (19) my best friend (19) and her boyfriend (20) so noone that she would probably reaaly consider an adult.. But my mom said she would go with me to talk to his mom about it.. She's kinda strict though and I know she won't love that there's not someone older going, but my bestfriends mom is coming up for a day... And it would only be 3 nights 4 days.. But anyway, any tips on how to persuade her to say yes?

2007-10-05 14:06:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So, my fiance and I have not gotten in the sack for quite a while. I would like some great advice on how to turn him on and suduce him into bed with me. Please give me some step by step info. I don't know where to start.

2007-10-05 14:00:32 · 13 answers · asked by kyla_shaylee 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so im in 7th grade and i like a guy in 6th grade and i wanted 2 no if its ok 2 go out w/ a younger guy and then also i wrote the guy 2 notes and he didnt respond 2 1 of them not sure bout the other 1 and what can i do b-cuz he apaerntly hates me so how do i find out if he hates me and/or if he likes me thx 4 all the help but i just gave him the note at the beginning of the day and i dont c the 6th graders all day...
...o yea and 2 of his friends in 7th (my grade) told me he hated me but he doesnt act like a 6th grader he acts like hes in my grade and i ask him y and they said they dont know so i really hope he doesnt hate me

2007-10-05 13:58:10 · 8 answers · asked by ♥twilight series ADDICT♥ 1 in Singles & Dating