So, my fiance and I have not gotten in the sack for quite a while. I would like some great advice on how to turn him on and suduce him into bed with me. Please give me some step by step info. I don't know where to start.
2007-10-05 14:00:32 · 13 answers · asked by kyla_shaylee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He's your fiance and you don't know where to start? Unless your a virgin that sounds dumb. Play music you both like. Lower the lights. While slow dancing make a move...He'll get the hint. And if he is interested he won't need much coercing.
2007-10-05 14:16:28 · answer #1 · answered by Red Rose 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry to say but if he is only your fiance...and you already having trouble...and have to seduce him to have sex...did you ever think how it will be when you guys will be married....
Well ...I would prepare a nice candle light diner with some deem music on the living room floor ...like a picnic..and have a nice romantic..diner over a glass of vine...and take it from there...also you could dress up really nice...like for a special ocasion.....Good luck
2007-10-05 14:07:07 · answer #2 · answered by Juliet 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I am in a similar boat when it comes to my girl. I am always down and she seems like she is not into it. I know this sounds bad but i have just stopped trying. However, if things don't get better I am going to have to throw down the gauntlet and say either give it up or i am out...that is what you should do...tell him your problems and if he still doesn't give it up then you are going to have to seriously consider leaving
2007-10-05 14:35:44 · answer #3 · answered by Voicekiller 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try this, think of something he's attracted to, anything that he likes. Next try finding the right props and the right clothes to make a costume out of it for yourself and maybe for him. but yours HAS to be sexy. Then, give him a little surprise. This kind of experience is what we call role playing. It might sound geeky at first, but a lot of couples resort to this to give them a boost with their sex life.
2007-10-05 14:16:13 · answer #4 · answered by blaktigr84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not wait till you make the covanant between the 2 of you and actually get married first before bringing sex into the picture.
2007-10-05 17:25:26 · answer #5 · answered by Bryan M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont let these people tell you u are dumb for not knowing how to seduce him. Thats not what your saying, i get it. You just want to try to spice things up. Nothing wrong with that. Men get in a rut. They get comfortable with us. I have been married 14 years and still look for ways to get his attention. Never stop trying honey! Men are clueless sometimes. BUT they are also very Visual. So change things about yourself. Your cloths, your hair, etc. Also. they love their ego's stroked. lol. so try telling him how you love him for what he does. How he makes you feel, what you want him to do to you. etc. Make it about him and not you and trust me. He will perk up!! :)
2007-10-05 14:36:14 · answer #6 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You start with wearing something sexy that would turn him on. Play some music and put on a little dance for him. Just let him lay there while you fondle, kiss, caress, and move seductively.
2007-10-05 14:05:15 · answer #7 · answered by ~Josie~ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Have a shower and when you're finished walk out in a towel. Walk up to him and take the towel off. If he doesn't clue in, start kissing him.
2007-10-05 14:07:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drink alcohol together and be cute, flirty, touchy feely. Make sure you don't get too drunk, because he may not want to. You have to stay alert enough to know how you're doing.
2007-10-05 14:04:01 · answer #9 · answered by Lovey 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
lights low, candles and some soft music to go along with a skimpy teddy.... works for me
2007-10-05 14:03:35 · answer #10 · answered by mrdanno2003 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋