I don't think she does. I mean she reads my diary and also my e-mails and text messages and rummages through my drawers and school things. The other day she found a note from my boyfriend that had some pretty private things in it about when we were going to go all the way and she flipped out. Plus, she got mad because I wrote an entry in my diary saying I can't stand her and she took it personal! I mean I was just mad that day! She should give me a break and let me have my privacy I mean I don't go through her things! Anyone agree with me? Does she really have a right to do this?
2007-10-05 14:36:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
My mom used to do that to me. I baited her. I had friends write me cryptic notes and leave them in my drawers or pockets. "We are on for Saturday." "You were right about Susie." "Could you believe what Mrs White said in geometry today?" "I can't believe the book list we get to choose from in lit class. I know which one I'm going to choose." "Did Tom tell you about what he &Sara did?"OK you get the idea. Things to itch her curiosity but nothing substantial, no lies to get anyone in trouble. She would scream at me and ask "What about Susie?" And I would say something like "She likes to dance close. (this was in 1950's) The point of this was to direct her attention to where I wanted it to be and away from what I really was doing. And I could laugh at her.
2007-10-05 16:15:12 · answer #1 · answered by old beatnik 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I had a mother like that. She was abusive in other ways, but one of her favorite things to do was go through my mail, email, myspace, phone records, diary entries, for no reason at all. It was a way to make me scared, and an excuse to get me in trouble. She has the legal right to do that to you, but it is PSYCHOLOGICALLY DAMAGING. If you ask a psychologist, continually invading a teen girl's privacy is seriously harmful to her sense of trust and individuality. Try talking to your mom, or to a school counselor, see if you can come to an agreement. My mother was impossible to fix, so don't expect too much... do what you can to protect yourself. It's not fair.
2007-10-05 14:41:47 · answer #2 · answered by amh 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry that your mom doesnt comprehend or believe your privateness. you should take a seat down together with her as quickly as she is calmed and frivolously without disrespecting her in any comprehend tell her the type you sense and how she made you sense. No she shouldnt had invaded your privateness, she ought to believe you which you does not do something to disrespect your self or get your self into any worry. Does she has an actual to be mad...as a mom regrettably we adore our little ones lots that we dont want them to get harm or be guided in the incorrect direction, so subsequently with the %that she observed and the verbal replace that she examine...nicely yeah hun, sorry to declare yet your mom loves you and cares for you and if she didnt love you she wouldnt care and assist you do however you like. be happy that your mom loves you not many little ones has that luxury. in basic terms check together with her.
2016-10-21 04:35:59 · answer #3 · answered by reardigan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking as a Mother, I don't invade my daughter's privacy, but there is a limit. We are mothers and we want what is best for you, we don't want you to get hurt, so sometimes, yes, its ok...but your Mom sounds like she's going a bit overboard. Why don't you sit down with her and talk, tell her what's going on in your life, then she won't have to snoop.
2007-10-05 16:24:28 · answer #4 · answered by Gaia Weeps 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT CAN I SAID, SHE IS YOUR MOTHER, AND YOU LIVED AT HER HOUSE. HOW OLD ARE YOU? WELL THE SAME HAPPENS TO ME. I AM FIFTEEN AND MY MOM ALSO CHECKS MY DRAWERS, BOOKBAGS, BUT LUCKILY SHE DOESNT CHECK MY E-MAIL. WELL I BELIEVE SHE SHOULD GIVE YOU SOME PRIVACY IF YOU ARE LIKE IN HIGH SCHOOL, OR TEENAGER 14 OR OLDER.
2007-10-05 14:46:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES AND NO
Yes:cause she's your mother. she should know what you plan to do and stuff. school stuff, boyfriends, friends, etc. she just want you to be safe.
No:because if she's reading your diary, there's something wrong. it may be the last bad thing you did last time.
2007-10-05 14:58:16 · answer #6 · answered by Lols 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
i know exactly what u mean. not my diary but she check my internet + in my dresser + stuff
2007-10-06 01:35:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
how old are you that has ALOT to do with your question... generally speaking as long as you live in her house she has a right to do just about anything she wants to .... sorry if that not the answer you wanted but..........
2007-10-05 14:41:57 · answer #8 · answered by mrdanno2003 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
ohh my god!!!!!!!!
are u serious ,thank goddess my mom isn't that much
2007-10-05 15:05:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋