Hey ladies, a few days ago I asked a question about my fiance watching porn. Now what I want to know is what would you do if you found your man watching porn?? And has anybody ever found them watching it? What did you do if so?How did it make you feel when it happened?
2007-10-05 14:42:32 · 13 answers · asked by Aneres 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Being that I have. I let it go... for now. He denies it and once he finally admits to it I will tell him that I have known and how long I have known. Which will make him feel guilty. I found a paper towel he used and forgot to throw away. He felt bad about it and said he would not look at it again until AFTER we got married.
Well, he kept his word until the morning of the wedding. But he claims it was his best friend. Whatever.
I am very hurt by it. I feel that I am not enough for him. He has me, but yet he also has to look at porn? He even tells me I am hot, how lucky he is that he married me and how he can't keep his hands off of me.
Well apparently he can't keep off the damn porn sites either.
2007-10-05 16:07:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a sensitive subject...if you trip and act all crazy, the only thing that will do is make him better at sneaking. He will watch porn if he wants to. So, you need to sit down and talk to him about this. How old is he? And sexually sound is your relationship because in my opinion if a man is watching porn alone then his body isn't completely made up. He's still seeking sexual excitement! i say watching it alone, because if friends were watching it too then it could just be men pretending to be macho! you have a decision to make, can you deal with the porn or not? And how often does he do this. You really need to talk to him without blowing up!
2007-10-05 21:48:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My fiance is always watching it. I don't care. He watches it in front of me all the time. It hardly ever excites me, personally, but he really likes it. It doesn't make me feel anything as long as he takes care of my needs. If he didn't and only got off on porn, I'd probably cheat on him.
2007-10-05 21:51:07 · answer #3 · answered by lovebird 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say, "OMG, is that porn", laugh and carry on my merry little way. I'm not bothered by my man watching porn. We attemptto watch a bit together but I blushed and giggled too much lol
There are a lot of things in porn that I won't do, so I think to myself, "I won't do it, so let him fantasize"
2007-10-05 21:46:52 · answer #4 · answered by Megegie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
we are not as visual as men.. men and sex are not the same as women and sex... first ask yourself, what makes you self doubt yourself, do you feel by his porn watching, he finds you less attractive? im asking because, im female, and my sister has these same issues, use speak of..i have men as friends, and have had male roomates too. so i just kept searching and talking these things too, i mean porn does nothing for me, nor does it do much for many women, not all, but more porn and strip club, hookers and so on are for men, not as much for us, why? goes with nature, men are hunters, women are gatherers. if you can, step away from the emotions for a moment, try to look from a mans mind ,,,lol well read up on it.. if you can begin to understand a little of it, you will not only empower yourself, it will allow you to look with in too...( im not trying to dis-miss your feelings, im only trying to let you know, that chances are, its more natural , and you have been made aware of this).you are no less a women , it has nothing to do with desire for you either.. this i would bet money on...
2007-10-06 02:13:17 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife aske me why I was looking at porn. I said "I like to look at naked women and I haven't seen much of you lately." (Just stated the facts.) She immediately stripped and jumped in my lap. She started to show more skin around the house, sometimes just topless, sometimes underpants, sometimes just a towel, or my favorite = just a Tshirt, or my fav fav, nothing at all. It not only turns me on, but turns her on a lot just showing off. Porn problem solved. We BOTH enjoy the renewed action.
2007-10-05 22:26:27 · answer #6 · answered by old beatnik 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I honestly would be hurt! If he did it all the time. I would wonder if maybe I'm not good enough. But I think your past can play a major roll. I was hurt awhile back with something to do with this situation. So that;s probably why...
2007-10-05 22:27:24 · answer #7 · answered by momma to 1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont mind him watching it. I even like to look at it everynow and then. I would rather he watch it at home and not somewhere else.
2007-10-05 21:48:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off watching porn is fine, heck watch it with him and get busy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! LOL
2007-10-05 22:07:10 · answer #9 · answered by rita_hiemy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly, i was so pissed, and i felt so betrayed.
because he was hiding it from me, and what pissed me off
is not the porn, its the fact that he freakin lied to me.
2007-10-05 23:50:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋