Family & Relationships - 5 October 2007

What a lovely man I married. I won't set him any chores after 5pm so he can take me out for my surprise birthday meal- Pie and chips-at "The Amorous Ferret," our local: My favourite meal. Boris does complain sometimes that I ought to get a more refined taste and try and be more feminine too. I never went to finishing school in Switzerland-and I expect you can tell. I used to help my dad deliver coal when I were a youngster and I still have a muscular, toned "BOD" to keep Boris on his toes. Any way-to my question: Do you think I ought to take lessons in ladylike deportment and dress as Boris suggests? I do want to please him. I know all my neighbours view me as a husband bashing, nagging old battleaxe with a tongue like a lash. Do you think I can change dear reader? I want to develop 'the gentle touch'. Can it be done? Please help. Any suggestions given serious consideration. Thank you.

2007-10-05 12:26:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

There's this guy at my job, we've been working together for a few weeks, and he's pretty friendly to everyone here, but he's a little more nicer to me.For instance, he's always asking me 'What am I doing for the weekend"? And he asked me on several occasions "What do I usually do when I leave work" or he'll ask me if I 'm going to see this movie" or if I had been such an such place to eat And on top of everytime he's in my office He shakes my chair, especially today..He shook it really hard this time and for a long time,then yesterday he walked by my office and I heard and him say"Oh you're so pretty" but I'm not really sure he was talking too..there was noone here except me..so I'm not really sure about this one...can someone tell me

2007-10-05 12:22:54 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We hear so much negativity on this site; would be nice to hear of something pleasant. Thanks all!

2007-10-05 12:22:49 · 13 answers · asked by pussycat 5 in Marriage & Divorce

There is a kid that thought he was included in a plan I had today. I talked to him for a tiny bit on Monday, and nothing was definite, no plans were even made with him. Then, when I was out at this event (more than two people were there, by the way), apparently he called to say "Where's _____? He didn't come to get me! Where is he?" He thought he was coming, but he really wasn't I would have let him come, but he didn't even show up at the meeting place; any communication would have gotten him invited to the event. I have to call him back, so what should I say? (He didn't talk to me about the event at all except that time on Monday.)

2007-10-05 12:22:16 · 3 answers · asked by book_worm308 2 in Friends

Im started to feel drained i love my partner and see a lot of potential for him but i mean earlier i was telling him i feel like cuddling up like sex or something. he didnt want no. now its like 1230 am and he smoking weed and playing computer with my little brother. i dont know what to think anymore. fair enough if your not in the mood for sex i am not a dumb girl i do know. that you need your space sometimes and he shouldnt just be following me around the house doing what i want to but i would think my partner at his age would rather be in the bedroom with me and his xbox then my little brother. am i thinking to much or is something wrong. i am in a funny mood today i dont know

2007-10-05 12:22:13 · 20 answers · asked by MissTee 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

We have been married for 12 years. Together for 19 and I still get butterflies when it is time for him to come home or if we have been apart.

Just curious.

2007-10-05 12:21:35 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-05 12:19:36 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am in my 20's and married. I constantly fantasize while having sex with my husband that I am younger (like a teenager) and have been seduced by an older guy. It's kind of like a school girl / cheerleader fantasy that guys have, only in reverse. I have never heard of another woman with this fantasy and I feel like I must be crazy or something. I have not told my husband about this because I am afraid of what he'll think.

2007-10-05 12:18:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-05 12:18:13 · 7 answers · asked by Euphoria 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

How does a 31 yo college man (sad story, plz don't ask) who hasn't dated since 1998, ask a @20 yo woman on a date?

Also, I guess you could say that I was burned by my past relation beyond your belief, how do I know the next woman will be the one I spend my life with?

Thanks

2007-10-05 12:18:00 · 5 answers · asked by cappatown23 3 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I have been together for 3 years. For the last year sex is almost noexistant. I've tried on a few occaions to get him in the mood but he is just never interested. I know that he is stressed out with work and school but he used to be so into me that he couldn't keep his hands off me. I don't think he is cheating on me and I haven't gained weight, so can anyoneone tell me what his problem may be?

And also how could I get him in the mood without him knowing what I'm trying to do? How could I get him to start making the moves on me? I really need to get some!!!!

Oh yeah, I also don't want any BS answers like maybe your ugly blah blah blah. I want real genuine answers that will really help me out.

2007-10-05 12:15:36 · 5 answers · asked by kyla_shaylee 2 in Marriage & Divorce

johnathon b: my last name is mcdonald so he used to call me annslea getsfat mcdonald. i didnt know that until today. he used to be really mean to me. we haven't talked in about 2 years! he just came up to me in PE and said hey annslea. i said hello. i guess i sounded kinda mean or something because he said why do you hate me?and i said i dont. he said is it because i used to call you annslea getfat mcdonald? and i said i didn't know you called me that!and he goes well im really really sorry, i didnt mean ANYTHING mean that ive ever said to you! and i smiled and then the ball his friend threw went behind my bff and they are good friends so they hugged and then he gave me a weird look and walked away.it was so weird!

brett c & ryan w: me and my friend were walking home together and i hear these 2 voices scream KLUTZ![school nickname] i look back and see them running towards me as fast as they can.
2 be continued

2007-10-05 12:15:01 · 9 answers · asked by KCdancingqueen 1 in Friends

These girls might literally kill me.?
in one of my classes (10th grade) there are 6 mexican students and the rest american. the mexicans are all girls and only talk to eachother most of the time in spanish. they're very loud and dont listen to the directions the teacher gives them. they pretty much like to ignore her. the teacher does force them to do work though. the teacher is way too sweet and innocent. anyway, there's this other girl in my class who's american but is fluent in spanish. she told us the other day what the mexican girls have been talking about. she said that they were saying really rude things about some of the people in my class. like, i hate those girls, they are total bitches, her hair looks like ****, ect. then here's the part that scares me. they siad they wanted to stab this one one girl in the class. im afraid they're going to like bring a gun and shoot us or something. the teaches know about al this..i think but she cant kick them out. we had a talk about respect today. help me! im so scared!!:(

2007-10-05 12:15:00 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i've never known a guy who wasn't... it's depressing. Losing hope about it.

Are the choices really:

1) accept that men are pigs, or
2) be A-sexual and jump out of the game

both sexes should answer this ... ;-)

2007-10-05 12:14:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband had this married couple for friends before I came into the picture, when I first met them they seemed ok and we became friends also. Over the years I have come to realize that the woman is a back stabber and is two faced, for example she calls my husband and tells him that I call her and start fusses w/ her when she and her husband both have came to my house and started fusses w/ me. My husband goes to their house and I am not welcome there. My husband gets upset with me when I say anything negative about them at all.I have ask him why he wants to be friends with them and me not be included but all I get is a ill response. I am afrais that their medeling will someday drive a wedge between us that I can not undo. I love my husband and have always told him that I didnt want to take over his life,I just wanted him to scoot over and let me share it with him. From a guys point of view what should I do. I dont want to ruin my marriage and dont want them as freinds either.

2007-10-05 12:13:28 · 8 answers · asked by ctsgirl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 26. Earlier I've had a sexual relationship with a guy who's 20.

Is the age difference too big?

2007-10-05 12:12:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I were discussing lastnames and marriages and we've come up with three options:

My last name is McDowall his is Roberts

1. We go by McDowall-Roberts
2. We go by McRoberts
3. He goes by Roberts and I go by McDowall-Roberts


Which do you all think?


I don't "just wanna take Roberts" because I like my lastname and will feel like I'm dishonouring my family name by dropping it.

Any children that we will have will take his lastname (Roberts) unless we choose to go with McRoberts.

2007-10-05 12:09:35 · 5 answers · asked by Megegie 5 in Marriage & Divorce

over the summer my skin cleared up and i started to wear makeup. i am 14. now in school all these guys talk to me. why? last year they never said a word to me. now they talk to me everyday. i asked my friend why and she said "it's cause ur hot!" she asked her guy friend if he thought any of her friends were pretty and he said my name. what's going on here? i did go from a 38B to a 38C over the summer...so idk

2007-10-05 12:09:11 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to role play with my husband... I have been thinking about it for some time now. I just never did it before and how or what to do to get it started..... any help out there???

2007-10-05 12:03:20 · 15 answers · asked by imthe1209 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I want to role play with my husband... I have been thinking about it for some time now. I just never did it before and how or what to do to get it started..... any help out there???

2007-10-05 12:02:37 · 14 answers · asked by imthe1209 1 in Singles & Dating

a new country /culture where u have little friends and family.
and why?

2007-10-05 12:01:34 · 12 answers · asked by Hi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-05 12:01:06 · 24 answers · asked by confuseddisneygirl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

over the summer my skin cleared up and i started to wear makeup. i am 14. now in school all these guys talk to me. why? last year they never said a word to me. now they talk to me everyday. i asked my friend why and she said "it's cause ur hot!" she asked her guy friend if he thought any of her friends were pretty and he said my name. what's going on here?

2007-10-05 12:00:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What circumstances would lead you to settle for someone you knew you did not want to marry? Did you learn to love him/her or not? Are you still married?


Please be descriptive. I have time to listen. Thank you.

2007-10-05 11:58:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

in one of my classes (10th grade) there are 6 mexican students and the rest american. the mexicans are all girls and only talk to eachother most of the time in spanish. they're very loud and dont listen to the directions the teacher gives them. they pretty much like to ignore her. the teacher does force them to do work though. the teacher is way too sweet and innocent. anyway, there's this other girl in my class who's american but is fluent in spanish. she told us the other day what the mexican girls have been talking about. she said that they were saying really rude things about some of the people in my class. like, i hate those girls, they are total bitches, her hair looks like ****, ect. then here's the part that scares me. they siad they wanted to stab this one one girl in the class. im afraid they're going to like bring a gun and shoot us or something. the teaches know about al this..i think but she cant kick them out. we had a talk about respect today. help me! im so scared!!:(

2007-10-05 11:57:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Heres my story... its a grown up- non kid question
Dated twin A, she is beautiful and kind, twin B beautiful but the "evil twin". Years pass, madly in love with twin A. Twin B goes to college and comes back nice. All along Twin A and B have been very close, good sisters to each other.
Twin A and B are not too different in personality, they do different things but are both beautiful and good. Now i move in with Twin A, Twin B moves into town nearby to be close to twin A. Me, exposed to twin B and her new likeable attitude. Begin to confuse emotions between Twin A and B. Attempt to ignore. Twin B has many times demonstrated interest in me. I get a job rather far off and buy a house an hour away. It hurts me to seperate the twins because I know they are good for each other, but I also realize twin B is doing me no good.
--question -- should I do anything? Should I tell my now wife, ive got issues seperating emotions? They wont fight with each other, they arethat close

2007-10-05 11:57:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my sister is preganant with twins she wants some name suggestions anyone have any?

2007-10-05 11:56:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-10-05 11:56:09 · 16 answers · asked by John V 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, i'm not sure if he's being flirty or friendly? i'm friends with his girlfriend and i don't know what to do!!!!!
help pls.

2007-10-05 11:56:00 · 6 answers · asked by sofiavanderas 1 in Friends

my husband went away for work , and wanted me to go but i didn't want to .There now has been a big blow up and he has ended our 11 years of marrige and 2 children we had a lot af money problems which has caused a lot of fights . He said only loves me as the childrens mother and thats all. Do you think it can be repaired.

2007-10-05 11:51:37 · 19 answers · asked by janelle a 1 in Marriage & Divorce