i've never known a guy who wasn't... it's depressing. Losing hope about it.
Are the choices really:
1) accept that men are pigs, or
2) be A-sexual and jump out of the game
both sexes should answer this ... ;-)
2007-10-05 12:14:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think men who cheat have a real problem with commitment. A real man is in tune with himself and what he wants out of life. A real man knows how to be honest about what he wants and what he is looking for within a relationship.
If a guy says he wants an opening relationship than take him at his word. Guys love differently from women-so never second guess his position or statement.
There are a great deal of real and wonderful man left to discover....don't give up. despair is the opposite of joy....never let anyone still your joy :) no one is worth that...
You must discover what you want within a relationship and Figure out three qualities that you must have and never compromise those attributes.
Your list could look something like this:
I will not accept cheating as a standard behavior!
I deserve honesty
I deserve loyalty
I deserve to be happy
2007-10-05 12:24:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's pretty stupid to assume all men are cheaters. I've been with lots of amazing guys who are very loyal. And women cheat too! It's not just a guy thing, it's a psychological thing. You may have some tendencies to be drawn to cheater types. Evaluate yourself and your life's experiences and try to draw similarities between your past and how it's affecting your choices in the present. Chances are you're picking these cheating men and you don't even know it! Try to find a new type of guy that will worship and love you forever. You deserve it!
2007-10-05 12:20:31 · answer #2 · answered by kleo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls are just as bad, if not worse because they can control a guys emotions a lot better than a guy can with a girl. Maybe you're looking for the wrong kind of guys. Try going out with someone who's shy?
2007-10-05 12:18:46 · answer #3 · answered by Samson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only common theme in your relationships are you.
Some women seem drawn to people who abuse, or people who cheat. It is unfortunate. Try to find what it is about this person that you find so attractive and then avoid that quality from now on.
2007-10-05 12:22:53 · answer #4 · answered by nomad737 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way. All men are not cheaters.
Find some one that loves you--love him back.
Don't let things get stale.
You now know of one-expand your list!
2007-10-05 12:25:33 · answer #5 · answered by Fred F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All men aren't pigs....maybe it's your judgement that is screwed up.
2007-10-05 12:20:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋