2007-10-05 12:01:06 · 24 answers · asked by confuseddisneygirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
YOU ARE NOT A HOME WRECKER!!! He knew the consequences of his actions before he unzipped his pants. Having been the "other woman" myself, it's not always easy to say no to some hot dude even though he's married. Maybe we don't make it easy sometimes but intimately it's his choice whether to do it.
Just like we have to responsibility for our actions he has to take responsibility for his. And that's not your problem.
And if you can't get another job, then just suck it up and move on and pretend it never happened. Even though you know it did you can still act "as if". And that's your best bet.
Oh, you'll be dying on the inside, but act as if anyway. You're better then that. Let him do what he has to do but you do what you have to do. His consequences aren't your problem.
Besides, if it wasn't you he cheated with it would have been someone else, trust me. It wasn't YOU that had him so charmed, that's crap. He was married and should have kept it to himself. Hey, it's not your guilt.
And if ending it is what you really want then end it. You don't owe him any explaination other then, "you're married" and I can't do this anymore. And if he tries to charm you back into it then you can be sure he'll find a replacement. Just stand your ground and he'll soon forget all about you.
And if he say's he's going to leave his wife then say "well give me a call when you have your own place" otherwise kept me out of your supposed marital problems.
He's married, 'nough said. Good luck.
xxx
2007-10-05 13:27:03 · answer #1 · answered by Shel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont want to be mean but you should never cross the line with someone who is married. The both of you are to blame and if you were a decent person then you would tell his wife and so should he. For the rest of there lives there will now be this secret marriage is something sacred those vows should never be broken unless it is a mutual agreement. I hope there arnt kids involved. Change jobs and find you own guy instead of taking someone elses.
2007-10-05 12:34:19 · answer #2 · answered by mezzyboo - downunder 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont comprehend if i could call her a homewrecker yet i've got faith she is tempting somebody via her flirting and that i comprehend and have heard of adult males performing some poor issues to ladies who do those issues so if u r the single i could b very careful.
2016-11-07 09:10:21 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say its over. Homewreckers are the worst kind of women.
2007-10-05 12:43:03 · answer #4 · answered by lovely 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't the first and you won't be the last. If you really need to end it, then do so, and get on with your life. If you can, try not to feel too bad about it. Everything in life is a learning experience. No doubt you learned a lot from that one, either go on with it or get away from it. It's your life, live it the way you want to. Remember, what you do comes back to you.
2007-10-05 14:28:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best is if you find another place to work so you won't be tempted by seeing him. And simply end it; no contact at all with him. Treat him as if he is past history and concentrate on the days and years to come; without him in your life. You are strong and you can break away from this unhealty relationship.
2007-10-05 12:06:54 · answer #6 · answered by pussycat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
imagine yourself the wife with a husband who's having an affair with another woman.try to feel the hurt and all the pain. that should do it.
or you can imagine your married-boyfriend having an affair with yet another woman other than yourself. it's complicated. it's painful. and you're hurting not just yourself but a lot of other people out there like the wife, the kids, the whole family.
don't let yourself be used by a selfish pig. what are you there for? to satisfy his physical needs? to be with him when he's not with his wife? to be his toy? to be someone to amuse him? you decide.
2007-10-05 12:27:27 · answer #7 · answered by travlin soul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You tell him that you are tired of being his distraction, that you have already acquired quite enough bad karma for your life by being with him knowing that he was married (you're not going to like it when your future husband does it to you... and he will!) And that you will no longer accept his advances and then find another job.
2007-10-05 12:13:50 · answer #8 · answered by Surfer_Lee 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Look...its a loser deal for everyone. Just end it, repent, learn from the mistake and move on...then find another job - soon.
2007-10-05 12:04:33 · answer #9 · answered by chris s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WHo do u work for?
2007-10-05 12:46:57 · answer #10 · answered by Nastia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋