Family & Relationships - 5 October 2007

after a relationship that has lasted over 1 year, being totally in love, and being completely happy together, his feelings suddenly change. He lives 1 hour away, all along we had planned that he'd come every weekend, and I'd come to him every time I got a chance, and then all of a sudden, he doesn't feel the same way about me. This transformation happened in a matter of days. And I have not been nagging or being unsupportive - on the contrary, I've been more positive than usual.
I'm really confused how this could happen...

2007-10-05 11:50:09 · 21 answers · asked by Anita 3 in Singles & Dating

i took my daughter Chealsea to toysRus today and the only things that attracted her were boys toys. i dont want her to be a tomboy but by the looks of it she might what should i do?

2007-10-05 11:49:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

She is about 23 years old. Wont this make me very insignificant in a relationship, being that she has already divorced once?

2007-10-05 11:48:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really like to perform oral sex. that's normal I know. But I like to go a little further south too. If i really like to perform oral-anal sex does make me a freak.

2007-10-05 11:48:05 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he is an artsy philospher kinda guy...
recommendations?

2007-10-05 11:47:50 · 8 answers · asked by cristelle R 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 17 and my boyfriend is 16 I want to get married but I want him to ask me what do I do.

2007-10-05 11:46:18 · 32 answers · asked by Brittany F 1 in Weddings

2007-10-05 11:46:07 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband has been caught cheating on me several times through out or marraige. I love him so much that I can't find myself wanting a divorce. We have 2 kids together, he is from Nigeria, and I have been told that they don't know how to stay with only one women. He says he loves me, but how can you keep hurting some one you love? What should I do?

2007-10-05 11:45:04 · 39 answers · asked by BLACK BEAUTY 1 in Marriage & Divorce

do u think when u find the right person u wont feel the need to be wit other people. ie. u wont cheat

2007-10-05 11:43:46 · 19 answers · asked by kathleen m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-05 11:41:12 · 18 answers · asked by kathleen m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

It seems that whatever I say is usually misinterpreted. Maybe I don't know how to speak. Sorry for all of you if you got me wrong.

2007-10-05 11:38:50 · 9 answers · asked by ? 6 in Friends

Is it ok to have a "little good stuff" on the side? I love my husband, I wouldn't say "In Love". We have two kids to take care of. I have often thought of leaving him simply because I am young with no sex life.

Has anyone else left their husbands for this reason?

2007-10-05 11:37:43 · 23 answers · asked by Mary B 2 in Marriage & Divorce

After a 2 yr affair, he decides he wants to be with his "new love".. (he was never forced to leave his wife) he leaves his home, (to his own place); after 1 yr 6 months, when the time came to move in together, I told him I was not going to live with a married man. Instead of filling for divorce he convinentlly decides he wants to ask his wife for forgiveness and wants to make his marriage work. How can it work after he left for 18 months to be with someone else? At this point I should mention that the only problem in our relationship was that, eventhough he was not living with her and she knew he was in-love or "infatuated" with another woman, she also knew he had been cheating on her since high school (with other girls-women) anyway, they kept having sex every chance they had. I mean I guess bottom line here is: Why did he leave his wife if deep down he knew he didn't want anything serious with me? why put his family through so much pain for no reason at all!!

2007-10-05 11:21:48 · 48 answers · asked by MaryCoronel74 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My parents are fighting right now. my mom thinks my dad likes little 12 year old girls. my mom acuses my step sister of taking her missing stuff, and recently taking my phone, when i know i lost it. my dad says that shes putting words in his mouth. i don't wanna take sides, my dad said he wants to take my little brother and i to dinner to get out of the house, and i nodded my head. how do i avoid taking sides? they both go to me for help. please help!

2007-10-05 11:21:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Since last Christmas my mother and my grandmother have not been on speaking terms, now that the holidays are approching I dont know what to do!!! my moms like my best friend and my grandma is my grandmother im so stressed im the oldest of the grandkids so im trying to keep the peace in the family help please!

2007-10-05 11:21:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

If I ask her, it may be a while before I talk to her, but that could be okay too.

2007-10-05 11:21:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-05 11:20:38 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

While they were together they went to get a car - her credit was crap so he put the car in his name. She is paying the payments but refuses to take the car out of his name. We are getting married and I don't like the idea of another woman affecting our credit - what can we do?

2007-10-05 11:20:27 · 10 answers · asked by blair o 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My mom makes me do all the house work. I MEAN ALL OF IT!!! I am not a maid what should I do? I am not mad at her but I have tried countless times to point this out to her nicely but everytime I do she grounds me! HELLLLP!!!!!!!!!!

2007-10-05 11:20:08 · 4 answers · asked by Rachel B 2 in Family

i think i made a huge mistake by moving to my dads for highschool. i feel so out of place here in minnesota. ive made only 3-4 friends in 6 weeks! i really want to move back to my moms so i can be with my friends again. i really feel lonely up here. also im afraid to tell my dad this because he went through a boat load of trouble to get custody of me. what should i do? should i finish up my freshman year and then move or move now? i just have no clue. please help.

2007-10-05 11:19:40 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

she likes to party and dance and be a little flirtatious? Cause I want a relationship with someone who may give a damn about me, and I don't want to be used for anything, sex or just a shoulder to cry on about other men. If that's the case, I will put her in my friend category, before she does me.

2007-10-05 11:19:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-05 11:19:08 · 12 answers · asked by azol 1 in Family

I only gave my opinion

2007-10-05 11:17:40 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-05 11:16:43 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Mt best friend slept with my brother then lied about it. I feel so hurt about this. I only recently found out. I don't know what to do. The pain is almost unbearable. Any advice would ve greatly appreciated.

2007-10-05 11:15:59 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i have been hurt in the past , but it annoys everyone coz they know i am not like that really , how can i stop myself doing this

2007-10-05 11:10:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am a Virgo. He is a Scorpio.

2007-10-05 11:09:53 · 6 answers · asked by mgrpupp 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I really don't want to. Opening the car door just isn't me.

2007-10-05 11:08:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

They're not looking at me mean or anything, just staring at me. In class, at the mall, whatever. Not all the time, though, just sometimes. I'm ordinary looking and don't dress revealingly.

2007-10-05 10:59:22 · 36 answers · asked by Jane T 2 in Singles & Dating

Umm i would like to know what kinda guy likes Blond hair blue eyes and out going?

2007-10-05 10:58:09 · 5 answers · asked by Bow chica Wa Wa 2 in Singles & Dating