do u think when u find the right person u wont feel the need to be wit other people. ie. u wont cheat
2007-10-05 11:43:46 · 19 answers · asked by kathleen m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
People have debated this issue for a long time--can you truly, deeply love more than one person at once? As many things are, this is subjective. I am not personally attracted to any men besides my husband--there's no one I could even concieve of dating or having sex with. However, I have a friend who loves her husband and wants to have other relationships too. I believe hers is still true love, but she's just built differently.
2007-10-05 12:01:29 · answer #1 · answered by amh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. We only broke up one time and that is when i began to see someone else to fill the void that I had. But that only lasted for a month and me and my boyfriend got back together. But when you find someone who truly loves you, and you feel the same, and you can trust them whole heartedly, then your heart and your brain has no room to think about anyone else because your so focused on your love. Then eventually you become comfortable, and still are in love and then the thought of someone else, the thought of cheating disgusts you.
I feel like I've found the right person, and I know he feels like that as well, because a man wouldn't want to do better in life if he didn't find a reason for changing, and that's me!
2007-10-05 11:50:28 · answer #2 · answered by Om... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends of what kind of person you are. If you're like me, you wouldn't cheat anyway in a seriously relationship or not. If you are a serial cheater, I don't believe you will change true love or no true love because some people don't recognise it when it comes along.
2007-10-07 05:03:36 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the type of person you are. I don't feel the need to cheat (but I'm a woman). Most men are different. As we all know.
2007-10-05 12:06:01 · answer #4 · answered by mab5096 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True love is giving your heart and soul to that person. You love them even with their faults. If you feel like that about a person I don't know how you could cheat on them.
2007-10-05 12:23:12 · answer #5 · answered by flowerpower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know I don't feel the need to cheat and never have felt the need since in my marriage. Can't answer for all; guess only time will tell.
2007-10-05 11:46:40 · answer #6 · answered by pussycat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think attraction to others will always be there. It's just whether or not you act on it. I wouldn't cheat, mainly because I respect myself as well as the person I'm with.
2007-10-05 11:48:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes im totally in love with my huuby we been together 4 15 years and i totally 100 per cent in love with him. I would never cheat its totally wrong. Hubby is my soulmate and best friend
2007-10-05 21:31:33 · answer #8 · answered by HELEND 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2007-10-05 11:53:05 · answer #9 · answered by Wild Ginger 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i used to wonder about the same thing, but i guess when you find that special person it becomes clear
2007-10-05 11:54:36 · answer #10 · answered by LexianaFaith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋