I am 17 and my boyfriend is 16 I want to get married but I want him to ask me what do I do.
2007-10-05 11:46:18 · 32 answers · asked by Brittany F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
You need to grow up first! He has 2 years before adulthood - who knows if you will still be together then?
2007-10-05 11:49:47 · answer #1 · answered by I, Sapient 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
What do you do? You wait until you and your boyfriend have finished high school, college, and any graduate school, and are self-supporting adults. What's the hurry to get married? You both aren't even old enough to vote or drink. If he's the right guy for you, he'll still be there 5 or more years down the road.
Also, you refrain from sex or at least correctly use birth control so you don't get pregnant.
2007-10-05 11:57:39 · answer #2 · answered by Ms. X 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-07 09:09:33 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Still a long way to go. I'm 17 as well and I personally think high school love is still puppy love. I call it puppy love because we're still young and don't completely understand yet like my cousin who thinks she will marry her bf in the future and shes 16 right now. Lets see if your relationship lasts thru college first.
2007-10-05 11:54:25 · answer #4 · answered by Closed 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're way too young! Graduate from high school and college first, whether it's a two year or four year school. You should get a career first and worry about your grades right now. Six bucks an hour is not cute when you're older than 18. Plus if you have a baby right now that would be really bad. Just be smart and focus on your education. I wouldn't suggest marriage until you're at least 25. What's the hurry?
2007-10-05 11:51:15 · answer #5 · answered by Carrie 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't do it. I fell in love with a guy my freshman year, but we didn't end up dating until right before my senior year. We dated just over 2 years before I broke up with him. We completely grew apart after high school. He wasn't a bad person and we were very much in love, but we just became two very different people. I found someone new and we're much better suited for one another. We're getting married this month and last I heard my ex is engaged to his college sweetheart.
2007-10-05 14:18:46 · answer #6 · answered by Loki's Mommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait. you're 17 he's 16 you have your entire LIVES to get married. If you and if he really likes you, you can wait 10 years(or at least 4) and see what happens. move in with each other. do some major steps before you decide to take such a huge plunge. It finacually screws you before you even start to build credit.
2007-10-05 11:54:43 · answer #7 · answered by goodgodgreg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait about 8 - 10 years.
People change a lot between ages 17 and 25. Give it time.
Marriages in which the bride and groom are both over 25 have a much greater chance of lasting - for many reasons.
2007-10-05 11:50:49 · answer #8 · answered by SE 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
LOL, get over it, you are a little child, you have some maturing to do before you make that step. If you are in love, stay with him for 5 years or so, then get married. If you don't want to wait that long then you shouldn't get married. If you are still together in 5 years then you know it may work for life.
2007-10-05 11:49:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
My fiance` and I just got engaged in April, and I can honestly say that when I was your age we started dating and I thought I was ready. Now looking back on it I am so glad we waited, we've both changed and grown so much. And planning a wedding is very stressful. Get your education and if it's real love he will be there when it's time to get married. Good luck.
2007-10-09 11:05:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just wait, I think we all wanted to marry someone at that age, it's amazing how much you change and grow up in just a few years. You can always look at it, that if it's meant to be, it will happen. Don't rush it.
2007-10-05 11:50:07 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋