Im started to feel drained i love my partner and see a lot of potential for him but i mean earlier i was telling him i feel like cuddling up like sex or something. he didnt want no. now its like 1230 am and he smoking weed and playing computer with my little brother. i dont know what to think anymore. fair enough if your not in the mood for sex i am not a dumb girl i do know. that you need your space sometimes and he shouldnt just be following me around the house doing what i want to but i would think my partner at his age would rather be in the bedroom with me and his xbox then my little brother. am i thinking to much or is something wrong. i am in a funny mood today i dont know
2007-10-05 12:22:13 · 20 answers · asked by MissTee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ok i no the issue with my little bro smoking weed but i cant stop him. my partner is old enough if he chooses to that is a different please dont address that to the max. i am not my bro mother and there is a lot of drama going on in his life which i would rather not explain but its better he here than on the streets leave at that he is being given a home on wednesday. talking about me and my partner
2007-10-05 12:29:30 · update #1
45 cal i gave you a thumbs up as i no your point but again please dont address my little bro and W i know im more talking about me and my partner
2007-10-05 12:31:02 · update #2
ok fireball i no my mans not perfect but like someone said im most likely just irrated cause i aint getting it tonight lets be real. but love after 3mnths and marriage after 18mnts let me guess your men dont stick around long. me and my man been together for nearly 8yrs......i dont push for marriage men dont want women who are pushy...marriage will come if its ready good luck finding your diamond though as that more sounds like what you want
2007-10-05 12:41:10 · update #3
listen foosie boy!!! didnt you read above i no my little bro is having issues right now i dont think its ok. but why dont you email his mother who drinks everynight and kicks him out on the streets at like 4am and leaves him there with no where to go. i dont condon it but at the same time i have gave him a roof over his head till wed. this has been going on for 3yrs with him in and out of homes due to abuse at home not his fault i can only tackle on thing at a time with him. please no one else comment on my little brother as you really dont know what your talking about.
2007-10-05 12:43:39 · update #4
Halo 3 + Pot > Sex
(So I hear)
2007-10-05 12:29:43 · answer #1 · answered by Erad 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that he is spending to much time on the weed and you need a little loveing, All you can do is ask, I am playing ELVIS ( THE WONDER OF YOU) at the mo, send this to him as a love song with your local radio (make sure he is there & make him listen) If that fails talk to your mum & his. Good luck all the best.
2007-10-05 12:54:49 · answer #2 · answered by large long & very strong 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't have massive ethical physique of strategies approximately weed smoking yet I even have observed from a existence of adventure that smoking weed as a youngster has a tendency to makes you: lazy, fat, unmotivated, get in contact with a bad crowd, not liable to be triumphant in school and greater possibly to purpose different drugs in a while. normally, it incredibly is a bad concept. additionally, your strategies remains coming up as a youngster and dope smoking can impact ordinary strategies functioning so why take the possibility?
2016-10-21 04:18:43 · answer #3 · answered by ammon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry. You sound so understanding & compassionate that I think you're not going to have many problems. Well done you for looking out for your brother & for having a partner who'll spend time with him. 16 yr olds always want to talk in the early hours. Do't fret, you sound lovely.
2007-10-05 13:19:40 · answer #4 · answered by Lizzie Fish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know....can you have a long talk with him about it? how often do you two spend alone time together? if its rare then you have a larger problem, if this is just one of those days then its no big deal. i hate the fact that your partner is willing to smoke with your little brother. i would be pissed about that. alot of people take weed as a joke but it is a serious drug- you should even consider dumping him just cause of his habit. i dunno- there is so much that is always going on in different communities- it frustrates me. i empathize with your stress, i know its draining.
2007-10-05 12:44:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think if your honest you are probably a bit horny and thats what is making it really annoying.
OK what he is doing is inconsiderate.. its nice he's having a laff with your bro though right? I bet your bro loves him.
Anyway I am sure theres plenty of times he's been horny and he has got the cold shoulder from you..?
Equality baby means the good and the bad parts.
2007-10-05 12:27:48 · answer #6 · answered by Wayne Kerr 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i've read a few of your questions that have to do with your partner. i don't mean to sound like a dick cuz i hate reading just mean stuff here....but he really sounds like a loser. maybe you're confusing the great sex (you described in another question) with real intimacy. you sound 10 times more mature than he does and while it's okay to be the one more mature....this guy is way too old to have so little going for him. i have to believe you deserve more.
2007-10-05 12:45:21 · answer #7 · answered by SpeedyGonz 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He is emotionally too immature for you. You may love him but he needs to get off the weed and on with life. 28 years old is old enough to finally grow up and start being an adult. Tell him that either things change or his address will.
2007-10-05 12:30:38 · answer #8 · answered by firemouse23 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I feel sorry for you and think that for times like this you need to buy one of them battery operated rabbit things then the hubby could sit all night long playing the x-box cause you would not need him lol
2007-10-05 12:47:40 · answer #9 · answered by Father Jacks Drinking pal 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Now I told you once prior to this one that he was a loser and you need to leave him for his mother to groom him! Now that I skim read that he smokes weed with your little brother I am going to blame you for real! He's a loser and you need to do grown woman things and stop claiming this idot! That's basically it!!!!!!!!!!!! What more are you looking for someone to say? You know what you need to do young lady!!!!!!!!! Handle your business!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-10-05 12:54:33 · answer #10 · answered by rita_hiemy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop having him over....go to his place! Then he can't kick it with you lil bro! And you have to remember that men don't mature fast and thats just how they are they are teenage boys but can buy beer and stuff!!! Try that...Good luck
2007-10-05 12:30:04 · answer #11 · answered by They Love to Hate me 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋