What does it mean when my ex girlfriend asks my friend for my phone number?...We talked and everything was cool. We talked like nothing even happened, it felt natural. She says she wants to hang out..blah blah blah. hasnt seen me in a long time. its nice to here from me...yada yada. She tells me to call her before I come up. I get a phone call from her a week and half later. I tell her that im coming up next weekend. She tells me that she gave our cat to someone. She goes into details about a dude she has been seeing at work and says she wont be around this weekend becasuse she is going camping with her boyfriend.
Why do I need to know that??? lol. Why would u tell me that?? Is she nuts? i didnt contact her, i text her 2 weeks later and said "whats up?" she responded..."do you need something?"
i dont get it. We went out for 5 years and have been apart for 7 months now. Keep in mind too that SHE asked one of my friends "So I hear he's got a Girlfriend now?" that's how it began.I don't!
2007-10-05 16:28:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She is the one who dumped me...if that matters. I dont think she is trying to make me jealous though because then she would be calling all the time right???
The only thing I did was ask HER SISTER how the cat was and if i could see it....then SHE was the one to ask for my number. Other than that I have not contacted her once.
We haven't talked since. this was 2 weeks ago
2007-10-05 16:29:39 · update #1
She was just spying on you trying to get information from you. She got what she wanted. Shes self centered, be glad she dumped you.
2007-10-05 16:32:27 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She may be having some mixed feelings. Or she may be someone that feels that she needs that element of control, or just playing hard to get. No matter what it is, you don't need the games. If you broke up, then leave it at that. It's just extra stress to try and figure out her cryptic messages. If she truly wants to reconcile with you, then she will have to grow up and just come right out with it. You'd be better off, just taking what she says right now with a grain of salt. Don't contact her and see what happens.
2007-10-05 16:35:58 · answer #2 · answered by MoonGoddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is probably doing this 2 u because she is tryin to make u jealous. But dont fall into her trap just ignore her text,her call and anything else she does to contact u. Because it is not right what she is putting u through. Just move on find urself a G/F and enjoy life.
2007-10-05 16:38:38 · answer #3 · answered by Sista Grl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
poor cat. it would still be there if you didnt ask about it.
tell her how great her sister is. and if at all possible, get the cat back from who ever she gave it to. if not, get a new cat, and tell her all about it.
she is nuts. talk to her only if you annoy her. do not agree to see her, tell her you are busy.
2007-10-05 16:36:16 · answer #4 · answered by Jr. is angry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was just seeing how you were doing. She didn't really want you back.
2007-10-05 16:31:14 · answer #5 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she went out with you then she liked your friend and thats why ?
2007-10-05 16:36:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋