Yea,well lately I always have been down alot,like,I felt all nice and kind towards people back then,and now Im 13,and Im being mean towards others,feel all bad about myself and everything! What the h*ll is wrong with me!!Does anybody else get like that or is it just me?Now everybody practicly hates me and talk behind my back!
2007-10-05 15:40:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You turned 13 and your now in your teen years. Thats what happens. I get mad at people all the time, especially one person but they're used to it. They know to just ignore me.....they know i don't really mean it. I love them because they do that. But yeah once you hit 18 you won't have to worry about it anymore!
2007-10-05 16:00:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly think it's just a manifestion of being 13. I used to have an explosive temper when I was 13 (I distinctly remember that because I stayed in the principal's office), and my oldest daughter (who is now 21) was a hissing reptile when she was 13....she was a monster! Maybe it's all of those hormones scattering hither and yon, or maybe it's external factors and our growing impatience in dealing with them all....whatever the cause I have never been pissed off more in life than I was at 13. By 14 I was as calm as a corpse. No one hates you, all of this will pass...you just have to give it time and be a bit more gentle wih yourself. (I know, easier said than done, but you're already well on your way....13 can't last forever.)
2007-10-05 15:53:44 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in that stage of my life before... you feel that everyone is talking about you and no matter what you cant stop thinking about it. Now in order to change this (given if you want to change) Start thinking positive and things will happen. And remember the last time you were truly happy... why were you happy? Then bring those feelings back and it will help you a lot. Also another thought you cant love other until you love yourself... hope all goes well
2007-10-05 15:49:44 · answer #3 · answered by songbirdchelsea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neo, there's nothing wrong. It's called growing up.
YOU will have it when you turn 15, 16 and again when you're 18 and older.
All you have to do is get to know yourself. Know that if there's something you need to deal w/ and it's not working with you thinking about it yourself, then go to a friend, parent, teacher, etc.
YOU are the best judge of you, so when you get too down, let someone you trust know so you can get to talk to someone who knows you and cares about you.
Other than that....you are normal.
2007-10-05 15:47:03 · answer #4 · answered by Vetty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to be in your situation before. i was 13 back then i changed how i acted and controlled my anger. now i'm 16 and i feel a lot better about myself now. YOU need to do something about how your feeling talk to someone you trust maybe a friend thats still there for you but just change for the better cause you just might end up depressed and lead your life in the wrong direction. your still young and enjoy life don't get all worried about it, stuff happens and you'll just have to deal with it.
2007-10-05 15:57:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG, don't feel bad about asking that question, i have the same problem almost, just stick with your friends and ignore rumors and everything and this WILL eventually stop!
Best of luck to you
2007-10-05 16:00:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea i get like that cept i dont think people talk behind my back or do they? i dont know i dont care i stopped caring along time ago....but anyways yea im the same way i think im bi-polar honestly its pretty bad
2007-10-05 15:46:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie it's called growing up it is something you will go through dont beat yourself up about it just relize that not everything can be great all the time and its part of life just me your not the only one that has gone through that stage in life ok ...
2007-10-05 15:45:50 · answer #8 · answered by mommaof42007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm... well same here. i just got into a new skool and it's horrid. but dont bother with them. hang out by yourself or find some peoples. i'm still trying to get it stright my self.
2007-10-05 15:54:39 · answer #9 · answered by aloneness 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋