here is this guy who at times, I think likes me, and then other times, I think the opposite. Around five times last year during the school year, he asked me to be his girlfriend. I told him I didn't want a boyfriend at the moment (this happened each time). He flirts with me A LOT when I see him and maybe I would take this as a sign, but he flirts with a couple of other girls too. I know that sometime between the times he asked me out, he asked out someone else. He even sent us the same text message at the same time saying, "I miss you". I don't know what to make of this behavior and I don't know what his real intentions are when he acts like this. Then this year, he asked me out again, asking me to give him a chance. This was a couple of weeks ago. My response was, "I'll think about it" because I had to decide whether I liked him or not. And then recently (week ago) he said to me: "All my boys know I like you a lot and I wish you were
2007-10-05 15:16:59 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the same. Please give me a chance." His friends ask me about him a lot and refer to us as though we are actually dating. In response to his text, I told him I could never really be sure if he is being sincere with me. His response was: "I swear to god I will prove it to you and I really like you a lot, I'm going to show you that I care and I want to be with you badly." All of this (including the previous times he asked me out) happened over text messaging. Then I asked him why he never asked me out in person, and he said "I will, watch." It's been about two weeks and he hasn't yet, so do I take that as a sign that he isn't serious about liking me? So...I don't know. It's confusing because he says he is serious but I feel like I haven't seen that in his behavior.
2007-10-05 15:17:58 · update #1
Why don't you tell him to speak to you in person and to stop text messaging you. Then do not read his text messages. Just delete them and do not respond. He doesn't seem very trustworthy to me. I'd not give him a lot of rope. If you want to get to know him better or 'give him a chance' suggest that he spend time with you in group activities, not alone with him. If he's not interested in that opportunity then he is not being sincere about wanting to get to know you. I don't know what he wants and I don't think we want to know.
2007-10-05 15:23:43 · answer #1 · answered by treebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should give him a chance!!! Since he hasn't shown you any signs for a while then go up to him and ask him if he still likes you or not... if he does tell him you'll go out with him. If he doesn't oh well there are other guys around and eventually the right one will come around...
hoped I helped!!!
<3always!
2007-10-05 22:24:36 · answer #2 · answered by SamanthaAnn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
* Sounds like he is just tryin go get laid he doesnt sound serious ... find someone who is *
2007-10-05 22:22:04 · answer #3 · answered by ♀ Gσтнι¢ яσмαи¢є ♀ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋