he left when i went to college to get a better job, now i am doing good, it were ruff at first, but i am back on my feet, over the years, it showed me that i do not miss or want him back. ooo now he are willing to do what ever it takes to get back together. he is 365 days to late, please tell me if i am wrong.
2007-10-05 15:11:38 · 22 answers · asked by queenmidas1014 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No way are you wrong!! He decided that cheating was cool and he lost out on you!! Now he misses home? He doesn't miss home; he misses the fact that you have a better job, make more money and now he wants part of what you have. Well isn't that too darn bad. Tell him to go back to his friend who was so important that he left in the first place. Tell him that there are no vacancies at your place and if there were, he wouldn't meet the qualifications to be there. Tell him to keep on searching for someone foolish enough to put up with the likes of him. Then turn on your heel and walk away and don't ever look back. You deserve better and he lost out by making dumb choices. You wanta play, you gotta pay!!
2007-10-05 15:20:31 · answer #1 · answered by turkeybrooknj 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
in case you're specific your husband cheats on you, and the age of consent is sixteen the place you reside, then i might say decide for it. yet, how might your husband react if he nicely-knownshows out? in spite of the fact that if he cheats on you, he ought to no longer think of a similar approximately it popping out of your end, and ought to in all probability kill the the two one in each and every of you. Or, tell him you recognize approximately him cheating, and you may prefer to this factor a youthful guy. If he can no longer handle that then break up and take a million/2 his stuff. Why are you nonetheless along with your piece of crap husband? You typed the question and it appears that evidently to me such as you're knowledgeable. If he did rape a 13 3 hundred and sixty 5 days previous, you ought to checklist it to the police, get a lawyer and divorce him. you nonetheless understand the version between awesome and incorrect, and it relatively is faulty so which you may stay with him. If i became you i might %. up each and every thing you like, drain the economic employer account, and get an apartment and are available across a job. there are various jobs the place you do no longer prefer anymore education than to have the potential to study or write, and now and returned that's no longer even needed. Get the hell remote from him, and in the adventure that your infants are so tangled up via fact of him, enable them to stay with him. in case you have continually been a stable mom, they'll nonetheless be on your life.
2016-10-10 09:35:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girl no you gotta do for you, his *** messed up not you thats the problem with men now days they always wanna treat you like sh*t and leave you because they dont think you can do better without them and when they life starts to get all f**ked up they wanna come running back to you cause you doing good. Forget him you doing good without him let him stay the way he is, hes some one else problem not yours. He probally wanna come back cuz now he realize that he want a wifey and not a hoe well to late he had a chance
2007-10-05 15:20:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
You're asking because you really want him back. It gets lonely at night doesn't it? He was good in bed wasn't he? You miss the fun you had with him because he was a "bad boy".You have all that confidence in a work environment but absolutely none when it comes to men.
I'll bet you're gonna make the next man pay a hell of a price for your ex's shortcomings.
You've already answered your question..you're gonna take him back
2007-10-05 15:42:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
You are spot on right. 365 days ago, you were not the strong person you are today. You dont need him. You will find someone who trully deserves and loves you. You will thank your ex for doing what he did in time. Good luck with the rest of your life.
2007-10-05 15:16:00 · answer #5 · answered by rightio 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
You wouldn't drink spoiled milk? And you are not 10 yrs old waiting for your lost dog to come home are you? You answered your own question. Like a dog they will not remember what drove them away, and come wagging their tails. But they will just eat your food, and poop in your house again. Don't it make you wonder at all why he lost the person he cheated on you with, and why he don't have anything?. That's why we have peep holes in are doors, and answering machines, so we don't even have to come in contact with people like him.
2007-10-05 19:44:19 · answer #6 · answered by Living Life 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
HELL NO
I am so proud to read something different on here...
most women .. would of asked??? do I take him take,.. I love him so much.. OOOOOOH, plzzzzz
good to no there is a women out there with a back bone..
they never want u if u are down and out.. but get settled and start up the ladder and they want to grab on..
u go girl.. and don't look back...
3 cheers for u!!!!!!!!!
2007-10-05 15:20:47 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ Blondie ♥ 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Heck no I wouldn't take him back. Once a cheater always a cheater. How would you ever be able to trust him again? Unless you are so in love with him that you feel you can't live without him then No.
2007-10-05 15:18:04 · answer #8 · answered by curious connie 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
He wants your money. He will use you and dump you after he's satified he has destroyed the life you have worked hard to build. Abusers need to harm others to validate themselves. He will only feel good about himself if he hurts you. Don't let him back.
2007-10-05 15:42:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are totally right. Why should he deserve to have you when he decided to take the easy way and not weather the hard times with you. Keep on doing what you're doing and forget him. Let him cry.
2007-10-05 15:16:34 · answer #10 · answered by Sweetness 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋