Why do I feel this way?

Question

Why do I feel like I need to have sex with every guy that I date? I feel like it's something that is expected of me no matter how serious the relationship is. Is there any way to chance my perception of myself and the relationship. Also, guys do you really expect sex out of EVERY relationship no matter how serious? or do you respect a girl less for this?

Answer 1

You always respect less, because the sex is less, is the rule of thumb there. That aside its natural to feel a "need" for sex it well be a continued background static to your life until you find someone who truly cares about you, trust me I'm a male, I masterbate regular so I don't do stupid stuff. Thru time I've came to realize its pride that drives it, that I get upset at myself becasue I know everyone else is doing it, and damnit if I don't wnat to be apart of world-wide orgy we've been in. But the reality is that if I did just have sex with people it could ruin my life at the most, and stunt my chances are a good one at the least. So just realize you can use that to drive you towards a better relaitonship, if you know ether, 1 you can take care of it if its just for pride points, masterbate. 2 your ruining your chances with the man you actually need. That aside its also shows that you need OTHER avenues to feel pride with someone, your a good canditate for religion! Give it a try!