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Question

in a colummist in a newspaper ,Magazine what advice given to this person.I have been with my partner for three years now. We both agree that we have a great relationship, though our lives are so busy with work, night courses and volunteer work. We hardly have time fir dates, let alone eating and getting enough sleep! I feel that i look way too fat so i started to diet 6 months ago. I have lost 10 pounds on this new awesome fat free diet. I feel I can trust jeff and he feels he can trust me. We went for HIV testing a year ago at a clinic that offered anonymous testing. We both tested negativeand decided we would stop using condoms. Nine months ago we decided we would like to start a family and have been trying to get pregnant.We have intercourse about three times a week but think we should have intercourse every night as nothing has happened yet. We enjoy having netercourse but we are feeling that the fact that we not got conceived yet is putting a strain on the relationship. thanks

Answer 1

If you think your life's are busy now how busy you think it is going to be with a child? You are both to stressed and need to slow down and let it happen.

Answer 2

if you both aren't getting enough sleep and not eating regularly, how do you think that you can give a baby what it needs? your relationship will really be strained. you both need to clear your calendar a bit. decide what is important and see what you can eliminate. complete the night courses, volunteering is a very noble thing to do, but can you cut down on some of it and donate money to a cause instead of time? seems like more time is what you need. are you financially stable to bring a child into this world. baby is going to wake up after a couple hours of sleep, around the clock for the first couple of months. if you breastfeed, and i think you should, but that's just my opinion, it's going to take a lot of energy as well. you have time to have intercourse every night? all that will change after the baby. how is he going to handle that. you say that the fact that you have not conceived yet is putting a strain on the relationship. i'm glad that having a child is important to you both. relax and it will happen as long as there is nothing medically wrong. sometimes the stress can cause you not to be able to conceive. sometimes it's your weight either way. i think you both need to just stop and breathe. get a handle on things, rearrange some things in your life to make room for baby. and also, since you are so committed to the idea of having a child, what's wrong with solidifying a commitment to each other? have you discussed marriage? it may not be important to you, but think about your childs' future. marriage has more legal rights than partnership. and if you get married it shows that you're willing to go that extra mile. it's easy to back out when you don't make a greater commitment. you may not believe in marriage and that may be okay. but if you are willing to invest so much time in each other, make the commitment. first, stop the merry go round and get off so that you can get things into the proper persepective. (that is the advice i would give)

Answer 3

Stress can keep the two of you from conceiving. Maybe you shouldn't be trying to get pregnant and just let it happen naturally.

Answer 4

Would you even have time to give to a baby? It would mean major lifestyle changes.

Intercourse every night isn't advisable. His sperm count would be lowered.

Answer 5

This means you should start using the spell check.

Answer 6

think this through..

can't u make it on one salary w/ a baby??/

go to the Dr.. he will give u a kit to test when u are ovulating..