HI, yesterday, I had an argument with my gf over the phone. It was just a small argument. So she said "if you make me mad again, I will go out with this guy named Alex, he has been asking me out many times, I 'll say yes if you make me mad".
I was disappointed. I always thought love shows respect and not being spiteful. If you are mad, then we can work it out, no need to go out with another guy. How would you feel and what would you do?
2007-10-05 12:54:43 · 6 answers · asked by White Shooting Star of HK 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her to go ahead. He deserves her, you don't. Meaning you deserve better. Don't you think? Don't ever let a girl manipulate you, or blackmail you. And they will try. They like to see how far they can push you, what they can get away with and how far you will go for them. If you can't have a little argument w/o her being a nasty b.tch, look elsewhere. Believe me honey, we are out there. There are girls who give as much or more than they get, who want to make their man happy, not play him like a fiddle and who truly wnat to be a friend to their man, not an albatross around your neck. Move on and don't look back. If you are asking, you know she's wrong and you're above it.
2007-10-05 13:10:58 · answer #1 · answered by escher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is being silly and immature. Your GF has allot of growing up to do, but we always hurt the ones we love the most and regret our actions in the end. She is doing it to hurt you because you made her mad and she wants you to feel the hurt she is feeling. I'd say she's doing a good job at it. The best thing to do is to sit down and talk to her open and honestly and go from there.....
Good Luck. Live Life to the Fullest and Enjoy Every Minute Of It.....
2007-10-05 20:03:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously a teenager huh. She is playing games.... I personally would look elsewhere for love, cause she apparently gets a kick out of trying to hurt you. If a girl said that to me, I would say go ahead...if you think you will be ahppier with him than me, then he can have you. Don't let some girl play you.... By the same token, you can find some other girl to go out with I am sure.
2007-10-05 20:01:10 · answer #3 · answered by Kevin G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be hurt, annoyed, and angry. If this is how she deals with relationship problems, then I'd have to re-evaluate the relationship myself. I think it's a very immature comment for her to make, seems to me it sort of shows that she may not be ready for a REAL relationship.
2007-10-05 20:23:43 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes not worth the time, girls do it yes i will say this we are bitches dump her *** before you get hurt
2007-10-05 20:06:11 · answer #5 · answered by Day Dreamer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't love you bro, lose her fast.
2007-10-05 19:58:21 · answer #6 · answered by 1funnyguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋