Since I'm dating the star football player, everyone is saying that I am having sex with him and that I'm pregant. And I having even slept with him. Seriously I am losing my mind, and I'm afraid that these rumors are going to ruin my relationship.
2007-10-05 13:50:57 · 33 answers · asked by shannon s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have you talked with your boyfriend about these rumors? Have you found out where these rumors originated from? If you know who started these rumors you need to go straight to the horses mouth and knock his/her teeth out..... Ok.... J/K..... I don't think you should resort to violence. But I do think that you need to talk to this person and find out why they started these nasty rumors about you. Maybe the person is jealous and wants your boyfriend, or it could be they are just jealous of you in general.
When it comes down to it, I wouldn't worry to much about your relationship being ruined over the rumors. You didn't start them so why would your BF be upset? High school can be a brutal place to be when you are a teen, but trust me you will get through it :)
2007-10-05 13:58:58 · answer #1 · answered by HappyGyrl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is tough, especially when everyone is poking fun at you for a lie. But realize that while this hurts right now, these petty rumors will end in a while. Eventually they will know the truth when you don't start "showing".
But, if you are worried that your boyfriend might get the wrong idea, have a long talk with him about this and if your relationship has any strength to it, he will be willing to understand that this is just a false rumor.
2007-10-05 13:55:58 · answer #2 · answered by Searcher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I am going to assume that the most people that are saying this are female, I mean there maybe some males, but I am sure it is mostly females. Which means, they're just jealous of you. They wish they could be in your position dating who you are dating. So, with this comes lies and rumors so all you have to do is brush the hater's off and not worry about them. Or if it was me I would say if anyone has something to say to me or about me then say it to my face, and I can almost gaurantee you that nobody will say anything which lets you know you have not nothing to worry about because they are a bunch of coward a** bi**hes. If it is guys then they just simply want you and they're mad that they can't have you hold your head up grab your man and plant a big kiss on him in front of those nosey a** people to let them know they're insignificant. Don't sweat the little stuff because it is just not worth losing your sanity or your relationship over it. Oh yeah have a talk with your man and see how he feels about it if he say don't worry about it, and that it is nothing then you have nothing to worry about.
2007-10-05 14:03:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are jealous... Just ignore them...
If you’re not sleeping with him or anyone else then the only opinion that matters is HIS.
YOU know you have not done anything wrong...
You need to sit him down and explain that all of this is being said behind your back and you want him to know that it is all lies.
Don't let it hurt your self esteem...
Stupid B!tches will spread LOTS of rumors...
At least they are spreading rumors that can be PROVEN wrong... Like that your pregnant...
In a few months there will be no way for them to continue the rumor...
Just lift your shirt and say "*****... Apparently I've been pregnant for like, a year... How stupid can you be?"
Just ignore the losers… The only self esteem they have they get by bashing happy people like you.
2007-10-05 13:57:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like Hollywood to me. If a few rumors floating around can ruin your relationship, when you have absolutely no control over what's being made up, then your boyfriend (or whoever), is too immature to be with you anyway. People will talk regardless, they are probably jealous and are trying to ruin your relationship. Ignore it and they will eventually move on to making up rumors about others. Personal experience, from your view of things.
2007-10-05 13:56:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you let them bug you, people will think they are true. Whoever started the rumor based it on stereotypes, which sucks, but if he is true to you then he will blow off the rumors just like you should. Hang in there girl because it will be over soon. I wont say people will forget about it, but it isn't true, so dont let it get to you. You and your guy know the truth, and if people think you have, calming tell them that it was a cruel rumor and that you are so done. That will get the point across.
2007-10-05 13:54:55 · answer #6 · answered by Ava 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
first of all what football player are you talking about? because im in love with a star football player too, though if your not talking about in hawaii, then okay. but anyways ignore those ignorant rants there just jealous of you. you better watch out though one of them might steal him away from you, noting that he's a star. what do you think britney spears can do with all the nasty rumors about her? nothing and besides, if your dating him i dont think its anybody elses business to stick there nose into. If you end up being his girlfriend then yeah you can sleep with him and do whatevers just make sure he doesnt have someone on the side. and nobody should get suspicious about that cause he's yours and your his.
2007-10-05 13:57:50 · answer #7 · answered by tinkerbell88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore the rumors! The less you talk about them the sooner they will go away. The more upset you appear, the more the rumors will keep going. It will be obvious in a couple of months that the rumors were not true.
2007-10-05 13:55:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if the two of you haven't had sex then he knows the pregnant thing is not true. Everyone will have another rumor about someone else soon. Plus when you don't leave school or get a big preggo belly everyone will shut up. Don't stress about it.
2007-10-05 13:54:51 · answer #9 · answered by h&t_oct282007 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to find the source of the rumor and confront the person. Ask him or her why they feel the need to inject themselves into your business, and spread lies. Frankly, this shouldn't affect your relationship. If someone mentions it to you, tell them a bored person decided to spread a lie about you. Nothing more needs to be said. You don't have to defend yourself against b.s. It's not even worth acknowledging. If your boyfriend has a problem with you because of false rumors, he's not much of a boyfriend.
2007-10-05 13:55:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋