Would you be angry or sad? Could you accept the fact they are that way and still love them? Are would you feel like you had lived a lie for all the years you were together?
2007-10-05 13:12:48 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm sure if that were to happen, that I would feel a whole gammut of emotions. I wouldn't feel like our time together was a lie though. The experiences happened, the memories would still be there. I don't think I would believe that my spouce intentionally tried to hurt me and lie to me. And I'm sure that gay or not, my spouce obviously loved me, even if it wasn't a romantic love, or was mistaken for that.
2007-10-05 13:33:45 · answer #1 · answered by who-wants-to-know 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be angry or sad. I truly do think that I would accept them for their sexuality and still love them.
I also wouldn't feel like I lived a lie with them. Sometimes people struggle with their sexuality and try to be straight for fear of nonacceptance.
I would rather find out that my husband was gay than to find out he was cheating on me with another woman.
2007-10-05 13:29:45 · answer #2 · answered by Vera C 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow I think that I would be a little angry at first and then sad.....In my case I would feel mad in the beginning bcause im bi and I tell everyone I date so I would respect the same courtesy u kno??
2007-10-05 13:16:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i would be both angry and sad i don't think i could accept that i would definitely think it was a lie
2007-10-05 13:17:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would feel so betrayed and hurt. But I feel I would need to move on . I would have to accept it and pray for God's help to make it through it...
2007-10-05 13:20:45 · answer #5 · answered by Monnie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's a slap in your face for sure and a total betrayal on his/her part. I don't care how deep you love someone it is possible to destroy that love and turn it into hate.
2007-10-05 13:34:56 · answer #6 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no but before leaving the marriage (since i know it'll be over soon) i'd have as many 3 ways as I could...I mean damn the situation just falls into your lap like that? take advantage of it..
2007-10-05 13:19:24 · answer #7 · answered by juanes addicion 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hitler had a wife and was eventually turned gay after he saw his fellow commandants have plenty of lustful homosexual sex Lol.
2007-10-05 13:17:23 · answer #8 · answered by Ƕāūţē çūīşīņē ḟōŗ Ṁŗ.Đēāţħ ® 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
TO TELL U THE TRUTH I WOULD B BOTH CUZ I THOUGHT HE LOVED ME AND IT WAZ AN OPEN RELATIONSHIP AND WE TELL EACH OTHA EVERYTHING.........AND THEN I WOULD B OK K WITH IT CUZ U CAN'T CHOOSE WHO U FALL IN LOVE WITH.....WETHER IT'Z A MAN OR A WOMEN.......NOW IF HE TRYS TO LEAVE ME FOR ANOTHA PERSON THAN I WOULD BE HIGHLY UPET CUZ I WASTED HIS TIME ALSO MINE
2007-10-05 13:19:25 · answer #9 · answered by shanteria13 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would feel sad, and most likely i would think i knew something was wrong..
2007-10-05 13:16:15 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋