ok, maybe some people do...
hm where do i start....ok i want to ask my best friend to homecoming...heres the thing...i really like her, and i really do not think she likes me, because i heard her say so- not to me, but to her other friend- but, she has been closer to me than ever and it seems like she likes me by the way she acts-confusing i know-so im really mixed in my feelings....so, homecoming is coming up, and i want to ask her...but i can never find a time to be alone with her, becuase when we hang out its usually with our other friends, nor can i figure out a way to make it not seem awkward(we are best friends, and she knows me better than anyone) so im on the verge of just dumping the whole proposal and ask someone else... i mean, what if she says no, i couldnt bear our friendship to be all awkward ...idk, aww of course this has to happen to me...what should i do? should i ask her to homecoming our not?
2007-10-05 13:29:57 · 26 answers · asked by pilotman 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like you have a very good friendship with her. Don't risk ruining it by asking her to the homecoming.
The homecoming is only one night. Just find some other girl to ask.
However, if you really can't let go of the idea of asking your friend, you could just say, "I can't find anyone to go to the homecoming with. Do you think you could be my date?"
If you really think she'd take it the wrong way, then don't. Just don't. It's not worth losing her friendship.
2007-10-05 13:34:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...Lesse. If she acts like that around her friends, but differently around you, she might be afraid of what her friends think. When your with her, ask her for some time alone and take a walk or something. Then....ask her to homecoming, and assure her that the awnser will not affect your friendship. If all goes well..soon after you should probably tell her yourself that you like her. Chances are she's figured it out already and has something to say when your ready. Good luck buddy ;) Take a chance...don't let life pass yew by :P
2007-10-05 20:36:47 · answer #2 · answered by Ari-kun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you guys are with your friends
in the group just say hey when youre going before you leave i want to ask you something ok
when shes about to leave then you tell her this
shell ask you and get up and start walking away from your friends holding her by her hands not in a romantic way though
first tell her that you asking her not to insult/ make you feel hurt even if the answer is not what you want
then tell her what youre up to
tell her how you feel about her
but dont go beyond
try to be simple and straight
im guessing she dosent have a bf
please do not send anyone to do it
its going to send mix signals
trust me youre talking to an expert
its hurts more when the person you sent to ask her comes and tell you her answer
goodluck
hillary
2007-10-05 20:48:11 · answer #3 · answered by Chel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is as close of a friend as she says she is, ask her to come hang out at your place . then if she says ok sit down with her and say hey, i need to ask you something : then stand up turn around and say do these pants make my butt looks fat ? Just to break the ice , something to make her laugh at and not feel so serious. Then say no really i want to ask you if you would go with me to homecoming, say that you would rather take a friend who you know you can have fun with , than some chick you really dont know .
2007-10-05 20:39:57 · answer #4 · answered by brbelle21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to homecoming. I know you are afraid of her saying no and having awkwardness between you, BUT you would probably feel soo much worse if you didn't ask her...I bet you would always ask yourself "what if I had asked her and she had said yes?" I know it can be hard thinking about the negative consequences but I think the positive ones of asking her out and her saying yes should outweigh the negative. Go For it! Good luck/break a leg!
2007-10-05 20:37:54 · answer #5 · answered by lala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety been there unfortunately didn't to that! Depends on a lot of tiny details, like how long u 2 been close "best" frienz, does she confide in "boyish" advice, has either of u dated since u 2 became so close. But since time is of da essance, wherever, with whomever doin watever, just pull her aside and keep it real. 4 example: "lynn time is not on my side so ill stick with da short version. I really care about u more then any female I know, & I really like it if u would go with me to so & so, I don't expect u to feel as I do, if u don't I'm alrite with that 4 now [lol] we can always go as frienz no strings attached." maybe just maybe she won't feel obligated u won't feel conflicated. Maybe... U all will have a good time & maybe she'll discovers more then frienz is good thing
2007-10-05 21:08:40 · answer #6 · answered by bukoz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TADA an answer :]
First, who would you ask to the dance if you did ask someone else? and if you asked them without really liking them and they said yes wouldnt you be leading them on (not trying to give you a guilt trip, seriously). Maybe you should ask her out as a friend (and say that), or if you dont like that idea maybe you should ask her out (for real this time) just to end this crazy charade and find out whats really going on!!!
hope that helped :]] good luck!
2007-10-05 20:36:32 · answer #7 · answered by Nina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it ......i 'm sure she'll say yes and if your scared then ask her if you guys can go as friends ...then when the time is right at homecoming tell her how you feel. Because at home coming your sure to have some alone time .........and if all your friends come around then tell her you have to tell her something important tell her ALONE!!! That way your sure to get her love ............
2007-10-05 20:37:31 · answer #8 · answered by Abby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i see well have you try to ask her friends if she has anybody else who had asked her homecoming dance or even planning to go to the school dance this year ? simple words so that you can find out if she is planning to go if she doesnt have anybody to go with then maybe you can ask her friends if it alright that you can have her # to call her if that is better for you to ask her when her friends arent there with her . write a note to her or put in her locker so that when she does go to her locker she can read it when she is alone .
2007-10-05 20:36:18 · answer #9 · answered by statecalifornia2009 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! ask her to homecoming
and you'll k now if she likes you or not if she doesnt . then you can look for someone else knowing that you tried its much easier than hoping something will happen.
2007-10-05 20:34:42 · answer #10 · answered by melissa c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋