this guy says he likes me but he cant have anything serious with me because he is older than me and because sex is important to him. (and i am virgin and dont want to have sex yet..marriage concept) anyway.. does he like me if he thinks that way.....what do u think
2007-10-05 13:49:51 · 13 answers · asked by gold luck! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no he just knows you like him so he thinks you are gonna put out to be with him.
2007-10-05 13:53:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How much older? And if he passes up a good girl because sex is important to him, then he isn't someone you would be happy with anyway. You can do MUCH better. My girl and I aren't having sex with each other until we get married ( we are both divorced and have children by the way). We have been together for a year now and it will be at least two more years before we get married, but we are in love with each other and very faithful to each other. We choose not to have sex simply because we want our relationship based on love, not sex. Sex isn't everything. Move on and find a guy that deserves you.
2007-10-05 20:56:46 · answer #2 · answered by tazdvl_31 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is a very important part of a relationship, but not the whole relationship. A true relationship needs to be based on a mutual respect, common likes, and a true caring for each other. In a great relationship sex is the enhancement to it and even without it you would still want to spend all your time with the other person. My love is not just my lover, she is my best friend, my confidant, and my partner in all things. That is how it should be.
2007-10-05 20:57:10 · answer #3 · answered by eleroth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was being honest when he said that ( coz he really likes you & sex is important to him coz he is an older guy ) untill the two of you agree on the sex thing .. i think eatch one of you should go in thier way ( or you could be just friends ) ..
.. it is for the best !
2007-10-05 21:22:31 · answer #4 · answered by jo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's just honoring the fact that you don't want to have sex with him. He probably does like you, but he's just being honest. How can he be with you--unless you guys plan to get married?
2007-10-05 20:53:17 · answer #5 · answered by happy4u 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He might very well like you, but there's a sexual stipulation attached here somewhere. Since by your own admission that's not what you're looking for, you may be better off moving on to greener pastures.
2007-10-05 20:53:28 · answer #6 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might like but that doesnt mean he respects you. you need to talk to him and ask him why he thinks he should have sex. and then go from there
2007-10-05 20:53:55 · answer #7 · answered by Mikala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it sounds like you like the chase... it's dangerous so you want to insist on it. i don't think you should continue to persue if you have no intention of going to that level.
2007-10-05 20:53:59 · answer #8 · answered by estoerrific 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he just wants the sex. i wouldnt date him, if youre not ready.
2007-10-05 20:52:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if sex is that important say no
2007-10-05 20:52:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋