guys is this really hurt u a lot?

Question

hav known tis guy for 18 mths but we started to date abt 3 mths ago. my family total disagree of our relationship.Because he is divorced with 2 kids and does not hav stable yet promising career n income.

Another thing is illiterate and he doesnt speak english.as for myself,i wish to have someone that i can de dependent on.he is good in personality but not financially (i cant be paying for the luxury enjoyment all the times).and nowadays that everything is almost in english,whenever we go out together,it looks like i m taking care of him, explaining and directing him what, why, when..

i am feeling tired sometimes.knowing that the relationship will not go to another level,i want a break-up.but he talks me out everytime.now i am not answering his call for a week.but this morning he called. i told him i am dating with another guy (i lie).he try to drag but i demanded him not to call again. he was silent and end the call without a word.am i doing the right thing?am i too harsh to him?

Answer 1

If you want out, get out. I don't care what language he hears it in. Same with you. Don't be wishy-washy about severing the relationship if that's what you need.