I work away from home one week home and one week at work roster. Last night I tried to call my wife and she had her mobile turned off, called her this morning and she said she went out night clubbing with her friends. You think she should have told me if she was going out or let her live her own life. It is not the first time this has happenned
2007-10-05 22:19:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
its not right to turn off her mobile plus its not right that she dsnt tell you where shes going. you dont want her in jail but for a good marriage there must be good communication. i suggest you to talk things with her.
2007-10-05 22:24:23 · answer #1 · answered by babyandme 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
She should tell you if she is going out. Why is she clubbing? You know that people usually go clubbing to find the opposite sex. If you wanted to have fun with your girlfriends, go to a movie or out to dinner. Clubbing is not what she should be doing if she is married. It is apparent she is taking advantage of your working hours. And she turned her phone off because she didn't want to be bothered while she was "clubbing." You two need to have a long talk about committment and see where she stands. You get married for a reason, to be with each other, not going to a club where everyone is half naked looking to score.
2007-10-06 10:02:15 · answer #2 · answered by lazycat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mmm, this is a respect issue...
She's obviously disrespecting you by going to places and not telling you...
I mean, even if you're away, you're still her husband! She shouldn't be acting like she's single, and like she has noone to tell where she's going!
She has a right to go and have a good time with the girls... But at the same time, I'd suspect something going on if she doesn't even tell you where she's going, and turns her cellphone off... Specially because it's happend on several occasions... It's time you and your wife have a talk on ground rules while you're away...
2007-10-06 05:28:02 · answer #3 · answered by Lizzie 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
she should of probablly told ya but since its happen b4 she didnt feel the need to..........doesnt mean she is doing anything, but then again she could b, but dont jump to she is sneeky cuz she didnt answer ya..not all wifes cheat
2007-10-06 08:52:10 · answer #4 · answered by switchmistress 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex would turn off her phone when she didn't want to be contacted. Sure enough... she was screwing around. When they are on a mobile phone, they can tell you they are one place but they are somewhere else.
2007-10-06 05:37:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you spend alot of time away from home, she can do whatever she want's without your awareness. It doesn't sound very good. Your marriage may be doomed. Sorry.
2007-10-06 06:54:18 · answer #6 · answered by seahorse 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is only 1 way to find out ask her, whats the worst that could happen? she could say yes but then at least you know where you stand. good luck
2007-10-06 07:34:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you go on a witch hunt, you are going to find witches.
2007-10-06 05:42:03 · answer #8 · answered by box of rain 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
SNEEKY NAAAAAAA
bole toh ENJOYINGGGGGGG
2007-10-06 05:48:48 · answer #9 · answered by lavanya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps... if you are away from her that often, then you should know what to do.
2007-10-06 05:28:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋