It has been a long time since high school. I am just wonder how i go about seeing if he did liked me. I was to shy to talk to him and he seemed liked he never knew i was a live. I am just curious... Any serious replies are welcome. Thank you!
2007-10-09 07:21:12 · 4 answers · asked by april79_2000 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He quit high school and i have checked all the sites to see if he is on them. I do know his adress and phone number but,I would never call him. Now what?
2007-10-09 07:30:31 · update #1
Listen, I was really shy in school myself. So was the girl I've been dreaming about for the last 14 years. Which is a big part of why she never clued me in that she was crazy about me too... crazy about me the whole time. (You're question got me teared up because it sounds just like what my girl had told me about how she felt... she thought I never even looked her way... she thought I didn't like her.... April, I was crazy about her....)
We missed out on a big part of our lives together. We were travelling in wrong directions.
We thought life would just be being-without-the-other.... That's just the way it would be.
We came back together last year for the first time in so many years. We're almost 30... we're going to get married.
The only way to know, April, is to talk to the man. If you're not in contact, send him a card, a letter, an email, a voice-mail, something. Get things started, take things slow, and keep your eyes peeled for signs and between-the-line-messages because your both going to be careful and guarded and scared to death to ruin this new chance if he's feeling anything like you are.
Good luck... I really hope it's love.
2007-10-09 07:43:21 · answer #1 · answered by rubix_part2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For a good start.... you need to get over this shyness. You'll never find out the answer your looking for if you don't either come out and ask him or a close friend that he might of confided in. You might need to find a close friend to also get reconnected with him. This may also be a way to show him that your interested in him. I bet he has female friends that are always good "match makers" and you would not be so shy to talk to.
2007-10-09 07:42:53 · answer #2 · answered by jbolt5491 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have everything you need to get what you want except the will to take it.
If getting to him is not an option get to someone close to him.
Realize that you are strong enough to handle a rejection, and its better in the long term than the exhausting emotional roller coaster of not knowing.
Realize that time is a factor. If he settles for someone who's not you you're stone stuck and out of luck.
Remember, will power, courage and clarity of purpose.
2007-10-09 11:12:59 · answer #3 · answered by sgtcosgrove 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend who reconnected to the same scenario on classmates.com ....... She's thrilled she did now she feels complete JUST knowing he did!
2007-10-09 07:27:11 · answer #4 · answered by Tink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋