Family & Relationships - 9 October 2007

I am trying hard to break free from a co dependent relationship. I was with my boyfriend for 8 years and took care of him as if he was my child. He has never had much motivation in life. I moved out of the house 3 months ago, but I still continued to see him. I even started back paying his bills for him. I told him that I did those things becasue I love him. He does not have a job, He does not have license or any transportation. He tells me he loves me all the time and he says he is not using me, but I also know that he is a chronic liar. He tells lies all the time. But he still says he loves me. I dont understand. Anyway today is the first day that I have not been by to check on him. Do you think he will call me?? What do you think will happen?? I miss him but I know he is no good. Please someone I need some major mental help and advice!!!!

2007-10-09 06:53:00 · 10 answers · asked by Sunny 2 in Marriage & Divorce

hi i am 35 year old girl, want to marry with a man who is 42 year old, and who love me more, his wife is sick from 10 years, and he have one son 23 years old ..so we want to marry ,how it possible tell me i am government servant and he is c.e.o of a company ?how possible this marriage ,please guide me ?

2007-10-09 06:51:59 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Me and my BF had an arguement the other day but since we are both stubborn neither of us called for 2 days. Then finally Saturday I broke down and texted him asking if he loved me, just to break the ice. He texted back yes. Then I called he didn't answer, then I text no answer. This started at about 6:30 by like 8 i stopped cus i was just pissed he was ignoring me. My friends call ask me to come out, so to take my mind off of him, i went. At 11:30 he texts asking if i feel the same way he does, like ****? I said no that i was fine. He then shows up where i am cus now he wants 2 talk. Long story short he said alot but what sticks in my head is that he is scared that he might cheat on me and that maybe we need time off. It's not him talking it's his friends sayin he should be single like them. What would you do if your partner that 2 u? Do u end it or fear that they will cheat, but now he swears he wont. Im the 1st real GF he has had in 2 yrs and over the 2 yrs he hit the books!

2007-10-09 06:49:05 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

wanna sing a song for my moms wedding.. any ideas on a cute song that i can sing??

2007-10-09 06:48:46 · 8 answers · asked by llllaurrrr 1 in Weddings

I am unconfortable. Because I cannot and do not want to pay for those expensive gift for her 1 years old son. I been her friend for more than 10 years. I think this a time for quit our freindship. Because she said bad words to me and hurt my feeling for more than 1 year. because I gave cheap gifts for her son. What do you think? She is my best friend. Now I think she was. I feel I lose friend.

2007-10-09 06:46:53 · 11 answers · asked by Lee Y 2 in Friends

Im looking for the name of a wedding song, or if anyone knows of a website of where it is, or where to find it, that would be helpful.


It tells the story of someones marriage, and has the tune to "Morning has Broken"

Thanks

2007-10-09 06:43:52 · 3 answers · asked by jojobass86 3 in Weddings

I want to sell my wedding dress but no one seems to want it. I have it posted on Craig's List and I have asked everyone I know and I still haven't came up with anything. It's not like it's an old rag or anything. I bought it a little over a year ago and it's been sitting in my closet ever since.
I have had 2 women interested in buying my dress but the first one made me a victim of fraud and the second seems to want to do the same.

2007-10-09 06:39:55 · 20 answers · asked by Country Chick87 2 in Weddings

ok my ex ( i know another ex question but hold on) dumped me 4 months ago and we were still hanging out about 10 days after the break up then i cut all contact with her b/c it just hurt me to be around her...we dated for 3 years 9 months and im only 19 so that was all my high school...anyways i told her that i didn’t want to talk to her anymore, when she asked me y i was ignoring her and i told her i didn't want her in my life for now. she got a new b/f not even 2 weeks after the break up, and they are still together. But the other day she came on msn (witch i deleted her from and she’s been trying to get me to talk to her this whole time we broke up) she asked if we could talk and i told her 2 move on with her new b/f and there was no reason for us to talk and she said this and i quote ...' i NEED you' and she told me she was crying talking about it and that she really missis me and wants to c me, I told her that she didn’t NEED me she wants it and there’s a big difference...and the reason now that she gave me for the break up was that she thought i gave up on the relationship, and i didn’t. The break up really effected me for the first 6 weeks...so wut im asking wut do u think she means by this behavior....does she only want me there as a friend? does she want get back together? is she just playing head games with me? and i do love her and i KNOW she still loves me and i might be able to look past all this drama and give it another shot but wut do u guys think? THANKS FOR UR TIME

2007-10-09 06:39:47 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I still miss my Nan,she past away in 1989,she was like an angel and gave so much love,I would love to see her again one more time,and tell her how much she still means to me.

2007-10-09 06:34:44 · 10 answers · asked by MR Mystic 3 in Singles & Dating

I specifically forbade her from exposing herself in public above the knee, above her elbow, or below her neck yet she continues to wear revealing clothing. I burned a whole drawer of tank tops, yet she keeps buying more? I've already cut her allowance and am not letting her see her friends, but it's not working. If not a harsher punishment, how can I get her to listen?

God Bless.

2007-10-09 06:30:11 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Any takers?

2007-10-09 06:29:55 · 33 answers · asked by Senator John McClain 6 in Marriage & Divorce

This is another situation with the same guy that I like... umm me and his brother really hang out alot together like almost everyday. He is always trying to get me to smile and always trying to make me laugh.. but the thing is that i like him and his brother but i dont know what to do im so confused!!! PLEASE GIVE ME ADVICE!!! I REALLY NEED IT!!!

2007-10-09 06:22:02 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So, I just started going out with this guy. We had been friends for a few months and he was pursuing me the whole time. I liked him but I wasnt dating b/c I went on a leave of absense from the dating field. Anyhow, we are dating now, and when Im with him, he is all affectionate and tells me how perfect I am. But then when I dont see him, I dont hear from him for days at a time and that leads me to believe that he doesnt like me. He is the one that says he wants a serious relationship but how can you have one if the person doesnt call for five days at a time?
Does he like me or does he not? And do i even have any right in being annoyed about this? Please help!

2007-10-09 06:18:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-09 06:17:38 · 44 answers · asked by Blue eyed girl 2 in Singles & Dating

u bite them on the lip when u r kissing him????

2007-10-09 06:16:38 · 9 answers · asked by blahblah 2 in Singles & Dating

Many years ago I kept a journal. An in that journal I wrote a letter to god. In this letter I asked God to bring me someone special. Who was intelligent, diverse, cultured, and funny just to name a few? I wrote down so many qualities I really didn’t think there could be a person out there to fit it. I was wrong. God brought me you and you are everything and more that I wished and prayed for. You make me laugh, you warm my heart, and you make me feel loved and protected. You are without a doubt my night and shinning armor my hero. I pleg to spend all of my live right by your side! Through thick and thin, good times and bad. You are my love forever. I am the luckiest woman in the world to be marrying her soul mate. For that. I thank you. I love you.

I don't want to exchange written vow's i want to do that by the book, but am wanting to say something from the heart...how's this

2007-10-09 06:15:44 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Almost every person is given a nickname...Bob, Charlie, Bill, Peggy etc.

What happened to just saying the full name?

2007-10-09 06:13:27 · 12 answers · asked by shakky_wakky 2 in Family

And/or a nice way for a guy to show you he is interested in you romantically?

2007-10-09 06:12:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if a 14 year old and a 17 year old were dating would therre be anything wrong with that

2007-10-09 06:10:00 · 34 answers · asked by I love you babe<33 2 in Singles & Dating

im 25 but shes my mates sister and hes 25 as well

2007-10-09 06:09:58 · 23 answers · asked by PAZ.....GTFC 2 in Singles & Dating

Do you really think the kid is going to say YES, please spank me! I love to be hurt?!?!

2007-10-09 06:09:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-10-09 06:05:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hey! i am 17 and have been engaged for about 3 months. I just had a set of twins (one boy and one girl) and, my fiance and I have moved in together. I am planning the wedding, but with two babies, school, and family it's hard. Plus.. its majorly expensive! Anyway, i was asking if anyone knew any ways to make it easier and cheaper. My fiance, Travis, is working and attending college so, its hard on him too! We want to have a medium sized wedding.. and like i said its been stressful! anyway, i would have my mom giving me advice, but since she hasnt talked to me since i got pregnant.. thats not a big help.!

2007-10-09 05:59:16 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-10-09 05:57:55 · 2 answers · asked by Only1Ronaldo 1 in Singles & Dating

My friends of 6 years and I have liked each other the entire time. He's never said anything cause he was too shy and I never said anything cause I was a little bit younger than him and didn't think i was in his league ( we have a 3 1/2 age difference. I'm now 21 he's 24) . He moved and now he lives in another state and he's coming down to visit. We've been talking alot recently and we've both talked about our feelngs somewhat. What should I do when he comes down? I really like this guy. Have for 6 years.

2007-10-09 05:51:39 · 9 answers · asked by Brielle 2 in Singles & Dating

ok, It's Tuesday and you all got your workloads so put the 10 minute porn down, the scissors and the 10th sandwich you inhaled and the cookies and stop tormenting the cat and read.!!! what is the wildest, craziest, funniest, embarrasing thing you have done, or has happened. confessions. you can't see anyone so let's hear it! it could be falling down, getting caught cheating, American Pie antics.. CONFESS! i am bored but just to let you know.....i farted lond and hard and loud in the store- Target..and blamed it on the 3 yr old and people believed me...just to name one.

2007-10-09 05:46:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I WANT A MAN THAT'S GONNA TREAT ME WITH RESPECT AND WHENEVER I NEED OR WANT SOMETHING HE'LL GO AND GET IT NO MATTER WHAT EXCEPT FOR STEALING IT.

2007-10-09 05:46:50 · 10 answers · asked by princess_tracy07 1 in Singles & Dating

I am divorced since my children were an infant and toddler.
I have been single for many years and actually have done pretty good for myself. I drive a fairly new SUV, I work at a very lucrative job as a RN. I own my own home. I have dated the same guy for 5 yrs and we have a lot in common
Recently my boyfriends brother went into the hospital for a 2nd bypass in 10 yrs. He is a really nice fella, so instead of sending him a flower, I sent him a funny card and a pair of really nice Mizuno shoes which are my favorite brand. I knew he would be walking in the fitness center at the hospital, so I figured rather than buying him a stupid flower, I would put my money into something useful-walking shoes. I firgured it would cost about the same and thought it would be appreciated.
Now his wife is all jealous and he would not talk to me during our last visit. My boyfriend told me she is that way.
I now am being treated like dirt by the whole family. Did I do something wrong?

2007-10-09 05:45:08 · 10 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Family

Well I have been not getting along with my husband. His mom moved in unannounced. He lost his job I am stuck with the bills, mom is lazy, my kids are both in school. She claims she came to live with us to babysit. I don't need a babysitter. I am going crazy.....It so happens I don't buy the right brand of groceries for her to cook with. My husband is the youngest of the family, he has four older siblings and no one wants to take the responsibility to take care of the 56 yr old mom. She has a small drinking problem....has always been a homemaker. I want her out but she has no where to go. Husband is not help....his mother is coming between us. What shall I do????? I want my marriage to work.

2007-10-09 05:44:22 · 13 answers · asked by ahhhmaazzzing 1 in Marriage & Divorce

so why doe.s it take the girls , 5 hours .

2007-10-09 05:44:12 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating