So, I just started going out with this guy. We had been friends for a few months and he was pursuing me the whole time. I liked him but I wasnt dating b/c I went on a leave of absense from the dating field. Anyhow, we are dating now, and when Im with him, he is all affectionate and tells me how perfect I am. But then when I dont see him, I dont hear from him for days at a time and that leads me to believe that he doesnt like me. He is the one that says he wants a serious relationship but how can you have one if the person doesnt call for five days at a time?
Does he like me or does he not? And do i even have any right in being annoyed about this? Please help!
2007-10-09 06:18:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is the time you two need to sit down and have a conversation. Just tell him how you feel about the situation and see what he says. Good luck.
2007-10-09 06:23:09 · answer #1 · answered by JustANiceGuyHere 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He busy playing the field, five days is a little too long to communicate with you if he wanted a serious relationship, tell your busy next time he calls, let him think you got something better to do than wait for him.
2007-10-09 13:24:55 · answer #2 · answered by davey 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey this isn't the 60's call him, maybe he is wondering the same thing thinking you never call so you must not be that interested, or just pop in with one of his favourite things, a book something small just to let him know you are thinking of him. Good luck
2007-10-09 13:30:19 · answer #3 · answered by Neptune2bsure 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he might have another girl or wife somewhere. Does he wear glasses with no gel? It's a very good possibility he could be a superhero.
2007-10-09 13:28:51 · answer #4 · answered by Personal Insult 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes two to tango. You've been the one who's always receiving. It's time to GIVE instead. The phone works both ways.
2007-10-09 13:26:06 · answer #5 · answered by Hanna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about you call him?
if he sounds annoyed for calling, then he's a jerk.
i think it's mostly you. he's the one pursuing you the whole time and complimenting you for being "perfect", but maybe he doesn't hear anything from you?!?!
2007-10-09 13:24:18 · answer #6 · answered by magicdust 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if thats how he has always been then take the good with the bad dont change who he is you will lose him give him his freedom and enjoy your free time dont wait around him he will start calling and come around more on his own and if her dont you dont need him
2007-10-09 13:27:13 · answer #7 · answered by wessalan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes it when you're around but he's not intrested in anything serious
2007-10-09 13:22:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋