hi i am 35 year old girl, want to marry with a man who is 42 year old, and who love me more, his wife is sick from 10 years, and he have one son 23 years old ..so we want to marry ,how it possible tell me i am government servant and he is c.e.o of a company ?how possible this marriage ,please guide me ?
2007-10-09 06:51:59 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
You're 35 years old and you can't spell or punctuate correctly? Geeze, this guy is an a-s-s and so are you for getting involved with a married man!
2007-10-09 06:57:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
you call this other woman his wife. so i am assuming that he is still married.
until he gets a divorce you need to leave this man alone. it's not fair to do this, to step into a family and just destroy what they have.
this man to me seems uncoop. he has a sick wife at home. he has a mistress on the side. i promise you this. i don't care how much he tells you that he loves you more he would first get a divorce secondly he WILL cheat on you. once a cheater alway's a cheater it's the golden rule. when he's done with you he will leave you in the dirt as he has already done to his wife.
the fact that he has not divorced his wife for you say's to me that he will never plan on doing it. he very well must still love his wife. but, because she's sick he needs to have a women on the side. in this case i think he will tell you what ever he you want to hear.
i bet any thing if you said to him today if you love me then leave your wife. now go to the courts in the morning and get a divorce now. i bet he will give you a sob strory about my wife is sick. i dont want to leave her like that. i've heard this story too many times. it's a classic story. ask anyone.
well just becareful. what goes around comes around. if your willing to interfare with a marriage know matter what is happening between them or not good or bad. then i promise you it will happen to you.
2007-10-09 07:06:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I think this question is BS. First of all, no WOMAN at the age of 35 would refer to herself as a "girl". Secondly, he already has a wife so you should obviously stay away from him. Lastly, you can barely spell and have horrible grammar. Do you really think people are going to believe you're 35?!? Don't you have some chores to do or something?
2007-10-09 08:26:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
technically.. yes, u can get married - if both of you are not philippine residents/nationals, i guess divorce would be his way out. irrespective of your stautre in any job or firm, there are family policies that govern separations and marriages, do consult a legal expert for these matters
i just hope you are not a filipino as there is no divorce law in philippines (i wish there was..) in case your a filipino, some do opt for marriage annulment or legal separation..
of course, being sick for 10 yrs is a ground for divorce or legal separation or annulment of marriage.. but let me ask u something, if i may?
would that be humane? every person who is sick needs his partner to be with him/her.. and here you are taking somewhat like you're taking advantage of the situation (not that insinuating or actually thinking u are)..
i would like you to put your shoes in your partner's wife.. what would u feel if it were u in that sickbed.. and the actual wife is a single 35 yr old woman asking this question now.. i hope you consider this as i do believe in "karma" (what goes around, comes around)..
i would suggest you talk to your partner about how humane your decisions and indecisions can be.. for you dont want to repeat the cycle, dont yah?
2007-10-09 07:11:04 · answer #4 · answered by NapakaHilig 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So... he is married, the head of a company and his wife needs him.
But he is bonking you.
And you see dollar signs and think he loves you. What a wonderful man to treat his wife so poorly, and despite 'loving you more', he hasn't divorced her yet.
Sounds like he is getting everything he wants and everyone else can suffer.
If you had self respect and morals you wouldn't get involved with a married man.
Your relationship sounds bad. If you do marry, and fall ill, watch out for the next easy girl who will replace you.
2007-10-09 07:06:19 · answer #5 · answered by donedeal 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Polygamy is illegal in every state. So the answer is, no, you can't marry him unless he gets a divorce first.
PS: why would you want to marry a guy who has demonstrated (1) that he is a cheater; and (2) that he will abandon his wife when she needs him the most? Sounds like a real loser.
2007-10-09 07:26:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok seriously, learn to speak and write english before you post questions. If he is already married and his wife is sick then why does he want to marry you? I doubt his son is very happy with this idea if he even knows. Please forget this whole idea and leave the man and his family alone.
2007-10-09 07:36:47 · answer #7 · answered by musicgrl42002 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhmmm he divorce her and marry you. What dose your or his occupatiion has to do with anything?? Is she dying, is he staying out of respect for her?
If he loves you he should marry you. The jobs has nothing to do with anything. A king can marry a maid in this country! If he dosnt want to leave his wife...there is nothing you can do. You can't waste your life on someone who dosnt want you,
2007-10-09 07:01:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Green Card
2007-10-09 06:54:29 · answer #9 · answered by Confused 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
He has a wife. You can't marry a man who has a wife. End of story. Please move on and stop distracting him from his responsibilities which include taking care of his wife.
P.S. You are 35 years old. Why are you calling yourself a "girl"?
2007-10-09 06:58:59 · answer #10 · answered by Ms. X 6 · 6⤊ 0⤋