Is it like at the beginning you are trying to impress then once you've been with the person for a long you feel it's no longer necessary. It's almost like you get so comfortable with someone you go out to dinner and don't speak and when something special comes up you don't really acknowledge it.
I hope I'm not in a relationship like that but I know many people who this has happened to.
2007-10-09 07:27:52 · 17 answers · asked by Brownie12866 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
SOUNDS LIKE NORMAL
I guess the ones that start off slow and as friendships are the last in my opinion.
2007-10-09 12:02:09 · answer #1 · answered by AAAA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No they don't have to. Think about your friendships and relationships with family. Those don't start off amazing then slowly become boring. Just like friendships, intimate relationships need to constantly grow and share exciting new experiences. Once things get comfortable is when you get to talk about things with the person that you'd probably never be able to talk about with anyone else. Once your done impressing each other you can really start appreciating each other.
2007-10-09 07:43:54 · answer #2 · answered by Douglas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think relationships just change. I'm currently in a relationship that has become better over time rather than worse. After over a year together we talk more than we ever did. We don't have sex 2 times a day anymore, but still often enough. This is the first time I've made it past the 7 month mark without questioning who I was with! : ) I'm happy!
2007-10-09 07:38:13 · answer #3 · answered by LoraC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
during the first few months or so of any relationship, you learn about your friend/SO/ what ever, about the likes/dislikes, attitudes. as you get comfortable with the person, you relax around them. in a bf/gf type relationship, you will get to a apoint where you know each other, have had sex, etc. and you start getting into a routine. this is normal with any relationship, but you can break that routine from time to time and spice things up. for example, the two of you are settling into a routine sex life. you decide however that instead of going into the bedroom again for sex, you are going to have it on th eliving room sofa. or in the car somewhere. or you will try something new.
2007-10-09 07:38:31 · answer #4 · answered by richard b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all times... but to some, unfortunately yes. One ingredient to a happy relationship is a constant communication.
Problems may always come in the way but we could resolve that early if we're just open to discuss the matter together.
Make it a point to find time with each other even you have kids of your own. Add some spice to your relationship. Always appreciate your partner even with little things they make.
2007-10-09 08:14:03 · answer #5 · answered by sasha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mine over time actually got better. You can't imagine how much better it is to finally quit worrying about impressing, pleasing, and just overall perfect behavior all of the time. Now I can actually FART in bed, as well as in front of her friends, and also enjoy shitting with the door open to the bathroom in HER apartment!! I also don't need to worry about brushing my teeth constantly, nor making sure my private parts are sanitized every fifteen minutes so they don't smell like a rancid bottle of nacho dip left out overnight.
2007-10-09 07:56:57 · answer #6 · answered by partyboy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
story of my life. maybe to get over this one has to develop a life outside the relationship and stop looking at it as the center of universe which is not.
my uncle who is a player and had trillions of girls says it's all fine at some point then the s h i t come on the surface and you see the real deal.
to me, there's gotta be something significant between 2 ppl to get over the boring zone, something that keeps them going, and i don't mean kids and money. when you know all his s h i t and still want him to be around, that's fabulous.
2007-10-09 07:42:55 · answer #7 · answered by sarah kay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, HOLY SH!T ...YES...
there are hundreds of reasons as to why but I think one of the most common reasons is that one or both parties is acting during the first few months, then when the other sees who they really are they get disgusted... it's happened to me a few times...
Also you have to come up with new things to do... if you're not married the routine of talk-on-phone/dinner/club/talk-on-phone/dinner/movie/sex/talk-on-phone/club/talk-on-phone
gets REALLY boring, no matter how funny or witty you are
2007-10-09 07:39:10 · answer #8 · answered by Undead 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just to tell you... it will happen in any relationship.... the key is comunication tell your partner how you feel what is going on just dont shut up.. and what u said is true eventually it wont be the same as it was
2007-10-09 07:32:22 · answer #9 · answered by Partyman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's way too easy to begin taking things for granted!! Any relationship takes work if you want to keep it amazing!!
2007-10-09 09:17:01 · answer #10 · answered by Ginny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋