okay im 18 and just started college. this guy in one of my classes likes me and wants to get coffee together or something. hes a nice guy but i dont know if I want a relationship because im young and just started college. i want to explore my options. i also wonder if there is something better when it comes to guys. is there anything wrong with this?? Besides im kind of emotinally immature. im just scared. what should i do?????
2007-10-09 01:46:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Listen to your instincts and stick by them. If you don't know if you want a relationship, don't go for it. Wait until you know for sure. I wasn't ready for a relationship but I got into one any ways. Yesterday after 4 months together I had to end it. You're in a new stage of your life, you have every right to want to keep your options open if that is what you want. Go out for coffee, keep it friendly and have fun.
It's natural to wonder if the grass is greener on the other side. When you are ready for a relationship don't hold back thinking something better might come along. Someone might and someone might not. If someone does then you will have a decision to make. Then again, don't settle for just anyone either. Take your time, don't rush things and always listen to your gut. If something doesn't feel right it isn't. You might be emotionally immature but you sound like you have a good head on your shoulders. Use it.
2007-10-09 02:18:55 · answer #1 · answered by Ersabette 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your 18 and have your whoel life ahead of you. It's ok to have coffee with him but make sure he knows it's just coffee. You dont want to ignore him in case he's the one. Go out and have fun, if your not ready for a relationship right now let him know, or any guy for that matter. Explore away b ut be careful, there are a lot of crazy people out there only looking to hurt naive, innocent girls. It wont hurt to have coffee, he may turn out to be a really good friend.
2007-10-09 08:52:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Emotinally immature, kinda stays with you for a while.Go have coffee,it isn't like you are committing to him and if you feel uncomfortable in a setting where it would be just you and him malke sure you have a friend waiting nearby ,like say at the coffee table behind you ,cause at least you can bail if you feel he is getting a little to clingy too fast.
2007-10-09 08:53:43 · answer #3 · answered by Amanda M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa, slow down a little, he just asked you out for coffee right? Explore your options and go out with him you never know unless you try, you might fall madly in love and end up getting married or you might just end up dating him from time to time or if you're really lucky you might end up with a new best friend that you have for the rest of your life, but either way saying yes to coffe or one date doesn't mean you're stuck with him forever but saying no slams the door on all possibilities.
2007-10-09 09:05:48 · answer #4 · answered by SternFan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having coffee doesn't mean he wants a relationship. I have coffee with people all the time with no ties afterward. It's a new friend having coffee and talking.
2007-10-09 08:53:09 · answer #5 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
getting coffee when youare in college doesnt mean you like him or he likes you. it jsut means coffee as friends or as college buddies. remember a semester is only a little over 3 months so you probably wont see him much after its over. if he wants more then he will invite you to dinner or sometihng else.
2007-10-09 08:58:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there is noting wrong with going out for coffee with someone,Just go out as friends and have fun.You do not have to get serious with someone until your ready.
2007-10-09 08:55:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋