I moved her from FL to CT about 8 months ago. But since I have lost my interest in her physically. She is a sweet lady.
2007-10-09 01:46:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
fact is when she moved here she was a size 6, now she is a size 14/16. I feel like a heel for admitting this but I am not attracted to her anymore.
2007-10-09 02:00:42 · update #1
Most men won't even start a relationship with a woman he's not physically interested in. Some people will say that it's shallow but I'd like to see these same people maintain a relationship with someone they're not attracted to.
It's unfortunate that she moved all that way for a relationship that's not working for her. I don't know who's fault that is but I think some good can come out of this if you handle it the right way. But, what is the right way? God only knows.
2007-10-09 02:06:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How come u let her move. I wish u check yourself first b4 u let her move. What if she really love u. Then u will just going to break her hurt. Man.. did u believe in karma. U said shes a sweet lady. Thats scary... But if u really doesnt like her anymore tell her the truth. Talk to her in calm way. Made a nice dinner and tell her what u really feel. But at first say sorry.. thats the best thing u can do. Then explain to her why. It will be hard also for u. Living with her while u dont have an interest to her. and one day she will realize that.. The more it will hurt her so bad.
2007-10-09 08:57:36 · answer #2 · answered by sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you not happy in the relationship then you have to say something , so she can find someone who can make her happy and is physically attracted to her. Just be honest and tell her that things have changed and its not working. And then help her move back to Fl , thats the only thing you can do at this point.
2007-10-09 08:51:24 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ MISS YELLOW DIAMOND★☺♀ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you love her as a person but think that you two are better suited for a platonic relationship rather than a romantic one. Say that you respect her enough to be upfront with her and not lead her on so that she won't waste time on a person who doesn't want a commitment. Tell her that she deserves to be happy, that's why you think she should pursue other people who are ready to commit to her.
2007-10-09 09:00:16 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Juts let her know that in the last 8 months your feelings have changed and it isnt working out. Let her know that you are sorry and you know you took her from her home, but offer to pay for her ticket back. If she has belongings here, offer to pay for 1/2 to get them back to Florida but let her know that the relationship is over.
2007-10-09 08:54:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well thats just rude. thats a long a s s way to move someone you have no physical interest in, there's obviously alot more to this story you're leaving out.
2007-10-09 08:50:50 · answer #6 · answered by teri is ambience 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her staright up that you are no longer interested. It's gonna hurt her but it's better than her living a lie. It sucks to do but it's gotta be done.
2007-10-09 08:50:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move her back to FL. Tell her why.
2007-10-09 08:53:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have to be honest and tell her. She moved her whole life for you, she deserves honesty.
2007-10-09 08:51:08 · answer #9 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋