Family & Relationships - 9 October 2007

On a date (to the movies), would you prefer a girl slowly leaning her head towards your shoulder, or just going for it and putting her head on your shoulder quickly?

2007-10-09 12:27:33 · 11 answers · asked by Maddy B 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to use color from my computer also

2007-10-09 12:25:35 · 4 answers · asked by preciouss 1 in Weddings

I have no father, no grandfather, no older brothers, no older male figure that I'm really all that close to. I'd honestly just like to skip the isle all together.

What I'd like to do is to have a nice dinner and get married there infront of our guests while they sit at their tables.

I don't want the room divided either. You know brides side, grooms side. I only have about 12 friends to invite. he has his parents, his siblings (7 of them) friends etc. It would look stupid to have all these people on one side and so few on the other.

Did anyone do anything similar? How did it go?

2007-10-09 12:24:27 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

this guy thinks hes everything to me just because he was my 1st luv, first and last guy i ever slept with. i was with him when i was 16 for about a year, we broke up, stopped talking for 4 yrs ..he asked me out again, but were not really together(another story)...and he knows inbetween those years i havent had sex with anyone and he made a comment hes like "i wonder how u would have turned out if u never met me", like he made a big difference in my life! he even knows i can get any guy i want ...so why is he so cocky? i never call him, he always calls me.....so what are some more things i can do to make him know that i dont need him!

2007-10-09 12:20:44 · 9 answers · asked by jess 1 in Singles & Dating

I gather men would have greater regrets than women?

2007-10-09 12:11:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

There is this girl I've known for 2 and half years and I don't know why, but she doesn't talk to me that much. You use to talk to me a lot, but she has been acting wierd. I'm a intelligent and not a cocky guy. We're both in 9th grade. I think she might like another guy and I have been getting heartaches on what to do. I feel like I should either quit our friendship or ask her out. I don't know what to do? What should I do? Please Help!!!! Thank you for people who respond to this question.

2007-10-09 12:10:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

or is there something that you can do?

2007-10-09 12:09:27 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-09 12:08:50 · 5 answers · asked by latino p 1 in Marriage & Divorce

please be honest...

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2007-10-09 12:07:47 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know there are guys out there that do respect women but we all have our needs and i knwo all males are "pervs" unless they are gay and sometimes we just "grab" and "touch" etc.....
and to the guys who answer this question and say they are not perverts ...then

1.they are ethier gay or dont have a girlfriend
2.or too scared to talk to women

2007-10-09 12:07:16 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

as these questions are obviously a PRANK and nothing more in order to prove that soul mates is such a bunch of crap! aren't out there any people with a sense of humour? read between the lines... 'my soulmate is married' lol 'my soulmate is a bad person' lol
isn't it hilarious that our so called soul mates are always perfect people obviously because we see ourselves as perfect too? there are no soul mates and nobody's perfect. thanks for the laugh but I thought someone might have figure the prank from the first question with the married soulmate.

2007-10-09 12:06:04 · 18 answers · asked by sarah kay 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok I'm pretty sure he likes me, but what am I supposed to say to find out? And make note of it, he hangs out with his friends a lot of the time I see him, so I hope your answer can relate to that... Plus, I can't just kiss him..

2007-10-09 12:01:54 · 12 answers · asked by Sara 2 in Singles & Dating

So I was going out with someone who we'll refer to as "A". So I used to really like him, but over the summer, things didn't go well, and I broke up with him last week. I still kinda like him, but that isn't even the main problem. I have been friends with his best friend "B" for a very very long time. I have come to realize that I really like him ("B"). I don't know if there is anyway that I can tell "B" how I feel withpout hurting either of them. I still care about "A" and am his friend, and obviously don't want to hurt his feelings, because that's mean. I don't know if this will cause a fight between "A" and "B", but I really love "B" and have a feeling he feels the same way about me, but I don't want our relationship to be ruined because I said something. I pretty much have no idea what to do. What. So. Ever. Any help is very much appreciated.

2007-10-09 12:00:50 · 5 answers · asked by radhika 3 in Friends

I'm getting married so how do I resign from the dating service?

2007-10-09 12:00:36 · 5 answers · asked by keithdunnington 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Sometimes i feel like i'm stuck in the rut of "just friends" with every girl i know. Its so frustrating (like artist's block) how can i get past this, i want to be taken seriuosly.

2007-10-09 11:59:45 · 18 answers · asked by Jerry 4 in Singles & Dating

I don't know what to do...I'm 27 years old and have been married for 1 1/2 years but we have been a couple for 13 1/2 years...My husband has been out of a job for 3 years now and will not get a job. We have bills that are so past due with shut off notices on everything. I work full time but can not swing everything myself I don't know if he loves me anymore because we only have sex like once every 3 months. He tells me he loves me more than anything. He is always going out with his single friends to bars/shooting pool etc. Does not come home until 3am or even until 5am. I don't know what to do I am so depressed please help me I don't want to leave him but I don't know what to do!! I've told him I'm going to leave him but he knows I have no where to go. He tells me I'm crazy because I cry all the time. When I get home from a long day of work he leaves the house and goes over his friends house. Please help me!

2007-10-09 11:56:39 · 17 answers · asked by Me and you 2 in Marriage & Divorce

if u told a gurl "im not always going to wait" because she hasnt gave u any for a while wat do u mean by that. ok and if she hasnt called u either for two days cuz she dont like callen ur house and she usually calls u on ur cell but it was disconnected and u acuse her of cheatin on u jux becuz she hasnt called but u havent called her either so wat is going on is it cuz u are the one cheatin and have a guilty con.

2007-10-09 11:56:16 · 2 answers · asked by the_one_and_only 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-09 11:52:33 · 4 answers · asked by Be My Angel :] 4 in Singles & Dating

There's been too much going on in my life the past few weeks and I think I'm going to explode! (not really though) I have an awful lot of catching up to do, my kids have done something to my computer, I passed my re-certification for arms (but, by the skin of my a55) I spent most of today at the hospital with my mother in law (she's really sick) and have to head out tomorrow to Lowell with my boy to the childrens hospital. I've tried to update the site http://shadowrai0.tripod.com/shad/ and things seem kind of out of sorts, I truly apologize for being so behind *^_^*



I will have next Mon, Tues and Wed off and should be good to go by then....

Please let me know who's with me as YA won't let me add anymore of you (crying) I think it should be unlimited, ya know?


Love you all more than you'll ever know *^_^*

All the very Best, Shad @)~>~

2007-10-09 11:42:25 · 13 answers · asked by ? 3 in Friends

Even though a lot of guys say that girls like guys with large packages, I have heard that girls would rather have average sized ones. Mine is 10 1/2 inches, and I'm wondering if this would hurt my chances with girls once they found out. Please let me know the truth.

2007-10-09 11:40:27 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I left my husband about 4 months ago. He was very abusive, but only when he drank. I told him that if he stopped drinking I would think about trying to make our marriage work again. He kept drinking for about 3 of the months I have been gone. But now he doesn't drink a lot anymore. He said he would get help, and we could go to marriage counciling. But within those 3 months that he refused to stop drinking I gave up hope and started dating this guy. I thought my husand would never stop if he hasn't even tried yet. So I let myself fall for this other man. This guy is so great. So sweet. So caring. And he loves my kids. We are so crazy for each other. But I love my husband. He wants me to move in with him outta state when he gets stationed. I talked to my new guy about this today and he is devastated. If I go back to my husband there is a chance he will hit me again. And I would be throwing away what might be a great thing with my new guy. I don't know what to do. Love is blind, so I'm going to you guys for some outside advise. Who do I choose? My husband... or my boyfriend?

2007-10-09 11:40:11 · 18 answers · asked by :) 2 in Marriage & Divorce

and is it very likely he does not respect you?men do you or do you not like easy women?

2007-10-09 11:40:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when i first met my husband he would drink every weekend and stay out all night and i know he did drugs but when i finally started dating him he stopped and cleaned up his act we now have been married for 2 1/2 years and he is now back to his old days he come home on the weekend like at 7am drunk and high i somtimes feel he might be out cheating on me but then i also think he is on drugs all night and thats why he stays up we also have been fighting alot and i found a girls number in his phone which he later erased after i asked about it . but even though he comes home late he always and i mean always wants to have sex so my friends say if he was out cheating he wouldn't come home (even if late ) for sex . What do you think?

2007-10-09 11:38:54 · 22 answers · asked by jessica1210 2 in Marriage & Divorce

A discussion at work today led to me making a comment that it isn't right to hit a woman during an argument. I said that if an argument escalates to that point and a man can't control himself, he needs to walk away.

Everyone got *very* angry with me and said that my way of thinking is sexist, I was completely shocked to hear that! I was told that by saying that a man shouldn't hit a woman, that's like saying that a woman isn't capable of taking care of herself in a fight, which isn't what I was trying to suggest AT ALL!

So that's my question for you. Is it sexist to believe that violence against women is wrong?

Thanks in advance for your answers! :)

2007-10-09 11:38:30 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have not had a relationship with my father for many years and that's OK with me. I'm getting married this month and have asked my boss, who is practically a father to me, to walk me down the aisle. Now we are making the programs and I'm wondering what kind of title he should have. Any ideas?

2007-10-09 11:33:32 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

the new format is confusing why cant they just switch it back? i dont like it like this. i no this has nothing to do with relationships but it wouldnt get answered elsewhere

2007-10-09 11:32:25 · 4 answers · asked by Thomas 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband only tells me he loves me if i say it first and I feel he is not as afectionate as he was before only if he is drinking he acts all lovey with me and tells me he loves me and misses me and is soo nice is it maybe he does not really love me anymore?

2007-10-09 11:32:25 · 8 answers · asked by jessica1210 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-09 11:29:40 · 5 answers · asked by Constitution 4 in Family

My friend is older and this is her 4th marriage

2007-10-09 11:28:58 · 4 answers · asked by Marla C 1 in Weddings

I know some people disagree with going to church. Lets leave that argument to the side. What if you were attending church, and you are a new member, and make friends with one member, then he introduces you to the rest of the kids, you hang out for a few months, then it all falls apart and they all hate you. You go back to the church every once in a while because you have to (mom says, or you go because a younger family member wants to go and can't by themselves), and when you encounter these people in this circle they are extremely rude to you, like, there is no way you can go without some run-in with them no matter how low-profile you try to be. What do you do? What do I do?

2007-10-09 11:28:28 · 19 answers · asked by perfectlybaked 7 in Friends