I know there are guys out there that do respect women but we all have our needs and i knwo all males are "pervs" unless they are gay and sometimes we just "grab" and "touch" etc.....
and to the guys who answer this question and say they are not perverts ...then
1.they are ethier gay or dont have a girlfriend
2.or too scared to talk to women
2007-10-09 12:07:16 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh and im not a perv and i have a gf but i just keep hearing complaints from my guyfriends that their gf's dont let them touch them at all anymore
2007-10-09 12:29:13 · update #1
im not talking about just random guys on the street im talking about couples here!!
who have a bf geez
2007-10-09 12:31:24 · update #2
girls that have bf i mean
2007-10-09 12:31:53 · update #3
dude, i agree with you to a certain extent, yes i believe there is a perv in every man, it's how you control him that makes the difference. you can't be an all out perv using the excuse, "it's cause im a man" that's B.S. you gotta treat women right, just out of respect, you can't let your hormones get the best of you, if you do you aint much of a man if you ask me.
2007-10-09 12:11:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Hmm...why do women not like disrespectful, inconsiderate, immature men? Wow...it's pretty straight forward. So are you a perv and it's not getting you anywhere? Let's put 2 and 2 together. If you want some action, be more of a gentleman.
So then...
1. Grow up, act like a gentleman, and it will get you further; or
2. Be a perv and get slapped across the face the next time you try to "grab" or "touch" someone.
Your choice. Let's see if you are as stupid as you are perverted.
2007-10-09 12:16:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My thoughts are perverted, yes. But I do NOT just GRAB or TOUCH. I will initiate a meeting, yes, crack jokes, maybe even a dirty one or two if the originals were well received, then get a phone number. A woman wanting you with them, who you've become familiar with and they with you will want you to be a perv, in the appropriate times. Haven't had one yet doesn't like that I'm a perv, and appreciate that I know when and where to be one.
2007-10-09 12:16:16 · answer #3 · answered by ihatepenndot 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well personally i think we dont like pervs is because the women feel uncomfortable with the guy, and its harder to trust those kinds of guys
girl just hate it when they dont like a guy and they touch them and be a perv around them....so if u have a girl friend thats ok with u being a perv then thats cool..i guess
also i think that all guys are pervs because its just naturally like that, but some have more self control then others..........and those are the kind of guys that women like....they feel more comfortable around them and like they owe themselfs....u know not like the guy owing a girl....grabbing them places....
also we believe that the guys that have self control over being a perv are more faithful, and truthfull......they wount go around and cheat on u, just because they saw a hott chick........that pretty much why
and also think about it would u want a girl to be a perv....go and grab u places......of cource u would since ur a perv but...whatevr its comfusing
=) ok well, bye hope i helped
2007-10-09 12:20:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pervs? Disgusting! Men should have respect for a woman
and when she says NO that's exactly what she means. If a
man grabbed or touched me, he would get the exact same
thing the last jerk tried. My best friends ex husband broke
into my home 30 years ago. I had long nails and they were
sharp. I slashed him across the face when he grabbed me &
in the same instant my right knee came up--good and hard.
He left screaming. He never tried it again. No man has a right
to touch a woman against her will.
2007-10-09 12:14:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you, but it depends, if i like a guy and he likes to "grab" or "touch" then i wouldn't mind that much-or should i say i wouldn't think that he is a pervert but if some guy that i dont like or i think is not attractive in any way comes up to me and "grabs" or "touches" then i would think he is a pervert...cuz eww im sure all girls would agree with me that they dont like some ugly perv coming to touch them or flirt or anything, well at least those who are not desperate
2007-10-09 12:12:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there is a big difference between being a perv and being really sexual. Perverts don't respect the women they are with...making rude comments, looking at other women, being too grabby. Now, being sexual and exploring that with a woman is great.
2007-10-09 12:15:25 · answer #7 · answered by rhonda y 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You confuse the word pervert with meaning interested in sex. Two completely different meanings. Pervert denotes a morally corrupt individual who does acts outside of social acceptability. Therefore your statement regarding all guys being perverted is not only wrong based on the definition but a simple mathematical impossibility.
2007-10-09 12:11:03 · answer #8 · answered by jay k 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
We don't like people who touch or grab us because that is a red flag that they, in fact, do NOT respect women and certainly do not respect personal space and privacy. When men touch or grab women, it tells us "Hey baby, I think you are nothing more than an object of my sexual desires, not a person to be respected as my equal"
OHHH! Well f my boyfriend is like that, no I don't mind at all. Odds are he is is just screwin around.
2007-10-09 12:11:01 · answer #9 · answered by Megegie 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
OMG what cave do you live in!!
I have met plenty of straight men who don't need to grab and touch without invite!!
Women have needs too - having needs does not make you a pervert! Being a pervert does!!
2007-10-09 12:10:22 · answer #10 · answered by libbyft 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋