this guy thinks hes everything to me just because he was my 1st luv, first and last guy i ever slept with. i was with him when i was 16 for about a year, we broke up, stopped talking for 4 yrs ..he asked me out again, but were not really together(another story)...and he knows inbetween those years i havent had sex with anyone and he made a comment hes like "i wonder how u would have turned out if u never met me", like he made a big difference in my life! he even knows i can get any guy i want ...so why is he so cocky? i never call him, he always calls me.....so what are some more things i can do to make him know that i dont need him!
2007-10-09 12:20:44 · 9 answers · asked by jess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think he already knows,get the hint already. He was just being nice to you because he was your first.
If you tell him you have a new boyfriend he probably will breathe a sigh of relief.
Good luck
2007-10-09 12:24:59 · answer #1 · answered by Dfirefox 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no don't lie to him. why don't you just act like you don't care! why are you even picking up his phone calls?! he's your ex. guys do this. they want you to think they're all you ever had and they do this to make themselves feel good. don't fall into his traps. if you don't like him anymore and if you want to get over him, you have to start off by losing all contact with him. getting over your first love is hard, i know because i've been there and it took me a while... he's not everything trust me. there are other guys and you know it. just don't talk to him, don't look at him, don't even think about him.
2007-10-09 19:26:30 · answer #2 · answered by ٩(̾●̮̮̃̾•̃̾)۶ Gatorade 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just need to quit talking to him if you don't want to be with him anymore. Very simple solution. Telling him about a new boyfriend just says you still care for him and want him to notice you. Simply ignoring him when he calls or wants to see you will be more effective.
2007-10-09 19:26:26 · answer #3 · answered by Francisco B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a dependable bf.
Romans 10
2007-10-09 19:42:04 · answer #4 · answered by robert p 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell him anything. Stop communicating with him. Stop answering his phone calls, emails, text messages, etc. And who cares what he thinks?
2007-10-09 19:26:08 · answer #5 · answered by Ms. X 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems like u still like him...if u dont then just ignore him...end of story...or tell him ur pregnant and that will scare him away..lol
2007-10-09 19:25:22 · answer #6 · answered by oykarumba7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time he calls and you speak to him, say " oh yea i meant to tell you but you've been replaced!"
2007-10-09 19:28:07 · answer #7 · answered by jazzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh... ditch him? :/ DUH! You don't need someone to spell it out for you - just ditch the arrogant moron and find yourself a better man who you actually ENJOY spending time with.
2007-10-09 19:23:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no just break up w/ him
^_^
2007-10-09 19:23:30 · answer #9 · answered by Yem 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋