Family & Relationships - 9 October 2007

My hubby has been very inconsiderate and mean. sometimes I think he is just plain immature. He wants me to ask my dying father to repay a loan and I refuse to ask. I thinkits a horrible way to treat my father on his deathbed. I baby my hubby and do everything for him except wipe his butt and I feel disrespected by his selfish behavior, we dont need the money. I dont want my last memories of my dad to be about greedily asking for money, that I never really expected to get back. Im soo mad, but I dont want to fight with him..but I want him to know im serious about this. what do I do? Should I sleep onthe couch til he says sorry or should I move to the camper for awhile...or stay with a cousin til he comes to his sences?

2007-10-09 18:15:10 · 22 answers · asked by kissy_karissa 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I know it is wrong and although I am not legally married, I am in a relationship with someone but, I cheat on him all the time. I have tried to stop but, its like second nature to me. Can I get help for this that does not involve counseling because I have already tried that and it has not worked.

2007-10-09 18:09:21 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I think I know but I would like your opinons to confirm what I believe.theres this guy in my class an he's to talk to in class, the only reason I exchaged number was to study sometime, but honestly I have no time for that. The thing is he likes me, an I dont like him. i get a bad feeling from him, an when I talk to him on the phone it doesnt seem right. He was talking about a paper we have due in November an quickly says you can come in my bedroom an study, I was anyway, I wonder what the topics will be. this guy is up to something I can feel it strong, What can i do,to avoid him he's in my class an has my number? The thing is I feel disgusted after he said that, Im upset. I mean I see righ through him. But I need your advice please

2007-10-09 18:07:37 · 5 answers · asked by pixieprincess 3 in Friends

i think theyre really trashy

2007-10-09 18:07:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband is alone, literally. I'm the only person in the world he has. His mother...well, haven't got even a call in almost a year. He tried to speak with his brother on messenger, and he didn't answered... he is just so sad sometimes... I want to cheer him up. I'm always hugging him, calling him etc, but i know that form the inside he still sad. I want to cheer him up, but how?

2007-10-09 18:05:36 · 22 answers · asked by Pinky 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been with him for four years now and nothing.When i ask him if he'll ever marry me he gets frustrated and says he dosen't believe in it.Or he says maybe he dosen't know.If i ask him if he'll leave me for another he says he can't say.Hes the kind of guy that can't promise anything cause he just dosen't know so he says. PLEASE HELP WHAT DOES IT SOUND LIKE TO YOU????

2007-10-09 18:02:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I need help figuring out what it is my wife is looking for. Ive recently discovered that she isnt happy with our sex but she wont tell me what it is she really wants. I need help in figuring out what it is she needs, I know she "likes it rough" but not to crazy. Ive always felt kinda awkward doing that kinda thing but Ive been trying hard to please her... no joy. Help?!?!!

2007-10-09 17:59:20 · 10 answers · asked by prydespride 2 in Marriage & Divorce

She doesn't need help with rent. I do not even have money. She wants me to spend my SS money which I am putting away for college since I am going to be the one that ends up paying for my education. She could have at least waited until a few days after my birthday.

I'm already having a sucky birthday and she just made it worse.

2007-10-09 17:53:53 · 31 answers · asked by creep show 1 in Family

im 22 years old and have never had a gf,and never really even had a girl interested in me that i have liked. my virginity is not a choice, girls just dont like me! it seems i always fall straight into the friend wagon, never the boyfriend. this has made me lose self confidence to the point where i really dont see myself picking up ever again! lately I have been getting really depressed about it, especially when i have mates talking about going out with a girl or taking them home, something i can't relate to but wish i could! I am quite ugly and do understand why most girls aren't really into me (short, overweight, pale, freckles, bad scar across my nose, bad teeth, very hairy back and chest...etc). I have contemplated suicide, however really just couldn't do it to my family and friends..... I am too embarassed to talk to anyone i know about it, mainly cos i feel like im just whinging....im fit and healthy, i should be happy!

2007-10-09 17:53:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-09 17:50:45 · 8 answers · asked by Roxy 2 in Singles & Dating

I have lied to him over and over again. I promise him I will be honest, but i end up lying again.

2007-10-09 17:47:55 · 8 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

I cant seem to go a week with out fighting with my wife.
My wife sleeps works and spends time with our kids and thats about it throw in some chores and call it a day.Why cant she still do some stuff with me make an effort to spice up our life.

2007-10-09 17:43:25 · 22 answers · asked by Timothy M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-09 17:39:23 · 8 answers · asked by kenya 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-09 17:37:48 · 4 answers · asked by ronald s 2 in Marriage & Divorce

WELL NO ONE IN MY SKOOL ARE VIRGINS AND I FEEL SMART BUT LIKE AN OUTCAST CUZ THEY ALL TALK ABOUT IF THE GUYS ARE BIG AND THEY MAKE FUN OF ME WELL I LIKE THIS GUY ALOT AND I THINK I MIGHT LOOSE IT TO HIM BUT I DONT WANNA BE AN IDIOT ABOUT IT OK AND I LOVE HIM ALOT AND WE ARE CLOSE AND HAVE BEEN FOR THE PAST OH IDK 6 YEARS CLOSE I MEAN IT BUT OUT OF ALL MY FRIENDS IM THE ONLY VIRGIN SO WHAT DO I DO DO I GIVE IT UP TO HIM OR DO I REMAIN AN OUT CAST AND THE GIRL EVERYONE MAKES FUN OF

2007-10-09 17:35:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have this friend who is on the heavier side and a boy said she was fat when she was sitting right next to me. She totally heard, because he was practically speaking to her. I was so shocked he said that when she was right there and she looked fine, like it happened a lot. She's shy and she didn't say anything so I blurted out "Shut up. You're fat!"
It wasn't exactly the best comeback, but it was all I could think of. She looked a little more relieved. I was shocked he just said that to her face. (The boy is an idiot by the way...and I mean like, a straight F student by the way.) It's amazing how he could just say that!! I swear if I was her I would have slapped him so hard! I was almost ready to. I'm pretty thin so I felt so bad and awkard!

What would you have said?
Was what I said right?

2007-10-09 17:34:08 · 14 answers · asked by poprollrock 3 in Friends

Say it was just a 1 night stand, not a long term affair. Would you leave or not?

2007-10-09 17:31:06 · 18 answers · asked by ♥bigmamma♥ 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I see alot of questions from girls about losing thier virginity and everyone tells them its a big step and guys say how much they like virgin girls. but what about vice versa. is it a big deal when a guy loses his?

2007-10-09 17:30:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i feel realy left out

2007-10-09 17:28:02 · 1 answers · asked by jessicakly 1 in Friends

We are both 23 yr olds........I am studing abroad in Computer Science while she is a dentist back home. We both will be completing our studies this year. Ill be looking for a job abroad and hopefully I should be doing well by next year.
In her case however her parents are in a hurry to find someone for her and get her married. They already know about us but they are not ready to give me time till my parents send them a proposal. She wants to get committed too as she is under pressure from her parents all the time. Sometimes we end up fighting about it and I dont know how to console her.
My parents are very conservative and they want us to wait till I am stable, to approach her parents. Also there are other issues involving family differences. But I think things will workout once we are married
So when should we get committed? When would be the right time for us to get married............good enough for me to be stable, support her and also support further education for her

2007-10-09 17:25:55 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

A girl who has a tattoo or piercing...
HOT? NOT? or DEPENDS?

2007-10-09 17:22:23 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My father just had a massive heart attack this past week and the Dr. says he will not live much longer with the damage to his heart. He has had several heart attacks and has had open heart surgery and there is no more they can do for him...the Dr. says he will die soon. I love my father and want to enjoy what time he has left...But,I lent my father $400 earlier in this year for a Dr. Appt., I never expected the money back..I told my husband that and I told my dad that. Dad keeps telling my hubby he owes him soo muchand will repay him and that he loves and appriciates us. However, my husband asked me to ask my father for the money back tomorrow..I told him I refuse to ask. My hubby wants the money back now because my father recieved some money recently and lent $2,600 of the money to my oldest sister. I dont think the $400 is worth starting a fight about, expecially now. I cant get him to stop pressuring me to ask for the money back. What do I do?

2007-10-09 17:17:47 · 25 answers · asked by kissy_karissa 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been with my girlfriend for a few months now, and I know I'm in love with her, but I can't bring myself to tell her. I sense she feels strongly for me too, and I feel that she wants me to say it because she won't first. But something holds me back.

I know I shouldn't hold grudges for past relationships, but in the past I've dealt with a lot of untrustworthy women, especially my last gf, who would take advantage of my feelings. So I can't shake the feeling that there's something I don't trust about her. Am I being paranoid? Everything I know about her so far suggests she's different from the others, but I just feel so guarded.

2007-10-09 17:12:13 · 4 answers · asked by redguard572001 2 in Singles & Dating

how to know they love us or not
how to know their feeling

2007-10-09 17:08:55 · 18 answers · asked by jack s 1 in Friends

Just wondering?

2007-10-09 17:08:43 · 10 answers · asked by Elainea 3 in Family

my friend, (he's a guy, i'm a girl) greets me in his letters by saying "hi chicken". how do i reply in a similar way without being rude or nasty.

should i say hi pumpkin or .....................................?

2007-10-09 17:00:23 · 4 answers · asked by Flo-zinger 1 in Friends

Sometimes we get infatuated with people and think we love them. Sometimes people fall out of love. I'm dating someone who always comes to see me, but says he only loves me a little. He hasn't called me in 5 days, even though we have been together over 2 years and we have always talked or seen each other everyday.

It has been a rocky relationship. Part of me thinks it is over, but another part of me says I love him and I should just give him his space and not give up on our relationship. Howver, I don't want to be loving anybody that doesn't love me. Is it true love if the other person always needs space or rarely agrees with you? How do you know if it is true love?

2007-10-09 16:58:38 · 4 answers · asked by oh really 3 in Singles & Dating

I've realized that I like to crack jokes alot, & people tend to laugh at them. & I've also realized that from doing stupid things, that are kinda just me.. they call me 'stupid' and 'retarded' alot. & I don't really appreciate it

Also, since I act so 'retarded', my friends assume that I'm really stupid & can't do anything well. Sure, I'm not the BRIGHTEST person. You can't expect me to be all genius & all. Y'know?

So I've realized with this one friend. I make her laugh alot, & she's always like: Arielle, you're soo retarded! Or something similar.

& I love drawing, so does she. So whenever I draw something it's almost like a reflex, she is always like: Mine's better. Like I drew something today, & she was like: I think mine's better. & I mean, I really do think I'm nice, but I couldn't help but get snappy.

& she's always putting me down. Like: Ew, Arielle, your outfit totally doesn't match. I mean, at least I have a life & I'm not always trying to coordinate.

Idunno..

2007-10-09 16:58:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Could you tell someone something without even knowing them and just looking into their eyes?

2007-10-09 16:56:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-09 16:56:00 · 4 answers · asked by miguel c 1 in Friends