WELL NO ONE IN MY SKOOL ARE VIRGINS AND I FEEL SMART BUT LIKE AN OUTCAST CUZ THEY ALL TALK ABOUT IF THE GUYS ARE BIG AND THEY MAKE FUN OF ME WELL I LIKE THIS GUY ALOT AND I THINK I MIGHT LOOSE IT TO HIM BUT I DONT WANNA BE AN IDIOT ABOUT IT OK AND I LOVE HIM ALOT AND WE ARE CLOSE AND HAVE BEEN FOR THE PAST OH IDK 6 YEARS CLOSE I MEAN IT BUT OUT OF ALL MY FRIENDS IM THE ONLY VIRGIN SO WHAT DO I DO DO I GIVE IT UP TO HIM OR DO I REMAIN AN OUT CAST AND THE GIRL EVERYONE MAKES FUN OF
2007-10-09 17:35:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, you definitely should not have sex at age 13. You might think that you are the only virgin out there but you are not. Many people are not having sex at your age. It's best to wait to have sex until you are married. You shouldn't even worry about dating or boys until you are at least 16. Please talk to your parents about this and let them help you through this time.
Here's a booklet that is made for teens. It can help you know what you can do in your life that will make you happy:
http://www.lds.org/youthresources/pdf/ForStrengYouth36550.pdf
2007-10-09 17:42:24 · answer #1 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way .. you're only considering of losing your virginity because your friends aren't virgins. If they WERE virgins, would you still lose it to this guy? At 13, you're not developed enough emotionally to understand the consequences of sex. You're being pressured because your friends are making you feel like a loser and an outcast. These 'friends' of yours are extremely immature and you should probably find new friends who respect you for your own choices. Don't do it - you're not ready and afterwards, you'll feel terrible . Regret is the worst feeling in the world - and with your virginity, you can never get it back.
2007-10-09 17:45:49 · answer #2 · answered by rainbowstylin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all it shouldn't ever matter what other people think....when you grow up & mature you will realize that. Thats a big part of your life, and you shouldn't do it just cause your friends did and they make fun of you. Thats a reason you shouldnt do it. And 13 year olds have no business having sex anyway you should be playing with barbies or something...and dont say you love someone cuz you dont even know what it is. wait like 4 years until you grow up
2007-10-09 17:44:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
REMAIN A VIRGIN!
I'm a hypocrite for saying that, BUT the wait is WORTH it! You're only THIRTEEN! You have sooo many other boys that are waiting, don't waste it on someone who's in your life right now! It's very tempting, but thirteen? Hunny, the CHILDREN in your school are living too fast.
PLUS
the first time you have sex with someone, there's this chemical in the body that releases and its the main reason everyone says their FIRST time is their best. BUT the person you had it with, you'll never forget, in your mind, you'll always think he's the best, which is why they say to wait for MARRIAGE
2007-10-09 17:45:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Giving up your virginity is a GIFT to someone you unconditionally love, at a mature level. At 13 you have not aspired to that, yet.
Do not do it, if you do you will regret it. Do not fold under peer pressure. What is good for your friends is not good for you.
Please, please think on this. Wait until you are older and it will be more special.
Let your friend smirk and tease. The don't know squat about what it is all about. You won't until you are older and mature enough to handle the emotions and feelings that come with a decision so serious.
2007-10-09 17:44:43 · answer #5 · answered by Ako E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 13 you should remain an outcast. I know that is uncomfortable. I was a puter geek/brain in school, and did not have sex until 18.
Sure the urge is there, and lots of peer pressure, but to hell with those girls. They are going to have their hearts broken because it is rare to find your one true love with almost no experience dating.
Sex is great, but I suggest that you masturbate to relieve tension, and save intercourse for later.
2007-10-09 17:44:44 · answer #6 · answered by Schtupa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your wayyyy to young to be thinking about things like this, if everybody in your school has already lost their virginity, well we know who the future hookers are going to be. you shouldnt care what they think, and you do what you think its right. Just think what can happen after sex, if you aren't safe, you could become pregnant, and your life is stalled. You could also ruin your relationship with one of your close friends because "everybody else is doing it". this is where the analogy applies, "if your friends jumped off a cliff, would you too?"
2007-10-09 17:46:03 · answer #7 · answered by Mooshak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those girls are lying through their teeth. Call them sluts and tell them that at least you won't end up pregnant or with an STD because you don't go around spreading your legs. Don't give up your virginity just because you think the rest of the school is doing it.
2007-10-09 17:43:45 · answer #8 · answered by RedRabbit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...i say that u should stay true.
if ur friends r making fun of ur virginity at flippin 13...they OBVIOUSLY arent ur friends. im 13 as well, and i have both virgin and non virgin freiends, and i know that wat they did was fully up to them, and if they want to get pregnant and ruin 2 human beings lives at the same time...thats their life they are ruining not mine...so i say stay true.
and dont to anything that u may and or WILL regret in the future...
2007-10-09 17:44:39 · answer #9 · answered by maya m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait everyone at your school is not a virgin anymore. What kind of middle school do you go to.
2007-10-09 17:44:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋